I'm still in love with my Ex boyfriend

Most people will tell you he is an ex for a reason don't go back cause the reasons you broke up before will still be around on the next go. I think honestly it will depend on you individually because everyone has different experiences. I think its a good idea to stay away for now, your feelings are still pretty fresh since its only been a few months, i would continue to work on yourself and do things just for you. Don't hold out and not date if someone new shows you interest because you want to hold out for the ex. Move forward. If it is meant to be it will happen.

My first bf I "thought" I loved dearly we were together for years and he dumped me and I thought it was the end of the world. I finally moved on reluctantly but ended up meeting someone I truly loved with all my heart. I have never spoken to my 1st ever since realizing I really didnt love the 1st guy at all. Of course after 2 years the man I thought was my soulmate broke my heart as well. I moved on again but never stopped loving him. After 3 years I finally decided I was sick of not knowing what could have been, so I woke up one morning and went to email my ex and as I logged into my email there was an email from him staring back at me with the same questions I was going to ask him! We started emailing daily and it was as if we never lost those 3 years. My friends and family said to stay away no good will come I will get my feelings hurt all over. But now 2 years later we are married Thats is my experience and not many will share that.

It is normal to wonder "what if?" It will take time to heal from your relationship and if its meant to be it will be. Focus on yourself first and don't jump into anything. I believe you will feel it in your heart if it is right thing for you. Hope that helps.

theres nothing for me to do but to move on and continue living... right?

maybe not....if you want but aint sure...chase...leave no stone unturned....make sure....you have doubts...si? it aint over till its over

But he broke up with her, not the other way around. He shouldn't be texting her when he has a girlfriend, right? So going back to what I'm saying... he needs time (even if he wouldn't agree) to think over WHO he wants. If she jumps right back on the hook, he'll sit there and think he's got it made - two women.

I say, oh no you don't!

He broke up with me... 6months ago and, Im still not over him... in fact I still love him and I know feelings are still there, but I guess I should just ignore them because he already has a new girlfriend.

We broke up - for multiple reasons honestly, and it was much needed. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first love and I was his first Girlfriend and love as well. We needed to experience life outside of each other and this time apart has changed me and Ive grown soo much, Im very happy. In the 6 months we've been apart Ive lost 60lbs and I saw him at the gym last monday where he definitly noticed the weight loss, we talked & later that night he even texted me. (i ignored the text though)

Seeing him, chatting and him texting me later, let me know that he still isnt over me either and feelings are still there... BUT he has a girlfriend *sigh*

I guess ill just keep doing me and living life and what will happen will happen right? If hes meant to be in my life he will be... theres nothing for me to do but to move on and continue living... right?

He texted you and said that even though he has a girlfriend? Sounds like a bit of a douche.

Why not concentrate on yourself and loosing weight????????????

that is what im doing

its just running into him last week and having him text me has put him on my mind... im trying to push him back out tho and just focus on me

sometimes it doesnt matter how far out of the relationship you are, you run into someone and think "what it" It especially happens with your first love as you tend to put them on a pedestal so to speak.

I had a horrible break up a few years ago. actually it was probably only horrible for me because I thought he was the one and he broke up with me because he just didnt love me like that. It was actually the most mature break up I've ever been involved in but I was still devastated. In any case, we talked and texted afterward and it was probably the worst thing I could have done. I remained hung up on him and didnt allow myself to move on. I couldnt change what he felt (or rather didn't feel) for me, but I kept hanging on and trying. Eventually I realized what I was doing and how bad it was for me, and stopped talking to him for several months. Years later I can talk to him and dont feel any of that but it took time. I honestly think if you talk to this guy it will make it harder to move on. You just hit a little set back by running into him - it brought back old feelings and they are likely intensified by the fact that he was your first love, broke up with you, hes the one who initiated contact again last night.

You need to just be strong and let it go I say. Don't message him back just because you feel a little vulnarable after running into him - you seemed to be doing pretty good before that.

If its meant to be then he'll pursue you in the future, hopefully when he doesnt have a girlfriend.