Oh no, woman changes hair!

Well I for one agree with you. I'm not a big fan of short hair on women, myself included. 16 years ago my hairdresser decided to cut off 8 inches without telling me. I was growing out a really bad perm at the time. To say the least I was shocked. I went from hair below my shoulders to a bob that was cut so short she had to buzz the back. I couldn't even put it up on the sides let alone a pony tail. The same thing happened when I was little. I had hair to the middle of my back and my mother decided I should have the Dorothy Hamil haircut. I cried so hard when they turned me around at the salon. Other than those two times I've always had at least shoulder length hair. I'll wear long hair to my grave probably. The last time I cut off more than a few inches it was after months of thought and prep with my husband. He said he liked the cut I chose. After I did it he told me he missed my longer hair. I wanted to smack him so hard. But really I couldn't cuz I missed it too even though the new 'do was just above the shoulder! Anyway, my advice is to not say anything negative to her. Ask her what she thinks about it and tell her you prefer longer hair, but that if she's happy so are you. Best of luck!

Who gives a ****? As long as it's not the Librarian bun.

I agree the mom bob is a no-no. Red hair though? now you're talkin'!

Haha, too funny.

I am naturally brunette, but I was blonde from age 11-21.

At the time, I was dating a guy who naturally gravitated towards blondes, but I had been contemplating going back to brunette for about...5 years and just hadn't had the guts to do it just yet.

One day my roommate decided she was going to go red (she's Irish and was strawberry blonde at the time), so I worked up the courage to go brunette, and deeeep brunette.

Needless to say, I looked like two different people and it's funny when people have to double-take with the brunette. I've been brunette for about 4 years now and I love it. Also, the guy I was dating ended up liking brunettes (or maybe it was just me...haha, jk). )

I think it depends on the style and color and especially how well a person can wear it.

I'd hold off on judgement until you've seen it - she hasn't necessarily told you she chopped everything off or what she did to it exactly. Maybe it's something entirely different that you'll really like.

My husband thinks the same way as you. Funnily he convinced me to grow it out... and doesn't care what i do.... as long as it keeps growing out.
Just lie and tell her it looks nice

Be thankful the change wasn't you!

kmsl that's true...i could of been you...:laugh:

In my Psychology classes I've found that men find long hair, below the breasts, to be the "most attractive." This is because long hair is viewed as a sexual symbol, and for some reason, makes the woman appear more "fertile" because she has healthy long hair. Really, the long hair that you are so attracted to is really her ability to have a child that you are attracted to. (Coming from an evolutionary / human preservation perspective).

On another note: Women feel better about themselves when they get haircuts. Appreciate the excitement and boost and in "your woman's" self-esteem.

If I had a man I'd actually be concerned about what he thought was attractive, just like I hope he would consider my preferences before doing anything crazy different.... just sayin'

Be thankful the change wasn't you!

This!

well thank you very much...:happy: I have not crossed over into middle age. And I won't for a long time.

My husband and I have a deal, I wont cut my hair short and he wont shave his mustache off.