1st day & already frustrated

Crazy_House
Crazy_House Posts: 3
edited November 8 in Introduce Yourself
I just saw a dietitian for the 1st time yesterday & she got me all set up with this website for tracking my food & I thought I was doing great until I sat down to calculate a snack & realized that I have hardly any protein or fat left & A TON of Carbs & a pretty good amount of calories left. This is what I have left after Breakfast & Lunch & before any snacks or Dinner...

Totals 1,185 87 51 58
Your Daily Goal 2,220 305 74 83
Remaining 1,035 218 23 25

I'm having a really hard time figuring out what in the world I'm going to eat for dinner that won't go over my protein or fat allowance but would use up the rest of my carbs & calories!!
Please help, I've emailed the dietitian I saw but I have a feeling I won't hear from her as it's already later in the afternoon on a Friday :(
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  • mkcressotti
    mkcressotti Posts: 5 Member
    These numbers are crazy. I suggest you look at the labels for the calories and enter the food you into the data base this will help you in the area that you need help with
  • RoboLikes
    RoboLikes Posts: 519 Member
    Can I ask what your breakfast and lunch were?

    Also, don't be frustrated, this is actually good. You are seeing what you are eating contains too much fat, carbs, etc and now you know to read labels before you eat.
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    Don't worry if you go over protein allowance - MFP sets the bar very low there. If you're aiming to lose weight, don't worry too much if you do go over on fat or carbs and just try to refine it in future - calories are the killer factor here.

    Take your time, this is just the beginning. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
  • bkbabe99
    bkbabe99 Posts: 96 Member
    Please don't get frustrated. As you said it's only your first day. For today just concentrate on getting your goal of calories in. Tomorrow is another day.
  • raylenebrooks
    raylenebrooks Posts: 137 Member
    I always go way over protein as I drink 2 protein shakes a day. But fats are easy to avoid look at where they are coming from I have no idea what you are eating. Fruits and vegies have no fat or protein :)
  • leansandra
    leansandra Posts: 8 Member
    My problem is different the program calculates that I'm always over on protein but meet/exceeds my goals in other nutrients. I think the fiber goals set are set too low. Recommended fiber 25-35g/day....
  • Di3012
    Di3012 Posts: 2,247 Member
    I just saw a dietitian for the 1st time yesterday & she got me all set up with this website for tracking my food & I thought I was doing great until I sat down to calculate a snack & realized that I have hardly any protein or fat left & A TON of Carbs & a pretty good amount of calories left. This is what I have left after Breakfast & Lunch & before any snacks or Dinner...

    Totals 1,185 87 51 58
    Your Daily Goal 2,220 305 74 83
    Remaining 1,035 218 23 25

    I'm having a really hard time figuring out what in the world I'm going to eat for dinner that won't go over my protein or fat allowance but would use up the rest of my carbs & calories!!
    Please help, I've emailed the dietitian I saw but I have a feeling I won't hear from her as it's already later in the afternoon on a Friday :(

    You will send yourself mad if you carry on like that :flowerforyou:

    Tomorrow, get up, have your breakfast, input the info, see how many calories you have left, do the same for lunch and then dinner. Add in any snacks you have and don't forget stuff like milk you might stick in tea or coffee. At the end of the day, click on the "complete this entry" button and then you are ready for the next day to start again.

    First off, the protein on MFP is set a little low, many people go over their protein all the time on here, especially those who weight-train. Many people even change their total daily goal for protein, by upping it.

    Don't worry too much about equaling all the totals, it would be bloody hard to succeed in that.

    Just stick to your daily calorie allotment and go day-by-day. Gradually you will know EXACTLY what you can and can't have and what will take you over or keep you under.

    You'll be fine, seriously. :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • servilia
    servilia Posts: 3,452 Member
    Don't worry!! The protein and fat settings are pretty low on here. I've manually changed mine to be higher. My protein goal (for only 1480 calories total) is something like 110g. For fat it's 41g but I always go higher and it hasn't hurt me!!
  • mamapaints
    mamapaints Posts: 206 Member
    I agree w/ another poster, don't worry too much about going over on fat and protein right now. To be honest, I've been using MFP since September and my main goal is still just staying under my calories. If I go over on one thing or another but I'm still under my cals, I don't sweat it.
  • Im new to this site too. Maybe you could try cooking a hearty vegetable soup to fill you up, with lots of carrots, beans, capsicum, chilli, celery etc. I cook up a big pot and then put it in the blender. When I need some carbs I mix in some pasta or rice. YUM!
  • leansandra
    leansandra Posts: 8 Member
    the program appears to track all protein sources animal and plant protein..so I would not worry too much going over some on protein...work first on meeting your calorie goals then slowly star incorporating healthier low fat choices. Fat is essential but we eat too much and of all the wrong kinds...
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    Day one. Relax!!!
  • ahjenny
    ahjenny Posts: 293 Member
    My first days were so hard, and they were also quite the eye opener! Maybe for dinner you can have a small portion of lean meat (4-6 oz) and a side salad with veggies. Make sure you look at the dressing, as it's very easy to overdo it. I found that measuring things really helped, as guessing at serving amounts is difficult and rarely accurate in the beginning. Once you start getting used to it, it's easier to eyeball it. It's a pain to do, I know, but your health and weight loss will be worth it.
  • As others have said, the default protein target here is really low, but you can change yours manually under goals.
  • GuruOnAMountain
    GuruOnAMountain Posts: 489 Member
    It takes a while to get used to it. A lot of the time we end up just eating things without thinking about what they contain so coming on here is a learning curve where you have to actually start realising how bad some foods can be and some of those foods might even be foods that you think would be relatively healthy.

    The more time you spend on here, the more you learn and then work out what is good and what is bad to eat and can control these things better.
  • Horskrzy
    Horskrzy Posts: 71 Member
    Short of eating Crisco for meals don't worry about the rest. I think you'll find the vast majority of us count the calories and leave the rest up to our bodies to "figure out".

    Now if you "have" to go on a low sodium or fat diet for health ISSUES, then it gets a bit harder.
  • Thanks for the feedback so far! I don't know if my parameters are what is normally given b/c my dietitian set it all up for me. I did talk to my Mom (my calming voice of reason!) so I feel a bit better now & have decided on a 4oz grilled chicken breast, sauteed swiss chard & a yam for dinner. It will still put me over slightly in the protein category but I will still have a lot of calories & carbs left over. So I'm still kinda stumped.

    For breakfast I had 1 whole egg & 2 egg whites scrambled with some salsa, 2 slices of Trader Joe's Sprouted multi-grain bread & a 1/2 tbsp of earth balance spread.
    Lunch was a big salad with a serving of blue cheese dressing, a turkey sandwich (3 slices) on the TJ's bread with a slice of havarti, tomato slices & alfafa sprouts & a tsp of Spicy brown mustard.
  • First off, don't get frustrated!! It's only day 1...I have a friend who always used to say "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time!!" This is a journey that you'll hopefully be on for a long time. Make your journal viewable (is that a word? :huh: ) and friend me...I can take a look and see where your obstacles are. As for eating too much protein, that is an area that you can go over in; you want to keep the fats lower, and carbs as well. I tend to only really count calories, but I do watch fats and carbs more than proteins.

    I hope this helps you...again, friend me if you want someone to motivate you!!

    Good luck! :smile:
  • EMarvie
    EMarvie Posts: 335 Member
    just remember you're just starting out. You cant be perfect. try staying within your cal's for the first few days- see how you feel and then adjust to healthier options.. might even just try using the diary for a few days - see where you're going wrong.
    This is the first step - that's a great thing that you're here and you're making that step.

    You'll see results - use this site to it's full potenital - it's fantastic.

    If you need any motivating - add me as a freind if you like - friends are super helpful here -

    dont get fustrated - be happy and proud of yourself for taking the steps to get healthy!
  • EMarvie
    EMarvie Posts: 335 Member
    Thanks for the feedback so far! I don't know if my parameters are what is normally given b/c my dietitian set it all up for me. I did talk to my Mom (my calming voice of reason!) so I feel a bit better now & have decided on a 4oz grilled chicken breast, sauteed swiss chard & a yam for dinner. It will still put me over slightly in the protein category but I will still have a lot of calories & carbs left over. So I'm still kinda stumped.

    For breakfast I had 1 whole egg & 2 egg whites scrambled with some salsa, 2 slices of Trader Joe's Sprouted multi-grain bread & a 1/2 tbsp of earth balance spread.
    Lunch was a big salad with a serving of blue cheese dressing, a turkey sandwich (3 slices) on the TJ's bread with a slice of havarti, tomato slices & alfafa sprouts & a tsp of Spicy brown mustard.

    your meals for today are wonderful.. just make sure you eat enough to get in all the nutrients that you'll need! keep up the great work!
  • Di3012
    Di3012 Posts: 2,247 Member
    Thanks for the feedback so far! I don't know if my parameters are what is normally given b/c my dietitian set it all up for me. I did talk to my Mom (my calming voice of reason!) so I feel a bit better now & have decided on a 4oz grilled chicken breast, sauteed swiss chard & a yam for dinner. It will still put me over slightly in the protein category but I will still have a lot of calories & carbs left over. So I'm still kinda stumped.

    For breakfast I had 1 whole egg & 2 egg whites scrambled with some salsa, 2 slices of Trader Joe's Sprouted multi-grain bread & a 1/2 tbsp of earth balance spread.
    Lunch was a big salad with a serving of blue cheese dressing, a turkey sandwich (3 slices) on the TJ's bread with a slice of havarti, tomato slices & alfafa sprouts & a tsp of Spicy brown mustard.

    er Jbow, you should be far from frustrated, those foods you have decided on are superb in my opinion. No crap in there.

    Just make sure you log everything though. Seriously, very, very good choices!!!
  • See that's another part of my frustration! The dietitian said that based on my food logging before I even saw her, I eat really well. She said my weight issue is probably from a combination of a health issue that makes it easy to gain weight, hard to lose (PCOS) & also from eating too little on some days (1 day she inputted only had me at 1135 calories) so my body thinks it's starving & then other days where I eat too much of the stuff even though it's good stuff.

    AAGHAGAHG! Thanks for all the feedback & support. I am committed to change since I am also pre-diabetic & there's no way I want to be full blown type-2 at 35. I just need to not stress too much, I know it will get better!
  • CrystalBonner
    CrystalBonner Posts: 39 Member
    Learning how to eat right is not easy. We know all too well how to eat the wrong things. Do some research and try to find foods that you like, cut down on the quanity of your food intake. Relax, release, relate. But most importantly....HANG IN THERE!
  • I consider the protein goal my minimum to hit so I always go over and that's okay especially if you are working out. So don't get frustrated it is hard to change your lifestyle and it is not something you are gonna perfect in 1 day so just keep at it and before you know it you will know exactly what you can eat:) This is a great site for support and to keep yourself accountable good luck!
  • I was thinking the same thing a couple of days ago...I also am new and when I spoke to someone they said to worry about calories first, then once I get that all under control worry about the other stuff as calories are the most important at the start.:) You will do fine friend me we can chat and keep each other motivated:)
  • eksims1
    eksims1 Posts: 51 Member
    At first, it may be easier to only focus on calorie intake and expenditure, rather than the content of food. As you get more used to the changes, then you can look into the details. I do not focus on anything other than calories, and have been successful so far. If you have the iphone app, use the barcode scanner to quickly find foods!!! The app also will break things down into pie charts for you and makes it very easy. I think the app is better than the website in a lot of ways
  • Sabresgal63
    Sabresgal63 Posts: 641 Member
    When I first started a healthy eating regimen......I swear I was at the grocery store for about 4 hours just reading labels and such. I will tell you......your brain will retain alot of information and you will eventually just know what you can eat......just give it some time and try not to get discouraged. We ALL go over something during the course of a day......don't sweat it.........add me as a friend if you'd like:bigsmile:
  • ckapes
    ckapes Posts: 31
    Today is my husband's and my second day. We both went over our protein but we still have carbs and calories left. As one post suggested the calories is what matters most and then the carbs/fats. Remember you have to eat at least the minimum of calories or your body will go into starvation mode. Hang in there. A lot of this is learning what is in each food and portion control. Don't feel like you have to be perfect.
  • GeneaCindy
    GeneaCindy Posts: 148 Member
    I agree w/ another poster, don't worry too much about going over on fat and protein right now. To be honest, I've been using MFP since September and my main goal is still just staying under my calories. If I go over on one thing or another but I'm still under my cals, I don't sweat it.

    This^

    What I noticed once I started counting the calories was I started to pay more attention to things that would fill me up. I could have 2 applies instead of a small handful of goldfish crackers, for instance. So far, it has been working. I'm down 35 pounds since mid-October. Once I am fitter and closer to my goal weight, I may have to re-evaluate though.

    Don't get frustrated! You will find a very supportive community here.
  • dbutorac
    dbutorac Posts: 120
    I agree, don't worry so much about the proteins & carbs, it is the calories. Once you put what you ate, tomorrow it will be in your "data base" & it will be easier.
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