Laundry Room etiquette

SKHaz1
SKHaz1 Posts: 145 Member
edited November 8 in Chit-Chat
I live in an apartment building. Between two buildings we have one washer and one dryer. Yeah...

I tried to do my laundry last night, and someone was using it. Annoying? yes. But, what can you do?

Tried again this morning. Someone has their clothes in the washer and in the dryer. Both are done.

I left my basket down there to show the person that I am waiting to do my laundry. I figured I'd wait 30 minutes before going back down there. Since the washer and dryer were done when I went to do my laundry, that would leave them 30 minutes to get their clothes, assuming that they both had stopped seconds before I went down there.

If they are still there when I go back to check? What is the proper etiquette. I hate when people move my clothes but I always set a timer. Do I move their clothes and put mine in the washer? What do you think?

Ahh...good ol' apartment living.

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  • PinkEarthMama
    PinkEarthMama Posts: 987 Member
    I don't know what proper etiquette is, but I don't know if I'd be able to leave someone's wet clothes to the side. I'd probably just wait :(
  • LexieSweetheart
    LexieSweetheart Posts: 793 Member
    Take them out and wash your clothes.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Take them out. We had this happen all the time back when I lived in the dorms. People should either set a timer, or face the consequences. If someone gets mad, say, "I waited x amount of time and they were still in there, so I thought you wouldn't mind if I moved them" with a smile on your face.
  • thatsnumberwang
    thatsnumberwang Posts: 398 Member
    Take them out and wash your clothes.

    This. It will help your neighbors remember to be a little more considerate next time.
  • wakeywildcat
    wakeywildcat Posts: 43 Member
    I'm the same, we have to wait 10 mins if no one collects take them out and use.
  • sjtreely
    sjtreely Posts: 1,014 Member
    I don't know if it's proper etiquette or not, but I'd take them out and put mine in. Then, I'd fold theirs and set them aside.

    Time is too valuable to waste.
  • SKHaz1
    SKHaz1 Posts: 145 Member
    I don't know if it's proper etiquette or not, but I'd take them out and put mine in. Then, I'd fold theirs and set them aside.

    Time is too valuable to waste.

    Fold theirs?!?! Haha no way!
  • When I lived in apartment I always waited. It was only a complex of eight so it never took that long for the machines to become available. But one time my clothes were washing and someone was in such a hurry that they took my clothes out mid-cycle (yes suds and all) and tossed their clothes in and mine on the counter. I don't know why they wouldn't think I would notice but they probably didn't care if I did. I assume they didn't have the money to do their own washing and drying so they jacked my washing money. Oh apartment living...
  • sjtreely
    sjtreely Posts: 1,014 Member
    I don't know if it's proper etiquette or not, but I'd take them out and put mine in. Then, I'd fold theirs and set them aside.

    Time is too valuable to waste.

    Fold theirs?!?! Haha no way!

    Yep. I would. In reality, you don't have a clue as to why the person was so delayed in getting their clothes. It could be anything from rudeness to an emergency. I try an error on the side of giving people the benefit of the doubt. Kindness is never wrong.

    My clothes might be down there one day unattended.
  • AnninStPaul
    AnninStPaul Posts: 1,372 Member
    I don't know if it's proper etiquette or not, but I'd take them out and put mine in. Then, I'd fold theirs and set them aside.

    Time is too valuable to waste.

    Fold theirs?!?! Haha no way!

    I used to live in a building where a quarter of the residents were twenties/thirties, working full time, and the rest were retirees (often widows). They were really good at folding ... the few times that I fell asleep with my clothes in the dryer. They did theirs during the day, while the younger set were evenings/weekends.
  • SKHaz1
    SKHaz1 Posts: 145 Member
    I don't think I want to fold peoples underwear...sorry.
  • LWatson43
    LWatson43 Posts: 65 Member
    Have the apartment manager put up a sign that states to remove you clothes promply. Now, as far as waiting if there is available dryer put them in the dryer, if they left their laundry basket put them inside their basket and start your laundry.
  • i live in a 3 building apartment complex with 4 washers and dryers and they have a sign up saying if u have not removed ur clothes from washer/dryer after 30 minutes then the next person can remove them :)
  • sjtreely
    sjtreely Posts: 1,014 Member
    I don't think I want to fold peoples underwear...sorry.

    Haha ... you don't have to be sorry. There is no right or wrong answer.

    By the looks of things, I'm old enough to be your mother. I've had two children and have taught elementary school for 26 years. For those two reasons alone, I've seen and done many things that make others hurl.

    Folding the clean underwear of someone I don't know doesn't even fall in the Top 100 Things That Make Me Cringe.
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    I've always given them 10 minutes. The timer tells you how long it will be, so you have an obligation to stay time aware. After that, move their laundry out and start yours. I also stay down there, just to make sure they know it was me and that I didn't do anything wrong. But I'm kinda direct that way.
  • Johnnyswife
    Johnnyswife Posts: 1,447 Member
    My husband and I manage an apartment complex with one dryer and washer for 8 units..We have one tenant who hogs up the washer and dryer, but everyone knows that they cannot leave their laundry unattended for more than 1 hour, (thats how long the dryer takes), or someone else is going to remove their stuff and do their own laundry.

    I once had someone stop the dryer in the middle of my load of laundry...never figured out who it was or why...
  • They used to inform us constantly in the campus dorms that if someone's clothes were taking up space, moving them was well within your right. Just set them to the side and go about your way.
  • emmaleigh47
    emmaleigh47 Posts: 1,670 Member
    I have lived in many apartment buildings, and well there was a reason why I used to drive to the laundrymat instead!
    But aside from that, I have no problem taking someones stuff out of the dryer and into their laundry basket. I will fold tops and pants, but I draw the line at panties and socks.

    Taking clothes out the washer is a bit more, and I have to be reaaaly annoyed to do it. I will remove them and place them on top of the dryer, but I will not put them in the dryer. I often wash stuff that does not get dried and I would be furious if someone put them in the dryer.
  • jillybeanruns
    jillybeanruns Posts: 1,420 Member
    Try 4 washers and 4 dryers for an entire apartment community...and they are never all working.

    I wait 10 minutes, and then I move their stuff and either put it on the table or in a dryer if there is one available.

    The second I put my laundry in, I start a timer countdown on my phone. I feel like that's the considerate thing to do.
  • Cassi1990
    Cassi1990 Posts: 74 Member
    I don't think I want to fold peoples underwear...sorry.

    I wouldnt be folding other peoples laundry either. My time is too valuable and I'm not wasting it doing everyone elses laundry!

    I'd take the laundry out and set it aside. maybe leave a note saying "sorry, but you were taking too long to get your laundry" or something. its better then leaving the laundry in the machines for who knows how much longer. wet clothes start to stink!
  • swimmchick87
    swimmchick87 Posts: 458 Member
    I set a timer. If someone's clothes have been done and are there for more than 30 minutes, I think it's within your rights to move them. We have a laundry room with 12 washers and dryers. What I think is the rudest thing ever is when people with huge families wait to do their laundry and then come in and literally take up all 12 at once! Plan ahead!
  • ncw89
    ncw89 Posts: 61 Member
    When I was in first year at Uni I lived in Halls. We had one laundry for 3 buildings: we started the year with about 10 washers and 10 dryers for somewhere in the region of 300 people. By the end of the year we were down to 9 washers and 7 dryers. Nightmare doesn't even come into it.

    The rule I tried to stick to was if any machine was nearly done or actually finished I'd wait around a while. I didn't want people to think I was being rude or snotty by taking their stuff out and dumping it. But once it'd been left for like 15-30 minutes then I think that's fair enough. I'd try to find somewhere reasonably clean looking to pile the clothes in. To me, they've been in a big heap inside the machine so the owner shouldn't have a problem with them being in a big heap outside the machine :laugh:

    Towards the end of the year I had one episode that left me absolutely raging. I *always* made sure I knew when my wash was ready to end so I'd be down there 5 minutes early so I wasn't being rude by holding up the machine. I'd put my stuff in a dryer and left it drying, and an hour later went down to check it. Sometimes that was enough time, others it needed to go back on. So I got down there, and the door was standing open. My stuff was still inside, still dripping. Clearly someone had opened it within minutes of me leaving and not even bothered to shut the door. Rude or what? So I shut it, put it back on, and head out. An hour later go back. The door's standing open. My stuff is still soaked. Raging now. I bang the door, put it back on, stomp out. An hour later, I go back, guess what? Raging doesn't even cover it. Seriously, this happened THREE TIMES. So I sat waiting with it for the next hour. During that hour, someone opened the machine "to check whether it was done". And didn't bother to shut the d*** door. I actually nearly punched him! I felt like screaming "IF YOU SHUT THE D*** DOOR THE MACHINE WOULD'VE BEEN FREE 3 F******* HOURS AGO!!!!"

    Wow. Rant over :D Sorry for hijacking :D
  • noogie98
    noogie98 Posts: 452 Member
    this is why I always rent an apartment with washer / dryer connections in the apartment... got my stackable set at an outlet store for only $150. It has a ding & scrape on the side that faces the wall, so no one even sees it. And if they did, who cares! It doesn't matter, the set works fine.

    As for the laundry room fiasco, I would take the clothes out & not fold a bit of it. Like I tell my students, I am not their mama, so they have to clean up after themselves, and so the owner of the laundry needs to fold their own stuff. If they cannot get back in time to get their stuff out of the dryer before it wrinkles, then oh well ~ learn how to iron!! Leave a note as a courtesy & tell them as much... and good luck!! :glasses:
  • no_worries
    no_worries Posts: 61 Member
    I lived in an apartment where there was a laundry room for every floor. On my floor my apartment was right next to the laundry room so I could hear when the washer was done. I was always very quick to get my clothes out, because I hate it when people touch my clothes. It's just one of my irks. I would always check to see if it was going since it was, you know, right next door.

    One day, the washer had *just* finished spinning and I was walking in to get my clothes out when the click from the lid release went off, and this person started pulling them out and putting them on the counter that was dirty. I was so angry, I said "Um excuse me" they responded that they couldn't have waited. It wasn't like they were left there, they had just finished.

    I never removed anybody's laundry, unless I really had to get it done for work.
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