Looking for encouraging friends.

jennmcpherson
jennmcpherson Posts: 263 Member
in Motivation and Support
So when I started on MFP about a year ago I had a bunch of friends who cheered me on and encouraged me. I did the same to them. It felt like every step of the way we were all there for each other. In the last 5-6 months most of those friends have disappeared and I started looking through the forums for people saying they were looking for friends for encouragement and to encourage. Well I added a bunch of them and looking for encouragement, yes they were but I have yet to hear a "hooray" back. I know it probably seems silly but when I've lost a pound, logged all my food under my calories for the day or logged in for X amount of days in a row I look so forward to seeing those little happy comments.

If you are looking for someone to cheer you on AND who you can cheer on please let me know because I'm not strong enough yet to do this on my own.
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  • neveradullmoment
    neveradullmoment Posts: 90
    I hear ya! It is so much easier when there is a cheering section for ya!!!


    Feel free to add me!
  • lissamok
    lissamok Posts: 82
    Add me. We can do it together :)
  • dakoerber
    dakoerber Posts: 308 Member
    I agree with you! Those comments make such a difference. I am here for you!
  • gnrshelton
    gnrshelton Posts: 358 Member
    I feel the same way. The little comments are what keeps us going. A few people I have as friends are what brought me back when I slipped and fell off the wagon. I am back now and starting again. I need all the encouragement I can get. So I will give as much in return. Feel free to add me as a friend. :)
  • Shortone22
    Shortone22 Posts: 5 Member
    Add me too! I have never had anyone say I'm too quiet! :)
  • melbhall
    melbhall Posts: 519
    You got me doll face!!!!
  • Chagama
    Chagama Posts: 543 Member
    I agree completely. Positive feedback from others who understand what are working towards is essential
  • jrich1
    jrich1 Posts: 2,408 Member
    I am always looking for new friends, you can add me if you would like.
  • shaparra
    shaparra Posts: 32 Member
    hi, feel free to add me. I just joined about 10 days ago and have found great support. That goes to everyone else , send me friend requests :flowerforyou:
  • kelnort
    kelnort Posts: 17
    i started about a year ago as well. did not really do much. just started back up recently and am looking for friends too.
  • TrishFowler
    TrishFowler Posts: 4
    Feel free to add me. I too am trying to build my network of friends. I definitely need the support. I am great cheerleader as well! :smile:
  • NataliePinNV
    NataliePinNV Posts: 8
    Count me in. I am still trying to figure this all out, so I may not be tooo loud. But I'd like to try. I need the same encouragement. So,let's do this.:happy:
  • loobie1805
    loobie1805 Posts: 28
    i will be your cheering buddy on here. I am new to the site and am just starting out trying to lose some weight - just starting out for the millionth time that is. Have recently been diagnosed with Hashimoto's so I am hoping that now my thyroid is more under control I might actually be able to lose some weight this time. My husband is dieting with me and is a member on here also, although he doesn't go in for message boards and all that kids of stuff......I love reading about other peoples stories and efforts, so hopefully can make quite a good cheering buddy.

    All the best

    Lou :happy:
  • southrider
    southrider Posts: 67 Member
    You can add me too!! I only have a few that cheer me on also. Sometimes you just need to hear positive words to help get you through the day.
  • Auburngirl91
    Auburngirl91 Posts: 3
    I agree.....I just have started using Myfitnesspal.....I need the encouraging words due to I have not much will power. Please add me as a friend.....I will cheer ya on if you will do the same for me.:smile:
  • janalayn
    janalayn Posts: 510 Member
    Feel free to add me ... i am pretty active on here
  • rr10speed
    rr10speed Posts: 23
    I agree! I'm new to this so it might take me a little bit to figure it out! Encouragement helps ALOT!!
  • ahealthy4u
    ahealthy4u Posts: 442 Member
    I agree completely. Positive feedback from others who understand what are working towards is essential

    I agree you can add me :smile:
  • jennmcpherson
    jennmcpherson Posts: 263 Member
    My goodness, you guys sure know how to make a girl feel great! Thank you thank you thank you!
  • JilianneNicole
    JilianneNicole Posts: 116 Member
    I hear you! Feel free to add me as well!!!
  • beautifullyblessed16
    beautifullyblessed16 Posts: 180 Member
    I am encouraged already seeing the encouragement passed along through this thread. Feel free to add me (open to anyone). Today is day 17 for me here on mfp.
  • SaSSyhasCurls
    SaSSyhasCurls Posts: 93
    Feel free to add me
  • bigbeardiver
    bigbeardiver Posts: 154 Member
    Agreed, feel free to add me. I found that not only positive comments like "way to go" work but as people get to know you better they understand more of the little details. I had a friend who hated running so whenever they posted information about running you try to boost the positive vibes in that area. If you know they hate cooking, sending them simple receipes helps.
  • colomom29
    colomom29 Posts: 1
    Add me...I had twins about a year ago and am trying to get the weight and extra skin a little tighter. My doctor gave me this website but I am also looking for friends to help me!
  • Takes2long
    Takes2long Posts: 367 Member
    You can add me, too. I agree that sometimes all I need is just someone, ANYONE, to acknowledge what I'm doing, what I've done. Not for every single thing. There are times when the smallest "Great Job" would have changed so much. Silly, maybe. Needed, yes.
  • Quasita
    Quasita Posts: 1,530 Member
    I am on here every day and am totally willing to add anyone open to a mutually supportive fitness friendship. :)
  • lalaberryhill
    lalaberryhill Posts: 27
    Me too! I am always willing to encourage!! We all need support!

    Add me :)
  • skydiamonds67
    skydiamonds67 Posts: 49 Member
    Feel free to add me! Every bit of encouragement and support helps with the journey! We can support each other! :)
  • CyndiUnder
    CyndiUnder Posts: 2 Member
    It seems like since I've turned 41 my metabolism has bottomed out...what I used to do to lose weight no longer works...I have been trying to lose weight for a few weeks but it's not working...so here I am...I struggle with emotionally eating so I am looking for support and motivation and am more than willing to encourage others! We can be strong together.. Hope to be there for you during this journey to a healthy weight and lifestyle.
  • KimsWeightloss
    KimsWeightloss Posts: 40
    I hear you too! :-)

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