over calories

The first step is logging everything and being honest about what you're doing. The second step is to start to swap things out and make healthier choices. Tomorrow is a new day-- try to change just one thing at a time. That's what has worked best for me. First I focused on portion control. Then I focused on working in whole grains/veggies. Now I'm focused on hitting macros (still mess up there sometimes). It's a process, but you've taken the first step!

Eggs have that much fat????? 27 grams for 1 cup?

Try making the things you love healthier! I fricking love pizza, so I make it almost every day -- homemade sauce, that Mountain Bread from Costco (paper thin and only 70 calories per sheet), cheese, and random veggies, etc. Totally filling and satisfies my lust for pizza lol.

The truth is, we're all food addicts. Food is just amazing!! It's one of the few tangible pleasures we get to experience several times a day, so ENJOY it, just learn to substitute. You'll do fine! Become an addict of the forums as well; reading and interacting with other members, etc. has helped me stay focused. Spend some time on the success board!! lol

Also, are you exercising? You get more food if you do!! I'm in Van (well..Surrey...lol) too. I go to a FANTASTIC gym where I literally burn 500+ calories in half an hour -- look how much more food that is!! . Message me if you're interested in the name and you can call and book a free trial.

Log everything you SHOULD eat first thing in the morning (make it your schedule for the day)...then when you are craving something...type it in your food journal FIRST to SEE how many cals etc...it is...this is what I do before I decide to "indulge"...and then I decide if my exercise is/will be enough for the day to justify it...if it doesn't...then the "treat" is for another day.

For me, seeing it in the log before I eat it makes me think..."is it worth eating that"...when I know that it isn't helping my weight loss I tend not to eat it!!

As well..use whole grains, tons of fruit and veggies and protein...that's all you need!!

You're being honest with yourself.

Part of figuring out how to improve, is figuring out where you are going wrong.

Keep tracking everything you eat, make small changes. Learn and grow ... well, try not to grow in size

Yes, you went over today. If it doesn't happen to everyone, it certainly does happen to most people, more than once! And those people can either pick themselves up and dust themselves off, and get themselves back on track, or they can take the feedback and make some changes if needed. Or a little of both, depending on the situation. For instance: is any of that a trigger food? For me, if I eat a lasagna or baked ziti type food, I tend to have an increase in appetite, and an increase in cravings for *more of that food* no matter what my calories or macros are looking like that day. So I have to work around that, and either avoid it or make a plan to eat it without going nuts. Is there some food or food type that triggers appetite/cravings for you?

I didn't look at other days in your diary - Does that happen every day? If it's a once in a while thing, don't stress about it so much. One day is not going to derail your efforts entirely unless you mentally allow it to affect your choices tomorrow (and the next day and the next day) in a negative way.

It can be helpful to look at your net calories for each day, for the last 7 days. Find out what your average net calories are. That average gives you more information than one day does.

Rule of thumb is to hit it hard tomorrow. Tell yourself that you fueled up today for a great, intense burn tomorrow! And then make that happen. Watch your calories more rigidly for the next few days, and work in an extra workout each day as you are able to even things out in the long run.

The only thing I can tell you with 100% certainty: beating yourself up will not bring about positive change. You can do this. You can find a way to stay close to your calorie goal, and you can feel great about doing it. ONE DAY doesn't change that. And even if every single day of the last couple years were like that, yesterdays don't change anything either. Yesterdays brought you to this point; it's the choices you make NOW that are going to take you to where you are headed in the future. You've got this... it's just a matter of figuring things out, making some adjustments, and moving forward strong. :flowerforyou:

oups.. i guess i wasn't accurate.. i had 2 eggs.. but whatever! overestimate is better than underestimate!

2 eggs is 140 calories. That's over 200 calories difference. And overestimating is NOT better than underestimating, because eating too little is just as bad as eating too much.