Women! Weight Lifting! Why so scary!
LabRat529
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It's totally not scary.
I thought it was. I lift at a university gym with (sexy, scary) twenty-something college men (and sometimes women) and they intimidated the hell out of me. I was sure they were watching the fat lady struggle to bench press the damn bar
Or worse... they were laughing secretly at me when I read the directions three times over on the leg press.
But I'm so over that and I'm a lot stronger than I thought I was. I've seen huge improvements. I know it's not really muscle gain- no way can I gain strength that quickly- it's all about confidence. I was afraid of looking foolish. I was afraid of hurting myself. But I'm over that.
Soooo.... the moral of the story is: Ladies, just do it ! If this fat lady with bad hips and a bad back can do it, you totally can too.
Plus... I'm FINALLY losing weight again (watch... I just jinxed myself and the scale won't move for another 3 months).
I thought it was. I lift at a university gym with (sexy, scary) twenty-something college men (and sometimes women) and they intimidated the hell out of me. I was sure they were watching the fat lady struggle to bench press the damn bar
Or worse... they were laughing secretly at me when I read the directions three times over on the leg press.But I'm so over that and I'm a lot stronger than I thought I was. I've seen huge improvements. I know it's not really muscle gain- no way can I gain strength that quickly- it's all about confidence. I was afraid of looking foolish. I was afraid of hurting myself. But I'm over that.
Soooo.... the moral of the story is: Ladies, just do it ! If this fat lady with bad hips and a bad back can do it, you totally can too.
Plus... I'm FINALLY losing weight again (watch... I just jinxed myself and the scale won't move for another 3 months).
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Thats awesome! Way to go! It is a little intimadating at first! But its soooo much more fun than cardio! I love lifting! I'm doing Jamie Eason's LiveFit 12 week program right now and the frist month is only lifting no cardio! So much more enjoyable! Keep it up!0
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I always enjoy watching the women lift weights at the gym. Not because I am a perv, but I know how beneficial it is and I always know the weight lifting girls "get it". When I see a woman doing something silly I really try hard to resist the temptation to go over and help them (correct form, or tell them to do more weight, lol).
As long as I don't see someone doing bosu ball lunges with 2 lb dumbbells, I am good. Happy for them. And most importantly, I respect them for doing it because I know it can be intimidating.0 -
It's totally not scary.
I thought it was. I lift at a university gym with (sexy, scary) twenty-something college men (and sometimes women) and they intimidated the hell out of me. I was sure they were watching the fat lady struggle to bench press the damn bar Or worse... they were laughing secretly at me when I read the directions three times over on the leg press.
But I'm so over that and I'm a lot stronger than I thought I was. I've seen huge improvements. I know it's not really muscle gain- no way can I gain strength that quickly- it's all about confidence. I was afraid of looking foolish. I was afraid of hurting myself. But I'm over that.
Soooo.... the moral of the story is: Ladies, just do it ! If this fat lady with bad hips and a bad back can do it, you totally can too.
Plus... I'm FINALLY losing weight again (watch... I just jinxed myself and the scale won't move for another 3 months).
Very well said. =*) <
tear on my smiley face.0 -
Rebekah, your timing is impeccable! I just got 'The New Rules of Lifting for Women' in the mail yesterday and started reading it last night. A lot of what I am reading in there dovetails perfectly with the information I'm reading about the Paleo/Primal lifestyle. So this morning, instead of going to the gym and doing 65 minutes on the elliptical, I went back to weights, only instead of focusing on reps, I upped all the weights to the most I could handle and only did one set of each. And in between, I did some cardio (HIIT on the elliptical kinda made me feel like I was going to die after, but during, I was a machine!!) and ab workouts. I used my HRM for the first time, so I got a good estimate of calories burned.
Plus, I go so early in the morning, I mostly only see the folks who work at the school or hospital, my favorite coworker, and one military guy, so it isn't too intimidating if I can get up early enough. I'm excited to be changing the focus of my workouts, and look forward to building a lot more muscle, and hopefully burning more fat as well. Until this morning's weigh-in, I hadn't lost anything in about 6 weeks or more. I'm still going to be doing the 30-Day Shred, because even without the weight loss, I have lost SIGNIFICANT inches while doing that. But the rest of my workouts will minimize cardio and include a lot more weights from now on. Glad to know I'm not alone!0 -
I've never thought it was scary. My problem is that I don't think it's fun. In fact, I find it to be the exact opposite of fun. I do lift some because I think it's necessary to keep my upper body as firm as I like it, but it's like taking medicine. I do it because it's good for me, not because I enjoy it. And I pretty much hate every minute of it. I wish I didn't.0
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Agree. I really don't like cardio, I like weight lifting sooo much better, and the results are awesome.
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I'm really glad you are getting more comfortable!0
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I always enjoy watching the women lift weights at the gym. Not because I am a perv, but I know how beneficial it is and I always know the weight lifting girls "get it". When I see a woman doing something silly I really try hard to resist the temptation to go over and help them (correct form, or tell them to do more weight, lol).
As long as I don't see someone doing bosu ball lunges with 2 lb dumbbells, I am good. Happy for them. And most importantly, I respect them for doing it because I know it can be intimidating.
If it were me, and I was doing it wrong, I'd want you to come tell me! Just don't do it in a cocky tone.0 -
At first I was so scared but now I love being the only girl in the free weights part of the gym. I really do not like it when another girl come....I do not like to share 0
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I've never thought it was scary. My problem is that I don't think it's fun. In fact, I find it to be the exact opposite of fun. I do lift some because I think it's necessary to keep my upper body as firm as I like it, but it's like taking medicine. I do it because it's good for me, not because I enjoy it. And I pretty much hate every minute of it. I wish I didn't.
I'm the exact opposite. Lifting is a blast for me! It wins out over cardio big time in my book.
Glad you started lifting, and didn't let it intimidate you!0 -
As long as I don't see someone doing bosu ball lunges with 2 lb dumbbells, I am good. Happy for them. And most importantly, I respect them for doing it because I know it can be intimidating.
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I'm so glad you went into the weight room and started lifting, good for you!0 -
I don't find the idea of lifting scary. It's the free weights area that scares me. To many ripped men and me fatty only really able to lift about 10kg. :laugh:
Luckily I have a gym that has another area that I can go to to lift weights in.0 -
I'm just worried about an iffy knee. I want to start soooooooo bad, but feel I need to do some other f-arounditis stuff first to make sure what's benched me in the past doesn't happen again. I've been able to do push-ups and chest flies without my shoulder problem coming back much, so there's hope.
Thanks for the post. It's nice to know that people with uncooperative body parts can still effectively do this.0 -
there are 3 basic phases to a periodized model of training. Adaptation: strengthening core stablizing main joints, preparing them for load. Also this is the phase that a trainer will "take care of you" develop a habit of going to the gym. Next is the Stregth phase, a phase that most women will skip all together (for all the myths we all know hear about) this is where we need to increase the muscle tissue in your body. The reason for this is, the more muscle tissue on your body the higher your metabolic rate is at rest. (means you burn more calories while you are at your desk) next is the Metabolic phase where our focus should be on burning fat, so increasing the intensity and getting that heart rate up while taking the external stress off the body , giving it a chance to fully recover. This is a phase that most guys dont do, and they stay in the strength phase WAY too long leading to decreased strength, size, and INJURIES.
Women need to lift! a womens muscle is no different than a man's muscle. I know what you're going to say "but i dont want to get big and bulky" women have 1/8 the testosterone as guys and it takes a guy a long time to "build " muscle.
hope this helps. but LIFT and lift as heavy as you can, Women usually underestimate themselves with how strong they really are.
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At first I was so scared but now I love being the only girl in the free weights part of the gym. I really do not like it when another girl come....I do not like to share
hahaha me neither. I love lifting though, so much more than doing cardio!0 -
Women need to lift! a womens muscle is no different than a man's muscle. I know what you're going to say "but i dont want to get big and bulky" women have 1/8 the testosterone as guys and it takes a guy a long time to "build " muscle.
I could be wrong, but I think when many women say they don't want to get "big and bulky" they are not talking about getting as big and bulky like a man. They are talking more about looking like those pics of Jillian Michaels with her weird man arms and no hips that litter the internet banners.0 -
I always enjoy watching the women lift weights at the gym. Not because I am a perv, but I know how beneficial it is and I always know the weight lifting girls "get it". When I see a woman doing something silly I really try hard to resist the temptation to go over and help them (correct form, or tell them to do more weight, lol).
As long as I don't see someone doing bosu ball lunges with 2 lb dumbbells, I am good. Happy for them. And most importantly, I respect them for doing it because I know it can be intimidating.
I actually appreciate when someone comes and give me some advice as long as they don't do it in a condescending way. I won't learn to do it the correct way if no one tells me that I'm doing it wrong 0 -
A great thread! Thanks - it's what I needed to read. I used to love lifting weights - I was strong but never 'bulky'.0
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Ok so I have a question. I have done NROL4W before and I loved it. I gained a lot of strength and muscle (not defined yet as I went back to old habits of cardio).
Anyway my question is the last time I started doing heavy weights, I was at near perfect weight for my height. 5" 4' and about 120 lbs. I maintained my weight and ate like a dog and looked better.
This time around, I have had a baby 9 months back and am around 136 lbs. Do I need to shed the 10 lbs or so before I venture out fully with this program or can I start doing this again full heartedly and 'Look' the same. Don't really care too much about the number on the scale. I really want to look just lean.
Right now I have been doing Interval training for about 50 mins about 3 times a week. My off days, I usually do yoga or just walk.
Sorry for hijacking this thread but I am confused0 -
I have HUGE shoulders so I really don't want to get bigger there... yeah they say women don't have enough testosterone to get big but I have a testosterone problem, so while I'm sure I don't have as much testosterone as a man, I'm afraid that I will get big.0
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Once you find your groove it's isn't so intimidating, is it? I do get a little self-conscious and feel like eyes are on me which can get annoying. I much prefer it when other women are around.
I think women get concerned about bulkiness because we are so conditioned to think small is better and when you lift you are going against that line of thinking even if in the long-term it will make you leaner.0 -
Jillian Michaels does not have "man arms" and no hips. Good lord, look at what society wants women to look like! Ladies, put down the Cosmo and pick up a barbell. Strength is not about bulk, it is about building confidence and helping your body be the best it can possibly be.
Let me put this in plain English: YOU WILL NOT GET BIG FROM WEIGHTLIFTING. Unless you are Olympic style, every day, protein shake weight lifting, you are not going to turn into the Terminator anytime soon. Weightlifting obliterates fat and tones your entire body. It does not turn you into a stocky bulk of muscle.
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i love this post! i am terrified of going to the weight part of the gym! maybe one day ill get the courage. good for you!0
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Jillian Michaels does not have "man arms" and no hips. Good lord, look at what society wants women to look like! Ladies, put down the Cosmo and pick up a barbell. Strength is not about bulk, it is about building confidence and helping your body be the best it can possibly be.
Let me put this in plain English: YOU WILL NOT GET BIG FROM WEIGHTLIFTING. Unless you are Olympic style, every day, protein shake weight lifting, you are not going to turn into the Terminator anytime soon. Weightlifting obliterates fat and tones your entire body. It does not turn you into a stocky bulk of muscle.
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I have never actually seen JM except in those still pics on the internet and exercise DVDs, which are possibly "enhanced", but in those pics she does indeed have man arms and absolutely no hips whatsoever. I don't read Cosmo but I assume you mean ultra thin women with no muscle?? I have no desire for either of those looks and thankfully there is a world of difference between them for me to fit into.
My point was (hopefully I don't need all caps) is that I believe few women think they will look like the Terminator if they weights. Even if they are "Olympic style". I think when they say "bulky" they mean similar to those pics of JM (whether the pics are accurate or not). IMO she is bulky in those pics.0 -
I didn't touch weights until a few weeks ago for a few reasons.
1.) I was misinformed about how it relates to weight loss. I didn't know how it all worked. Now that I know how important it is to weight loss i'm all for it. I also have a different goal body-type wise for myself then I did years ago. I used to want what's known as "skinny fat" type body, now I think toned is sexy and healthy.
2.) didn't know what i was doing. So I hired a personal trainer. It was really that simple. Now i'm on my 3rd week with a strength training routine and I"m loving it.0 -
Very well said! 0
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Ok so I have a question. I have done NROL4W before and I loved it. I gained a lot of strength and muscle (not defined yet as I went back to old habits of cardio).
Anyway my question is the last time I started doing heavy weights, I was at near perfect weight for my height. 5" 4' and about 120 lbs. I maintained my weight and ate like a dog and looked better.
This time around, I have had a baby 9 months back and am around 136 lbs. Do I need to shed the 10 lbs or so before I venture out fully with this program or can I start doing this again full heartedly and 'Look' the same. Don't really care too much about the number on the scale. I really want to look just lean.
Right now I have been doing Interval training for about 50 mins about 3 times a week. My off days, I usually do yoga or just walk.
Sorry for hijacking this thread but I am confused
There's no reason to wait to lift. It'll help preserve muscles as you lose and it's fun.0 -
I have HUGE shoulders so I really don't want to get bigger there... yeah they say women don't have enough testosterone to get big but I have a testosterone problem, so while I'm sure I don't have as much testosterone as a man, I'm afraid that I will get big.
Do you have PCOS? I do not find your shoulders to be "HUGE" and broad shoulders are sexy!0 -
Only thing that is scary is my appetite since lifting weights. WHEW! I am HUNGRY!
LOVE THEM!0 -
Weightlifting builds muscle. Muscle burns fat, even when you are doing nothing. Ergo, if you want to lose fat, build muscle.0
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