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HWT2003
HWT2003 Posts: 45 Member
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What do you think is the top three things that make or break a relationship?

What is something that you wish your significant other would let you do for a day?
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  • runnercheryl
    runnercheryl Posts: 1,314 Member
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    My top three would be

    - Communication
    - Trust
    - Love (obviously)

    I'm not sure what you mean by your second question,
  • HWT2003
    HWT2003 Posts: 45 Member
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    Is it anything that you wish you can do, but cannot becuse of your boyfriend/husband?
  • lyssamichelle
    lyssamichelle Posts: 1,307 Member
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    Since my longest relationship was a month..
    I'm guessing there aren't any real triggers to what break them for me.

    But I do know you have nothing with out trust & mutual affection.
  • Uhmanduh
    Uhmanduh Posts: 85 Member
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    1. Communication!!!
    2. Trust
    3. LOVE

    Communication is definitely number one and oh so important!!!
  • Nitachi
    Nitachi Posts: 142
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    Been in a 3 year long relationship and for me the 3 most important things in a relationship is
    - Love/Passion/Intimacy (They all go together)
    - Respect/Loyalty/Trust
    - Communication
  • NightOwl1
    NightOwl1 Posts: 881 Member
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    Everyone else pretty much covered your first question.

    As to your second question, Scarlett Johansson would be nice.
  • premiumchilenita
    premiumchilenita Posts: 600 Member
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    -Honesty
    -Trust
    -Love (sex)

    for the second. I would love an evening with Usher :smooched:
  • kunibob
    kunibob Posts: 608 Member
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    -Communication
    -Similar sexual needs (or willingness to compromise)
    -Seeing eye to eye on finances (I can't count the number of times I have heard of people breaking up over money)


    For the second question, there's nothing I'd want to do that I couldn't do while married, so I'm all good.
  • amyleehealey
    amyleehealey Posts: 9
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    Honesty without a doubt, followed by trust and communication. The three biggest cliché's.
  • Jaxster12
    Jaxster12 Posts: 25 Member
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    1.Spontaneous SEX
    2.Dirty SEX
    3.Freaky SEX
  • Shannonigans84
    Shannonigans84 Posts: 693 Member
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    Communication
    Pulling your weight with responsibility within the relationship
    Trust
  • Nitachi
    Nitachi Posts: 142
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    Communication
    Pulling your weight with responsibility within the relationship
    Trust

    Pulling your weight within the relationship is certainly important...
  • runnercheryl
    runnercheryl Posts: 1,314 Member
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    Is it anything that you wish you can do, but cannot becuse of your boyfriend/husband?

    Not at all. :)
  • JE55Y
    JE55Y Posts: 333 Member
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    1) love (compassionate, romance, commitment to the relationship)

    2) communication

    3) excitement

    Not sure about the last one... Are you looking for something specific?

    I broke up from a long term relationship because the guys communication skills were bad... He never remembered anything I told him or asked him. He wasn't romantic... Except for when he was on the receiving end of it. He was boring... Wanted to sit around the house all the time.

    Lol... Hence why I gave him his things back in a bin bag :)
  • 623Hernandez
    623Hernandez Posts: 458
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    1.Spontaneous SEX
    2.Dirty SEX
    3.Freaky SEX

    lmao True!

    1. Trust
    3. Respect
    2. Communication

    If you trust, respect and communicate with your partner the sex will fallow.
  • EulalieOwona
    EulalieOwona Posts: 16 Member
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    For me it would be:

    1. Communication
    2. Totally Different goals in life
    3. Respect + when one partner is trying to change the other to what they want them to be
  • MissGatekeeper
    MissGatekeeper Posts: 48
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    1: communication, communication, communication.
    2:Trust, loyalty, respect and all that. To me those are pretty much the same the same.
    3: Caring for eachother and actually liking eachother. I've loved men that I still didn't like. (Sounds weird, but is possible...)

    And.. My SO pretty much lets me do whatever I want.. He's not to keen on me wanting another tattoo, but that's hardly something I could do for just one day. :p
  • GrahamBarwick
    GrahamBarwick Posts: 459
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    communication-

    Love-

    The abilty to compromise


    and within all of them there so many components- compassion, respect, patience, passion and the list go's on and on and on
  • lovemydrmartens
    lovemydrmartens Posts: 144 Member
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    Intellectual equality ( I know that sounds odd but It really matters to me...)

    LOVE

    laughter ( esp having the same sense of humour...)

    Nobody ever prevents me from doing anything... I may choose not to do certain things out of love.. that is different...
  • GrahamBarwick
    GrahamBarwick Posts: 459
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    Intellectual equality ( I know that sounds odd but It really matters to me...)

    LOVE

    laughter ( esp having the same sense of humour...)

    Nobody ever prevents me from doing anything... I may choose not to do certain things out of love.. that is different...

    'LIKE'

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