would like to know honestly, how supportive

Very.

Pretty supportive. My fiance knows I have a shady past with food, so occasionally he's overly watchful of the amount I eat & stuff, which gets annoying occasionally but eh, he means well. He's trying to gain weight right now, while I'm trying to lose it - makes stuff interesting for sure, haha.

Very supportive.

He helps me cook meals, and comes up with new dinner ideas. He's making an effort to eat better too, so it's nice to have him on my side. He always has my back.

Not!!

My husband is supportive and not so supportive. I believe he's uncomfortable with my losing weight, because he needs to lose a fair amount himself.

So when he cooks, or shops, he makes/buys some healthier options, but then he'll also do things like make scrambled eggs with a ton of butter.

He'll buy donuts on Sundays, and say, "I know you're trying to lose weight, and I shouldn't buy these donuts." So I sometimes eat them, but I just log them. I no longer eat with abandon the way we used to, together.

But, I made some healthy soup over the weekend, so he had some soup to bring to work a couple of times.

I'm dedicated to my own goals and realize that I can achieve them even if he tries to sabotage my efforts (intentionally or not).

Our relationship dynamic will change though, because if I'm able to shed the weight, then my kids and I will be thin, (they already are) and he'll be the only one in the family with weight issues. I worry about him.

As much as he can be. He's morbidly obese and an on-off dieter with no real motivation. He's also a very fussy eater and only eats meat, white carbs, occasional carrots and total junk, but for the most part he supports me in my choices. He does all the housework so I can find half an hour to exercise in the evening, he does all the cooking and measures out my portions and he'll give up the XBox so I can have some time on Kinect (yes, that IS a huge deal).

His way of life has its impact on me psychologically/mentally, but he's being the best he can be for me and would never be negative about what I do. He also understands that I've been doing this for over a year, that I know what works for me and that if I say I want a pizza I MEAN I want a pizza.

not ! but accepting....

Supportive. He was standoffish at first, but now he knows I'm in in for the long haul. He has a weight lifting background but he didn't do it right... so, at the moment, he's a bit cantankerous when I show him how I'm learning to lift (Mark Rippetoe style, from Starting Strength). But... he's coming around. I managed to get him to put away the horrid Total Gym. Now we're looking into building me a power rack

VERY!

No matter what even when I was chubby he told me how good I looked and never downed me on my looks, but now that I'm losing weight (because of him...he started before me and it motivated me) we watch what we eat together, talk about our food intake/work outs (long distance relationship), and even work out together! He helps me with strength training while I help with his cardio :P

My husband is incredible! He's taken the time learn all about how my compulsive eating effects me and he's been my rock!

I gave my partner a little bit of a lecture last night about how I would like him to be a little supportive. Not that he's really unsupportive, just doesn't really think about things much. Like a couple of days ago he used up both the milk and the bread while I was out at work, didn't buy any more or tell me we'd run out. Instead, he orders a whole lot of pizzas and other junk food from Pizza Hut. So the next morning when I go to eat my breakfast (I usually have either porridge or a sandwich) and realise that there's no milk or bread, and I don't have enough time to go to the store being going to work. So I end up having some of his leftover pizza for breakfast. (ick!)

Totally!

I know he loves me now matter how I look, but he says all the right things when I'm fitting into smaller clothes. He's willing to try new foods - he's a convert to quinoa pilaff - and though he still buys the odd chocolate or cream bun treat for himself, I don't find that a temptation: his treat foods aren't what I would choose to eat.

My boyfriend isn't not supportive but he's not exactly supportive, haha. He will encourage me to not give up on my exercising because he knows it's important to me, but when it comes to food he wants me to have whatever I want. Like I've cut out sugar completely recently and whenever I'm craving it he'll want me to have some. So he's supportive with exercising, not so much with food, but not unsupportive, he just wants me to be happy :P

This is my situation exactly. He likes to make me happy. Part of making me happy before has been to bring me various treat items. This is just the kind of pattern we have fallen into. He doesn't want to derail my progress, but he doesn't want to deprive me of something either. If that makes any sense. He's really proud of my efforts, though. :-)

Today we promised our girls ice cream as a treat. When we pulled into Sonic he asked me if I wanted anything, but he didn't push it when I said no. That's supportive in my book. His quiet acceptance is really what I need. I don't need someone riding my *kitten*. Stuff like that just irritates me and will often subconsciously drive me to rebel. I just need someone to be proud of the work I'm doing and provide encouragement if I need it. His 'support methods' worked fabulously when I decided to quit smoking. I suspect he will be just as helpful on this journey.