dating? age?

ineedhelp18
ineedhelp18 Posts: 37 Member
edited November 10 in Chit-Chat
I've never dated anyone and would love to go out on a date. how old were you when you went out on your first date?
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  • shovav91
    shovav91 Posts: 2,335 Member
    I wasn't allowed to date until my Freshman year of high school, although I did have a middle school "boyfriend". I don't think people are emotionally mature enough to truly date until at least high school.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I wasn't allow to date until I was 16 but I didn't get my first bf until 18.
  • Bucky83
    Bucky83 Posts: 1,194 Member
    I was 26 when I went on my first date (which also happened to be my first kiss).

    I'm a late bloomer. Lol.
  • godricshollow
    godricshollow Posts: 274 Member
    I was 26 when I went on my first date (which also happened to be my first kiss).

    I'm a late bloomer. Lol.

    I was a late bloomer as well!
  • Trinketona
    Trinketona Posts: 190
    20
  • andreacord
    andreacord Posts: 928
    I had some "dates" but didn't have my first boyfriend until 16. We were together for two years and split recently.
  • rainbowkitty79
    rainbowkitty79 Posts: 94
    17
  • katisabanana
    katisabanana Posts: 185 Member
    i had my first boyfriend at 14.
    i fell in love for the first time at 18. :)
  • rolliepollie087
    rolliepollie087 Posts: 251 Member
    I was very young.

    But I have been with my now husband for 9 years, started dating at 15.
  • kr3851
    kr3851 Posts: 994 Member
    I had my first kiss at 25, and didn't go on a real date until I met my current boyfriend. I'm 28. I used to be embarrassed about it, but really it's nothing to be ashamed of! I didn't meet my Mr Right until it was the right time in my life - I would have waited another 10 years for this guy... he's a keeper!!
  • adioschubs
    adioschubs Posts: 384 Member
    I had my first kiss at 17 and started dating when I was 18.
  • dslmech98
    dslmech98 Posts: 12
    Its not the girls who are the only late bloomers. didnt get my first kiss till i met someone while in military at age 19. Found miss right at 23. This april will be 18 years of glorious marriage. Hang in there, that person will be along and youll be happy you waited
  • ashleab37
    ashleab37 Posts: 575 Member
    I had my first kiss at 13 and my first real boyfriend at (I think it was) 15.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    14. it was awful.
    first kiss was 15. just as awful.
  • ineedhelp18
    ineedhelp18 Posts: 37 Member
    I haven't had a kiss either. I am 18 btw
  • Banrion
    Banrion Posts: 157 Member
    1st real date was college, I was 19. Those 'dates' in high school I don't count, when I knew what a real date was I was like WOW!
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    My parents never told me and my sister what age we were allowed to date. So my sister started dating in middle school, and had a serious boyfriend for freshman and sophomore year of high school, while I only went on my first date at age 21 (didn't turn into anything) and have never been kissed. I think it depends on how mature you are for your age. If you want to date, you should!
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    I started early!
    Dated at age 11, started "experimenting" at age 12, fell in love at age 16, married at age 18, 5 kids, great life - 28 years later we're still together.

    It's a wonderful adventure!:drinker:
  • Misiaxcore
    Misiaxcore Posts: 659 Member
    I had my first "boyfriend' when I was 14. Our dates consisted of us hanging out with our friends LOL. That's basically how it went until I was 17 when I went on my first "real" date.

    ETA: A real date to me is when the guy picks you up and your friends don't tag along for the date loooool.
  • soriadarkstar
    soriadarkstar Posts: 24
    I had my first kiss at 16 but didn't really date or have a "boyfriend" until I was 18. I think meeting the right person is more important than the age at which you do it.
  • Puffins1958
    Puffins1958 Posts: 614 Member
    4 days before my 19th birthday :)
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    First kiss at 13/14, was ok, the next was horrific, like a washing machine :laugh:
    Had my first boyfriend at 19, never had a "date" before that!
  • PrincessLou71186
    PrincessLou71186 Posts: 741 Member
    My first date was when I was 15, I was with the guy for 23 month. I was with another guy after him for 10 month and meet my hubby when I was 18, I'm now 25.
  • amymeenieminymo
    amymeenieminymo Posts: 2,394 Member
    I was 16 when I went on my first date, which also turned into my first (joke of a) relationship. But then again aren't most high school relationships a joke?
  • kimmianne89
    kimmianne89 Posts: 428 Member
    Never had an actual date. First boyfriend was when i was a child like 6/7 and we held hand an wrote notes until he told his mum and I freaked out so dumped him haha. Otherwise from 14 I guess. But I have had the same boyfriend since i was 17 and now im 22 :)
  • Luckldy31
    Luckldy31 Posts: 34 Member
    My mom and dad said I couldn't date until I'm 30 or have my doctorate.... whichever comes sooner... haha

    but I've never been on a "date"...so maybe I'm following their rule afterall...
  • LATeagno
    LATeagno Posts: 620 Member
    I met my first "real" boyfriend when I was 16. He was my first everything. Tenth grade was a pretty big year! :)
  • Ginger4real
    Ginger4real Posts: 162
    I also started young ...I was 12 when I got my first kiss..but it was more of a dare....I met and started dating my Husband at 13 ...Got an apartment with him at 16...married him at 24 ...I'll be 33 next week and we are still married ..with 2 daughters.

    With all that said.... I wish I had waited longer ..the years have been pretty crazy ...we were far too young to have a clue about love and relationships... I missed way too many moments that I can never get back with friends..and grew up wayyyy tooo fast..I'd fight my girls tooth and nail to wait longer to start dating...and when they do start...to date more ..and to experiment and experience more in life before worrying about settling down.
  • carlos1989
    carlos1989 Posts: 74 Member
    first kiss on first date when i was 20 only lasted a month... too many things were just saying we couldnt be together
  • HeidiMightyRawr
    HeidiMightyRawr Posts: 3,343 Member
    First boyfriend at 14 I wouldn't call it dating as we never went on a proper "date" as we were so young. We just used to go round each others house after school and hang out with friends.

    Second boyfriend (who I'm still with now) was couple of weeks before I was 15. We went on dates like to the cinema and stuff, but we never dated before we became boyfriend/girlfriend. We just liked each other when we were just friends, so started seeing each other, then we had the dates. I think when you're young it's completely different to when your an adult though and you actually go on dates before it become "official" lol

    I never got told at what age I could / couldn't start dating and having a bf. Yet, when I did my Mum didn't complain about it.
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