My libido left me with my lbs

PercivalHackworth
PercivalHackworth Posts: 1,437 Member
edited November 11 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi all,
since I've lost all my lbs, my libido is missing. I suggest they are both having an affair.
I've never really had the time to burn my calories with it - but I just noticed the last few months, it's the real real desert around.

It's too weird to be a simple coincidence, any back up here ?
- cheers mates
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  • TiffanyW1014
    TiffanyW1014 Posts: 599 Member
    Bump for later but I feel ya on this one.... Not sure if its real or something in my head but its gone!
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
    Nope - just the opposite here, sorry.
  • PercivalHackworth
    PercivalHackworth Posts: 1,437 Member
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  • PercivalHackworth
    PercivalHackworth Posts: 1,437 Member
    Nope - just the opposite here, sorry.

    You don't have to :laugh:
  • cekeys
    cekeys Posts: 397 Member
    I'll admit now that I'm thinking about it, there have been definite flucuations.
  • brenteesha
    brenteesha Posts: 49
    A quick Google search indicates that it should be the opposite... most page captions I saw mentioned weight loss helping your libido. Sorry that this isn't the case for you! Maybe it's just in your head? :) I doubt it's for a lack of interest in you, that's all I have to say. Ha!
  • nnapieralski
    nnapieralski Posts: 132 Member
    Same here. My drive has bottomed out since I started working out and loosing weight. I don't understand it either! =(
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
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    First of all, not many people on here are going to be able to relate to this. Going from obese to normal weight -->increase in libido. Going from normal to ripped --->possible decrease in libido.

    Looking at your photos, you're around 8% bodyfat at most. Having that low bodfat can decrease testosterone output for some males. Also, being in a calorie deficit for a long period of time can mess with your testosterone production. Getting as ripped as you are is no different than starving to death, as far as your body is concerned. Your body isn't going to put many resources into reproduction when it thinks it's starving to death.

    I personally dealt with this as well. It's not a loss in sexual function, more like a decrease interest. The good news is, when you raise calories, your libido will come back. It looks like you're bulking now, and you're keeping your fat intake high, so you're doing well. Speaking from personal expereince, give it a few weeks and you'll be fine.
  • garbanzalo
    garbanzalo Posts: 61 Member
    It's a sign of overtraining. Not sure about women but for men, the libido should increase since proper training will result in an increase in testosterone.
  • YcatsFursworth
    YcatsFursworth Posts: 273 Member
    odd... I'm the other way around... mine's higher since my weightloss...
  • PercivalHackworth
    PercivalHackworth Posts: 1,437 Member
    A quick Google search indicates that it should be the opposite... most page captions I saw mentioned weight loss helping your libido. Sorry that this isn't the case for you! Maybe it's just in your head? :) I doubt it's for a lack of interest in you, that's all I have to say. Ha!

    Mmmm quite interesing :
    Hypothyroidism and Sexual Health

    Patients suffering with abnormally slow thyroid function know that this disorder can sometimes make even the simplest tasks of everyday life feel like an impossible struggle. Depression, fatigue, low energy, weight gain, lethargy, and exhaustion are facts of life for many hypothyroid patients.

    Today, awareness about thyroid health issues is at an all-time high, so it’s easier than ever before for patients with hyperthyroidism to seek out valuable information about many of the symptoms that they face. However, the sensitive issue of sexual health is often not as readily and widely discussed.

    The reality is that sexual problems are a common side effect of hypothyroidism. Specifically, many patients with hypothyroidism report having difficulty achieving and maintaining arousal. Researchers believe that these symptoms are attributable to the overall slowdown of the metabolism that hypothyroidism causes.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    yikes....:noway:


    I would send out a search party
  • jenlarz
    jenlarz Posts: 813 Member
    Mines up too. I think just b/c I feel so much better about myself....But my sleeping at night is shot to hell too and gotta take up the time awake with something :)
  • cekeys
    cekeys Posts: 397 Member
    It's a sign of overtraining. Not sure about women but for men, the libido should increase since proper training will result in an increase in testosterone.

    I wonder if 6 days per week in the gym counts as overtraining?
  • mrschappet
    mrschappet Posts: 488 Member
    I can totally relate to this... I would say its since I started weight training....its nice to know its not just me!
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    Completely the other way around! Less pounds has TOTALLY amped up my drive!
  • lvng_lf
    lvng_lf Posts: 41 Member
    try eating foods that have a historical label of inducing an aphrodisiac effect like oysters and clams. I'm sure there's more if you google it.

    I think we eliminate certain foods (like mood enhancing Sugar:) and it does have an effect on our chemical balances in our body.
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    hmm, it's different for me, i feel the ommmph much more. my wife starts to ask crazy questions like, why is that my performance is better? why am i too horny?

    as for diet, i'm always high in protein and cycle the low/high carb. reduce sugar. good exercise and make sure i'm well rested. maybe your missing something which might cause your weight lose with negative effect.
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    It's a sign of overtraining. Not sure about women but for men, the libido should increase since proper training will result in an increase in testosterone.

    But that testosterone will fuel muscle growth not libido.
  • lawmama_
    lawmama_ Posts: 103 Member
    Same here. My drive has bottomed out since I started working out and loosing weight. I don't understand it either! =(

    me too! and i'm losing more hair than ever!
  • BIGJIMMYU
    BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
    Don't feel bad! My hair took off 10 years ago with my butt and I haven't seen either one of them since!
  • Nerdybookgirl
    Nerdybookgirl Posts: 105 Member
    Oh no! Mine has increased since losing weight (or really I think the exercise is doing it). I'd say bulk up your calories, get lots of sleep, take some vitamins and don't put pressure on yourself. Sometimes our bodies can act strangely. I know this isn't your situation, but when my son was born and I first began breastfeeding I lost ALL interest. I was so upset about losing interest that then it became more awful. It is sorta like worrying over the clock when you are trying to sleep... pressure and tension rise and then you can't sleep at all.

    Good luck to you? Also -- check any medications you may be on (even supplements or herbs) that can impact libido as well.
  • blueyegrl
    blueyegrl Posts: 248 Member
    I have the total opposite, the more I lose, the more I want to be nekid. lmao I hope your libido comes back ASAP! After so many years without one, I certainly know what your missing!
  • PercivalHackworth
    PercivalHackworth Posts: 1,437 Member
    It's a sign of overtraining. Not sure about women but for men, the libido should increase since proper training will result in an increase in testosterone.

    I wonder if 6 days per week in the gym counts as overtraining?

    Depends on the intensity :laugh:
    But the correlation factor i've been able to draw out is people motivated enough to train 6 days/ week don't consider resting enough - I used to train around 12-14 hours/ week, back there I thought it was a cool rythm. So there is no rule - as always :)
  • Grlnxtdr0721
    Grlnxtdr0721 Posts: 597 Member
    It's a sign of overtraining. Not sure about women but for men, the libido should increase since proper training will result in an increase in testosterone.

    I wonder if 6 days per week in the gym counts as overtraining?

    It could be...from what I've read and been told, 5 days/week is a good amount of exercise. Your body/muscles needs time to re-cooperate. If it isn't getting this time, it can case injury...And maybe a libido decrease?
  • rammsteinsoldier
    rammsteinsoldier Posts: 1,552 Member
    Complete opposite. My libido has become quite active which in my circumstances is very frustrating.
  • ionlyhavesporx
    ionlyhavesporx Posts: 120
    I agree with many of the folks in that as I continue to workout and get in shape, my libido gets stronger and stronger.....
  • Shizzman
    Shizzman Posts: 527 Member
    It just varies in general...the human body has a lot of variables...
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    after only 2 kg? I suggest there may be another reason.
  • budgetqueen79
    budgetqueen79 Posts: 310 Member
    Maca
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