Needing to get healthy for pregnancy

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  • ShrinkinMel
    ShrinkinMel Posts: 982 Member
    That's a great goal. I'm sure you'll find quite a few here with similar goals. Me I'd definitely like more children one day so in a sense I'm in the same boat but I have no time plan on trying again. I'm divorcing and have no man in my life right now. :( One day I hope to have another 1-2 babies maybe more but it wouldn't happen at my weight with blood pressure problems. I had lost 40 lbs before my daughter however I gained back a lot when I met her father and we started to eat at restaurants a lot. I didn't gain much in the beginning of pregnancy then my bp went up at 30 weeks and I started putting on weight. So yep I definitely want to be fit and at an ideal body weight/BMI before anymore pregnancies.
  • mrsvampette
    mrsvampette Posts: 99 Member
    I am in the same boat. We have been trying to get pregnant for a year unsuccessfully and I finally buckled down and started losing some weight. I'm still not pregnant yet but that just means I have more progress to make before it can happen. I also need to lose weight for other reasons but getting pregnant is one of the big reasons. Anyone feel free to add me.
  • Looks like I figured out how to start a group. What should be we call it? Any suggestions?
  • agranados87
    agranados87 Posts: 23 Member
    Hi everyone!
    I had my first baby a little over 5 months ago, but before I got prego I was in the same boat as most of you. Although I was already very healthy and fit, I knew I couldn't maintain my tempo and get pregnant. Anyways, I cut out all drinking (alcohol, even just one drink), started taking pre-natals before we started trying, and charted every month. My husband was deployed at the time, so it was easy for me to focus on myself and really get healthy. We ended up getting pregnant very easily, but I then fell in to the "eating for two trap"; I gained almost 60 lbs!!! I felt horrible after I had my baby, but thanks to mfp and working out, I know only have about 8 lbs to get back to my pre-preg weight :)

    I wish all of you ladies the best of luck... my baby has been the most wonderful blessing. Please feel free to add me if you need a friend :)
  • Wow! So many amazing stories! Thanks ladies for all the support. Good to know I am not alone.
  • Looks like I figured out how to start a group. What should be we call it? Any suggestions?

    So excited! Let me know what you end up calling it so I can join... I don't have any creative suggestions as to a name, how abut something straight forward, like "Fit for pregnancy"?
  • sculley
    sculley Posts: 2,012 Member
    I can say from experince that MFP will definately help. We had been trying for over a year. It is hard to stick to it at times when life is so hectic. I had started my weight loss journey last year around january and lost some weight then in May I found fitness pal and fell in love with it. I lost more weight then we were blessed with becmoing pregnant after trying for way to long and I had to put my diet on hold. I am 29 and have a 4 1/2 year old son and we were blessed January 17 with our newest son. I still can not hit the gym yet or really diet hard, but I am back on track and weigh less than I did before I became pregnant with a total weight loss of 39 pounds and it feels great. It is hard to put yourself in the equation but when you are ready , now that is when the magic happens. Good luck on your journey and I would like to help with the support and motivation.

    I am in the same boat. I had my first kid in 05 and 2008 found this site and lost 40lbs. I ended up getting pregnant in 2010 with my youngest and am here to get the weight off as well. I am prepregnant weight as of right now but I still have about 14lbs to make it to my goal of 140.
  • TriciaZ944
    TriciaZ944 Posts: 317 Member
    Hi all. I also am ttc, I don't need to ole weight but I want to be in better shape. Good luck all with your journey!
  • AEcklar813
    AEcklar813 Posts: 184 Member
    Hi! I started last year in June just wanting to lose weight. I NEEDED to lose weight anyways but now we're talking about having another baby. Hoping to start trying in Sept. So now my goal is to lose as much as I can and to be in better shape by Sept. =)
  • HugznKiki
    HugznKiki Posts: 170 Member
    Looks like I figured out how to start a group. What should be we call it? Any suggestions?

    lol I have no idea...Making Bodies for Babies?? hehehe send me a link to the group when you create it..I'm so excited that there are so many people having the same concerns!!! I look forward to us all meeting our goals and getting preggo!!
  • butterflyliz32
    butterflyliz32 Posts: 124 Member
    I am in the same boat. A while back, I went to the OB/GYN to talk to her about getting pregnant. She advised me not to, until I could get my weight, Diabetes, and blood pressure under control. It was really hard to hear, but I know she is right. I spent the last year really battling some health concerns, but am finally feeling like myself again. I really want to lose this weight to get my health back on track so that my new husband and I can have a beautiful baby.

    My sister is a NICU nurse, and has warned me about what can happen if I don't get my body into a healthier situation, so I am really motivated to do this!!

    Feel free to add me (any of you!) and we can continue to support each other.
  • cressievargo
    cressievargo Posts: 392 Member
    I have 3 kids & have been overweight for all of them. Pregnancies were not bad other than with my middle son I was very close to having GD.

    My oldest 2 are 5 yrs apart. I had to take Metformin before I got pregnant. I most likely have PCOS (although it was never "confirmed" by my dr) and insulin resistance. The reality is that for some people, yes, your weight can affect your ability to conceive. That doesn't mean that is the case for everyone, obviously - but it is a very real possibility.

    Husband & I are on the fence about another..some days yes, some days a resounding no...but I told him either way I want to be thin enough that I look pregnant - not just fatter. I want to do those cute maternity pics... =)
    So far I have lost about 17 lbs but I really need to ramp up my exercise - and I still have a long way to go to my goal weight.

    Best of luck to everyone on their journeys!! =)
  • Lizzard_77
    Lizzard_77 Posts: 232 Member
    Yes! I am going through the same thing. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for 6 months now all the while I need to lose approx. 30 lbs. I don't know if the extra weight has something to do with not getting preggers but I definitely don't want to go into it being this overweight. I would love to go into pregnancy trusting that my body is healthy and ready to nourish a baby, and I can't imagine what it will feel like to have 30-40 extra lbs on my already overweight frame!

    I have found this site to be helpful in keeping me accountable but would also like to find some friends for some extra accountability. It would also be nice to have someone to go through this with. I have a friend I meet weekly with to exercise and we touch base daily about exercise and food but, she is not in the slightest interested in children. And all my other friends either are single or already have kids. It would be nice to have someone to chat with that's in the same situation as me :)
  • kdhill27
    kdhill27 Posts: 7 Member
    I have been dealing with infertility for the last 15 years. My husband and I went thru an IVF treament last fall, with negative results. They had to up my dose of meds because I was not responding and my doctor attributes some of it to being overweight. We plan on trying again but my doctor wants me to lose a minimum of 40lbs. My goal is a lot higher by the time we try again this fall. MFP has definitely helped me keep on track and accountable.
  • viclee1
    viclee1 Posts: 156 Member
    I'm another one. Although it isn't a primary reason for weightloss, it's definately in my mind. DH and I want to start trying in the fall (sept/ oct) for #3 and I hope to be at my goal weight before then :)
  • Lizzard_77
    Lizzard_77 Posts: 232 Member
    Looks like I figured out how to start a group. What should be we call it? Any suggestions?

    Healthy Bodies, Healthy Babies (?)
  • For those of you that are interested. There is a MFP group for folks Trying to Conceive (TTC) and one for women who are pregnant. I’m a member of "TTC-For future mommies to be" and the other one is titled "Fit, Fabulous, & pregnant!" Hope this helps!

    Feel free to add me as a friend as well. I'm trying to get fit and continue to tone while TTC. Hoping to get pregnant and maintain a healthy weight through the pregnancy. But one step at a time, this TTC thing is proving to be harder than i thought.
  • Ok ladies. I put together a group called "Healthy Mommy To Be." Check it out!
  • CurveAppeal86
    CurveAppeal86 Posts: 272 Member
    My husband and I have been trying for a year and a half to get pregnant, so I am definitely looking into your new group!
  • atynk
    atynk Posts: 400 Member
    I know how you feel... 3 years ago I lost 50 lbs just because we wanted to get pregnant later on.... when I did I gained 35 lbs, and now 3 months post baby only have 10 left to go... It was soo worth all the hard work. I got to enjoy being pregnant and hearing how good I looked instead of going over 200 lbs. The weight has fallen off and I feel better than ever, and enjoy not having to stress so much about baby weight



    Here is the link to my before/after/before/ after lol if you want to know more


    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/494089-before-during-and-after-baby

    Good luck to you, and remember that you aren't just doing it for you, but the baby also :)
  • timetogetfitter
    timetogetfitter Posts: 26 Member
    Hows everyone doing?
  • timetogetfitter
    timetogetfitter Posts: 26 Member
    I know how you feel... 3 years ago I lost 50 lbs just because we wanted to get pregnant later on.... when I did I gained 35 lbs, and now 3 months post baby only have 10 left to go... It was soo worth all the hard work. I got to enjoy being pregnant and hearing how good I looked instead of going over 200 lbs. The weight has fallen off and I feel better than ever, and enjoy not having to stress so much about baby weight



    Here is the link to my before/after/before/ after lol if you want to know more


    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/494089-before-during-and-after-baby

    Good luck to you, and remember that you aren't just doing it for you, but the baby also :)


    You look amazing well done x
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