Are u jelly :-?
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I just looked at this and then in a mirror.
Nope and that was a relief.
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Jealousy is a deeply unattractive trait in a partner.0
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I could care less if my fiance had girl friends. But, if he's flirting and laughing, then thats a different story.
So, it's ok if he has friends he's miserable with, but he can't have a laugh? People have friends or they don't, and honestly, people are true, or they aren't. Being all jealous (jelly is a pudding in my world) makes f* all difference at the end of the day.
I believe my comment wasnt going to you. thanks.
My reply was to you and the OP, but it's good to know you don't need to get all defensive!0 -
yepnah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me
hell - if im lucky she'll come along too
So much for being in a committed marriage huh 0 -
exactly!nah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me hell - if im lucky she'll come along too
So much for being in a committed marriage huh
it isn't cheating if he's coming home to her.
if the woman comes along then great.
She's saying he's committed to her and is okay with a threesome.
how is that wrong?0 -
I look at it this way..........as long as you know yourself what you are protraying, then I think that that's a really good thing. Its a way to help cope and find ways to improve. It also matters in how you deal with it too.......it can be flattering that you are jealous because it does show a degree of love and wanting for things to still be good in the relationship department, but it can also be damaging if shown the wrong way........."macho-ism"......ie. stepping in and getting in the other dude's face = not okay..........weird comments aren't ok either. But if you find your own way of expressing them, letting her know just how you feel but acting casually ok with it all too, I think that it could be flattering to say the least.
Then again, I haven't really been in too many relationships either........but thats my opinoin.........
p.s. I do suggest that if you can.........get past it........understand that she is with you for a very good reason.........she loves you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be with you. And be sure to communicate with her on how you feel often no matter what. As long as you do, if she is accepting and loves you the way I think she does, she will come to understand or struggle to understand without getting upset each time it happens. Jealousy isn't a one person thing...........nothing really is when you are a couple.........its a two person thing. And who knows, she may be able to help you change that part of you if it is straining on the relationship.0 -
or they can enhance them.nah - flirting is awesome. i think its awesome when hubby flirts with another woman, or she flirts with him.. because i know hes coming home to me hell - if im lucky she'll come along too
So much for being in a committed marriage huh
it isn't cheating if he's coming home to her.
if the woman comes along then great.
She's saying he's committed to her and is okay with a threesome.
how is that wrong?
Threesomes ruin relationships. But hey to each their own0 -
I can't leave this alone for some reason.
What I always want to get across on these threads is that a relationship isn't a fixed contract. Two people are together because they want to be, and if one person starts acting in a way that is unacceptable to the other, the other shouldn't be surprised if they get dumped pronto. You don't own anyone. Even marriage doesn't imply ownership. Everyone is their own person and is free to do as they choose and as a partner it is up to you to either accept who that person is, or leave. That is all there is to a relationship, finally.0 -
When ur dearly significant other talks w/ someone of the opposite sex and u see them having fun. I
She rips people to shreds who try and hit on her tho im mega jealous for some reason.
As a dude thing, if Michelle hangs w/ friends and theres a dude, instantly im all "yknow he wants to bone u right?" cus its super obvious.
Am i the only one puts up w/ their S/O having friends who are Opposite sex tho is mega jealous and greedy w/ em :-?
Im prob super insecure but damnit, i kno what i want!
Can anyone translate this into English for me ?0 -
Nope. My fiance is much worse.
I told him my ex boyfriend said "Hi. whats up? I miss you" on facebook. and he got all pissed off and told me to delete my facebook NOW.
I could care less if my fiance had girl friends. But, if he's flirting and laughing, then thats a different story.
Umm...Thats extreme!0 -
Eesh... people I'm in relationships with aren't possessions. Or preserves...
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I can't leave this alone for some reason.
What I always want to get across on these threads is that a relationship isn't a fixed contract. Two people are together because they want to be, and if one person starts acting in a way that is unacceptable to the other, the other shouldn't be surprised if they get dumped pronto. You don't own anyone. Even marriage doesn't imply ownership. Everyone is their own person and is free to do as they choose and as a partner it is up to you to either accept who that person is, or leave. That is all there is to a relationship, finally.
Call me naive.........but I thought it was all about being loving and supporting of each other........working out differences and being there for them through thick and thin is what its all about. Love is unconditional when it comes to serious relationships and marriage.........so to me, unconditional love means both accepting each others faults..........but it also means validating their feelings and trying to see where they are coming from so you can meet them at the level they are on.0 -
My man, has never been the jealous type. Sometimes, I hate to say it, but I wish he was just a little bit. I used to go every Friday night with the ladies to a local bar. my husband didn't care, I'd always come home drunk to him and he was happy. He'd even ask me how many free drinks I got from the men, or if there was any hott guys at the bar tonight?0
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^^^ This.Jealousy is a deeply unattractive trait in a partner.
Times ten.
I love my man and he loves me. We are best friends. We both have friends of "the opposite sex" and we both love to laugh. But when it comes down to it, we are 100% committed to each other and our family.
I would never ask him to give up his friendships, just because they happen to be with females. If he asked me to give up mine, he knows I would laugh - because he'd HAVE to be joking.0 -
I can't leave this alone for some reason.
What I always want to get across on these threads is that a relationship isn't a fixed contract. Two people are together because they want to be, and if one person starts acting in a way that is unacceptable to the other, the other shouldn't be surprised if they get dumped pronto. You don't own anyone. Even marriage doesn't imply ownership. Everyone is their own person and is free to do as they choose and as a partner it is up to you to either accept who that person is, or leave. That is all there is to a relationship, finally.
Call me naive.........but I thought it was all about being loving and supporting of each other........working out differences and being there for them through thick and thin is what its all about. Love is unconditional when it comes to serious relationships and marriage.........so to me, unconditional love means both accepting each others faults..........but it also means validating their feelings and trying to see where they are coming from so you can meet them at the level they are on.
It depends how much compromise you expect. To me marriage is about mutual acceptance. You can't change other people, only yourself, and if you really love someone why would you want to change them? I think giving someone the space to be themselves, while letting them know you are there for them is the most important thing in a relationship.0 -
LMAO!
lol
Im phonetically and articulately challenged :F
Gimme a break, i live in socal and speak a hybrid of nerd/surfer/bro/gaylord/art
I was super jelly but she got all mega on my case and was like "untell MFP AND NOT ME?!" and im like "yeah... Cus i wanna make sure im not being a lame-o and making the right choice."
Thanks everyone.
I may not articulate in a feasible way for the 22nd century tho i know what love is
Take care everyone and thanks for indulging my psychosis.0 -
I can't leave this alone for some reason.
What I always want to get across on these threads is that a relationship isn't a fixed contract. Two people are together because they want to be, and if one person starts acting in a way that is unacceptable to the other, the other shouldn't be surprised if they get dumped pronto. You don't own anyone. Even marriage doesn't imply ownership. Everyone is their own person and is free to do as they choose and as a partner it is up to you to either accept who that person is, or leave. That is all there is to a relationship, finally.
Call me naive.........but I thought it was all about being loving and supporting of each other........working out differences and being there for them through thick and thin is what its all about. Love is unconditional when it comes to serious relationships and marriage.........so to me, unconditional love means both accepting each others faults..........but it also means validating their feelings and trying to see where they are coming from so you can meet them at the level they are on.
It depends how much compromise you expect. To me marriage is about mutual acceptance. You can't change other people, only yourself, and if you really love someone why would you want to change them? I think giving someone the space to be themselves, while letting them know you are there for them is the most important thing in a relationship.
It depends on what you want them to change..........in this matter, you can't ask that he stop being jealous, but on the other hand, he can't just ignore that she doesn't like it if he really does love her and wants her and him to be together for a very long time.......or if they were in a marriage, to stay married........therefore both parties have to have a mutual give and take. That's what I meant. Telling them to change and not changing yourself is not the way to be........and in that situation its not allowing anyone to be themselves either.0 -
LMAO!
lol
Im phonetically and articulately challenged :F
Gimme a break, i live in socal and speak a hybrid of nerd/surfer/bro/gaylord/art
I was super jelly but she got all mega on my case and was like "untell MFP AND NOT ME?!" and im like "yeah... Cus i wanna make sure im not being a lame-o and making the right choice."
Thanks everyone.
I may not articulate in a feasible way for the 22nd century tho i know what love is
Take care everyone and thanks for indulging my psychosis.
Im like that.........often times I check on myself to see if, where I am coming from, is right cause in an argument, I know for myself its SO easy for me to only see my side of things and not the other..........and in those incidences someone will always say something like did you ever think of it this way? And sometimes it will even surprise me that I never once gave it a thought. So I totally understand where you are coming from........0 -
LMAO!
lol
Im phonetically and articulately challenged :F
Gimme a break, i live in socal and speak a hybrid of nerd/surfer/bro/gaylord/art
I was super jelly but she got all mega on my case and was like "untell MFP AND NOT ME?!" and im like "yeah... Cus i wanna make sure im not being a lame-o and making the right choice."
Thanks everyone.
I may not articulate in a feasible way for the 22nd century tho i know what love is
Take care everyone and thanks for indulging my psychosis.
I am not a grammar Nazi but a little advice from someone that has been around a bit.
Honestly thought you were from England or similar.
If you want to get ahead drop the pseudo gibberish and learn to speak normally.
If a person game to me looking for a job and spoke like that I would show them the door.
You really need to work on maturing in many ways,don`t get angry just think about it.0 -
LMAO!
lol
Im phonetically and articulately challenged :F
Gimme a break, i live in socal and speak a hybrid of nerd/surfer/bro/gaylord/art
I was super jelly but she got all mega on my case and was like "untell MFP AND NOT ME?!" and im like "yeah... Cus i wanna make sure im not being a lame-o and making the right choice."
Thanks everyone.
I may not articulate in a feasible way for the 22nd century tho i know what love is
Take care everyone and thanks for indulging my psychosis.
I am not a grammar Nazi but a little advice from someone that has been around a bit.
Honestly thought you were from England or similar.
If you want to get ahead drop the pseudo gibberish and learn to speak normally.
If a person game to me looking for a job and spoke like that I would show them the door.
You really need to work on maturing in many ways,don`t get angry just think about it.
I live in England, and I assure you, it is abundantly clear the OP isn't from here! No one writes like that.0 -
nope I do not get jealous. The people I care about are not my posessions I would never think that I could/should control who they interact with and how.0
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LMAO!
lol
Im phonetically and articulately challenged :F
Gimme a break, i live in socal and speak a hybrid of nerd/surfer/bro/gaylord/art
I was super jelly but she got all mega on my case and was like "untell MFP AND NOT ME?!" and im like "yeah... Cus i wanna make sure im not being a lame-o and making the right choice."
Thanks everyone.
I may not articulate in a feasible way for the 22nd century tho i know what love is
Take care everyone and thanks for indulging my psychosis.
I am not a grammar Nazi but a little advice from someone that has been around a bit.
Honestly thought you were from England or similar.
If you want to get ahead drop the pseudo gibberish and learn to speak normally.
If a person game to me looking for a job and spoke like that I would show them the door.
You really need to work on maturing in many ways,don`t get angry just think about it.
I live in England, and I assure you, it is abundantly clear the OP isn't from here! No one writes like that.
No offense intended,just thought he was using terms common for a country other then the USA,
Like how we call the cover of a car engine compartment a hood while many other countries call it a bonnet.0 -
LMAO!
lol
Im phonetically and articulately challenged :F
Gimme a break, i live in socal and speak a hybrid of nerd/surfer/bro/gaylord/art
I was super jelly but she got all mega on my case and was like "untell MFP AND NOT ME?!" and im like "yeah... Cus i wanna make sure im not being a lame-o and making the right choice."
Thanks everyone.
I may not articulate in a feasible way for the 22nd century tho i know what love is
Take care everyone and thanks for indulging my psychosis.
I am not a grammar Nazi but a little advice from someone that has been around a bit.
Honestly thought you were from England or similar.
If you want to get ahead drop the pseudo gibberish and learn to speak normally.
If a person game to me looking for a job and spoke like that I would show them the door.
You really need to work on maturing in many ways,don`t get angry just think about it.
^^^^ Exactly!! 0 -
Totally! I wouldnt hire me if i strolled in all loosy goosy and was wiggling around.
Maybe my articulation online is inextricably synced w/ my brain. Its wicked fast and impulsive.
Are rabbits cute? baby bunnies are cute.
Lol i got a job, but i straighten up and say my please and thank you's. But every once in a while my boss has to say "dont call me dude"
Im like brad pitt in Snatch
I guess its good, im getting over being jelly. I used to punch people alot cus i was angry, now i Terminator style analyze their personality and annihilate it.
Recovery right?
Thanks everyone, gave me a little perspective on my wild self.
Have a good one.0 -
LMAO!
lol
Im phonetically and articulately challenged :F
Gimme a break, i live in socal and speak a hybrid of nerd/surfer/bro/gaylord/art
I was super jelly but she got all mega on my case and was like "untell MFP AND NOT ME?!" and im like "yeah... Cus i wanna make sure im not being a lame-o and making the right choice."
Thanks everyone.
I may not articulate in a feasible way for the 22nd century tho i know what love is
Take care everyone and thanks for indulging my psychosis.
Not to be picky, I'll avoid correcting your grammar; but, I believe you should at least know what century this is.0 -
When ur dearly significant other talks w/ someone of the opposite sex and u see them having fun. I
She rips people to shreds who try and hit on her tho im mega jealous for some reason.
As a dude thing, if Michelle hangs w/ friends and theres a dude, instantly im all "yknow he wants to bone u right?" cus its super obvious.
Am i the only one puts up w/ their S/O having friends who are Opposite sex tho is mega jealous and greedy w/ em :-?
Im prob super insecure but damnit, i kno what i want!
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