do u NEED to work out??

kaseyAnne425
kaseyAnne425 Posts: 230
edited November 12 in Health and Weight Loss
Honestly, I HATE working out.. I pay $25 a month for a gym membership that I don't even use.. ive lost weight by just eating better before, and I plan to get back to the gym eventually, but I feel like tackling two things at once will cause undue stress and set me up for failure. Is it OK to wait a bit before getting into an exercise routine and to get used to rating better first? Please don't be mean
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  • melcasa
    melcasa Posts: 60 Member
    In order to lose weight and maintain a healthy lifestyle you should be doing both. Yes you can lose weight by just eating less but your body needs to move. You don't need a gym to workout. Walking, jogging, cleaning, gardening, ANYTHING that gets your heart rate is good for your body!

    Just find things you like and do them first. Then if you want to add strength training to your routine go back to the gym.
  • Stefanie7125
    Stefanie7125 Posts: 462 Member
    Please check out the "i just don't care anymore" thread under motivation and decide for yourself. Working out is soooo worth it!
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
    you do not NEED to do anything.

    however, working out will improve your attitude, your strength, your stamina, your appearance, your health, your ability to lose weight, your ability to eat MORE food and still lose weight, and also, you will be able to better handle REAL stress when you actually encounter it.

    blessings.
  • I just get so tired at the gym.. I have no energy after work (cant go before) and I never know what to even do once I'm there.. I don't know how to.properly work out
  • IvoryParchment
    IvoryParchment Posts: 651 Member
    I hate driving. I would never work out if I had to go to a gym. I have a treadmill at home. I use it to allow me to eat more. I like eating more. It's a pretty strong motivation.
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
    I just get so tired at the gym.. I have no energy after work (cant go before) and I never know what to even do once I'm there.. I don't know how to.properly work out

    Classes are there for that exact reason.

    You can make excuses, or you can make progress.
  • jaimelia
    jaimelia Posts: 1
    If you have a gym membership, you most likely have access to free training sessions. Ask at the front desk for someone to show you how to properly use the machines. A lot of times, they will even give you a circuit to work based on your goals. You pay for the membership, make sure you use all of it!
  • wittlelacey
    wittlelacey Posts: 391 Member
    I think you've already made your decision :) Try squeezing in a walk every now and then or a 20 minute Jillian Michael's workout! Even the smallest amount of exercise is better than nothing.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,989 Member
    I just get so tired at the gym.. I have no energy after work (cant go before) and I never know what to even do once I'm there.. I don't know how to.properly work out
    This is why you don't want to go. Lack of knowledge will deter anybody from going. Get a free training session and have them write down. A basic training regimen of at least 1 exercise per body part is a good way to start.
    You can lose weight without exercise, but your body will just be like jello in the end. Start lifting now to help deter that from happening.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
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  • Honestly, I think eating healthfully is 90% of the battle. Even Jillian Michaels has been quoted as saying that if you eat very well, you need minimal exercise to maintain a healthy weight. I definitely believe in getting up and moving around. Walking the dog, playing with the kids in the park, doing housework, raking leaves, etc. But not everyone needs to be doing cardio at the gym to be healthy. Just sayin.
  • melcasa
    melcasa Posts: 60 Member
    Yeah if you don't know what you're doing don't go and hurt yourself (or take up machines others are trying to use, that's the worst)

    If you don't have energy it means you are not eating properly before and after to fuel your body
  • I just get so tired at the gym.. I have no energy after work (cant go before) and I never know what to even do once I'm there.. I don't know how to.properly work out

    Classes are there for that exact reason.

    You can make excuses, or you can make progress.
    I really don't need you to tell me I'm making excuses. I'm not. I'm telling you its physically difficult for Me to exercise at the gym.. please don't tell me that I'm making excuses. It does not make me feel better.
  • joejccva71
    joejccva71 Posts: 2,985 Member
    I just get so tired at the gym.. I have no energy after work (cant go before) and I never know what to even do once I'm there.. I don't know how to.properly work out
    This is why you don't want to go. Lack of knowledge will deter anybody from going. Get a free training session and have them write down. A basic training regimen of at least 1 exercise per body part is a good way to start.
    You can lose weight without exercise, but your body will just be like jello in the end. Start lifting now to help deter that from happening.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    Perfect answer.

    OP- It's all about Body Composition. Get a book about lifting, and find a way to work the gym into your schedule.
  • SmashleeWpg
    SmashleeWpg Posts: 567 Member
    Does your gym offer training sessions; maybe the first one free?

    Do you have friends that are into fitness and might be able to point you in the right direction?

    Have you considered trying workout DVDS (Jillian is pretty popular - she's a beeeyotch but damn, she gets the job done!) :)

    What about finding routines online from reputed sources like bodybuilding.com, Oxygen Magazine, etc?

    Feel free to add me if you want some suggestions or help! :)
  • I should probably mention that I do NOT have A desk job; I'm a toddler teacher and I chase arounsd 9 2-year olds everyday for 8 hours. So I'm not just sitting around all day. Hence why I'm exhausted after work.
  • trelm249
    trelm249 Posts: 777 Member
    Working Out in this context can be either cardio training or resistance training.

    While you can lose weight just by modifying your diet, your body will shed muscle with the fat to accommodate the caloric deficit thus lowering your resting metabolism, thus increasing the likelihood of regaining the weight as more fat.

    The exercise pays dividends other than increased fat utilization.
    It improves mental health by being an anxiety and stress outlet. (I work out after work and this is very tangible)
    Better regulation of blood sugar and blood pressure.
    It actually boost overall energy levels.
    It improves neuromuscular efficiency. (quicker and stronger)
    It improves balance.
    Resistance training improves bone density. (think anti-osteoporosis)

    Pick something you sorta enjoy (or at least tolerate) and try for 30 minutes three times a week as a start.
  • Don't let them get you down KaseyAnne. Everyone has their own idea of what's right. Do what works for you and pay no attention to negative comments.
  • tayca9174
    tayca9174 Posts: 37
    I'm a full time college student and I'm so busy with homework and studying and clinicals and working I really don't have time to work out. I'm also kinda like you and really don't know what to do once I get to the gym. I have no idea. I get to the gym once a week because it is on campus and I have an hour and a half break between classes so I go for an hour and just go on the treadmill at different inclines at 3.8 mph and that's it! I wish I could work out more but I don't have time or know what to do.
  • svanhoecke
    svanhoecke Posts: 266
    You said that adding exercise into your routine would cause stress. Interestingly enough, exercise reduces stress. Taking time for yourself to take care of your body is worth it. Plus it releases endorphins and is proven to decrease stress, anxiety, and depression. I had a doctor tell me to exercise when I complained of anxiety. Exercise will do this:

    1. Speed up results
    2. Increase metabolism
    3. Build muscle which you want because muscle burns more calories than fat.
    4. Increase energy
    5. Cause you to actually CRAVE healthy food.
    6. Help you gain confidence
    And soooo much more

    Its all about finding the workout that's right for you. Swimming, running, kickboxing, cycling, playing sports with friends, lifting weights, yoga...the list goes on in on. Even just a long walk.


    Long story short, yes. You should work out. IT GETS EASIER! If you work out enough your body will start craving a work out.

    Good luck! Add me if you need encouragement
  • svanhoecke
    svanhoecke Posts: 266
    I'm a full time college student and I'm so busy with homework and studying and clinicals and working I really don't have time to work out. I'm also kinda like you and really don't know what to do once I get to the gym. I have no idea. I get to the gym once a week because it is on campus and I have an hour and a half break between classes so I go for an hour and just go on the treadmill at different inclines at 3.8 mph and that's it! I wish I could work out more but I don't have time or know what to do.

    Solution: ask questions. I know at my gym there are people everywhere willing to answer questions about machines. Maybe schedule a one time only personal trainer session to give you an idea of what an effective work out should consist of.
  • jenlb99
    jenlb99 Posts: 213 Member
    What you NEED to do is find something you LOVE to do. I couldn't stand the thought of exercise until I found kickboxing. Now, I fricking LOVE it, and I choose to do it 6 days a week.

    It has also led to me being open to trying other forms of exercise...aside from the boring ones. I give credit to those who can do the elliptical or treadmill on a daily basis. I'd rather bang my head against the wall -- that is just NOT fun, IMO. lol Really, though, a lot of the ladies on here seem to love Zumba, and I'm sure there are classes around you. Give that a try.

    The others are right -- the more you exercise, the more you can eat, and come on, we all love food. Because of my workout today, for example, I had the option of eating 1253 calories MORE than my usual. Seriously, who doesn't want that? lol

    You will lose weight if you watch what you eat and don't exercise, but if you want a real full on lifestyle change, find something you crave doing, and do it. Good luck on your journey! :)
  • joejccva71
    joejccva71 Posts: 2,985 Member
    Working Out in this context can be either cardio training or resistance training.

    While you can lose weight just by modifying your diet, your body will shed muscle with the fat to accommodate the caloric deficit thus lowering your resting metabolism, thus increasing the likelihood of regaining the weight as more fat.

    The exercise pays dividends other than increased fat utilization.
    It improves mental health by being an anxiety and stress outlet. (I work out after work and this is very tangible)
    Better regulation of blood sugar and blood pressure.
    It actually boost overall energy levels.
    It improves neuromuscular efficiency. (quicker and stronger)
    It improves balance.
    Resistance training improves bone density. (think anti-osteoporosis)

    Pick something you sorta enjoy (or at least tolerate) and try for 30 minutes three times a week as a start.

    I have to disagree here. Just doing cardio isn't enough. Your body adapts to your own bodyweight. You need to resistance weight training to retain muscle mass during your diet.
  • I totally understand where you are coming from. It is really hard to get back into an exercise program, especially if you are feeling heavy and haven't been eating right for awhile. But it is SO worth it. Do you know whether any personal training sessions came with your gym membership? A lot of gyms include at least one personal training session with the membership so that members can learn how to use the equipment and get set up with an exercise program. If not, you can probably buy into one. Once you know how to use the machines, how to adjust the seat, how much weight you should be using...you'll feel so much more confident.

    I also find that when I'm working out, it makes it easier for me to make good food choices. When I feel that cardio afterglow, or the sore muscles from lifting weights...it's like a constant reminder that I'm working toward my goals.
  • bear_nakey
    bear_nakey Posts: 340 Member
    I did everything imagineable to avoid working out. Long story short - the weight always came back. Truth be told, I LOVE food! What has been working for me now (and will forever!) is I learned how to eat right (still learning, btw) which made a HUGE difference in my energy level, even after work and I started working with a personal trainer for 30 mins once a week. I was like you, I had the membership but had no idea what to do with it. Sure, I could use a treadmill, or gimp some machine, but ultimately I had no clue. Working with a trainer has taught me a tremendous amount about nutrition and exercise! Now, not only have I lost weight but I am LOVING the way I can see some definition in my arms and legs, as oppose to the loose skin I would see before. Trust me, you will feel AMAZING once you make up your mind to commit!!!

    p.s. my ultimate anti-exercise excuse: I am an asthmatic. . . I used to use it all the time as a reason to not exercise. Now, I am amazed at how much BETTER I breath daily since beginning working out!

    Edit to add: I am also a mother of 2, wife to 1, work full time at a Jewelry store, own my own business as a photographer, and am a full time college student. . . and yes, I still make time to work out because taking care of myself is important!
  • I'm a full time college student and I'm so busy with homework and studying and clinicals and working I really don't have time to work out. I'm also kinda like you and really don't know what to do once I get to the gym. I have no idea. I get to the gym once a week because it is on campus and I have an hour and a half break between classes so I go for an hour and just go on the treadmill at different inclines at 3.8 mph and that's it! I wish I could work out more but I don't have time or know what to do.

    Solution: ask questions. I know at my gym there are people everywhere willing to answer questions about machines. Maybe schedule a one time only personal trainer session to give you an idea of what an effective work out should consist of.

    I scheduled a free training session when I signed up, warned the trainer that I cannot work out hard, and he kicked my *kitten*.. I was crawling up the stairs when I got home.. I refuse to work out like that.. its not practical for me right now. I need to start off slow. I'm also afraid of gaining the 4 pounds I lost last week back in muscle weight
  • IvoryParchment
    IvoryParchment Posts: 651 Member
    Put on some music at work and get the two year olds dancing with you. You get paid to do cardio, and you'll teach them to be healthy too.
  • I should probably mention that I do NOT have A desk job; I'm a toddler teacher and I chase arounsd 9 2-year olds everyday for 8 hours. So I'm not just sitting around all day. Hence why I'm exhausted after work.

    As a mom of three I totally understand that, toddlers are so exhausting!! But I have to say...when I'm exercising regularly, especially cardio...I feel like I have tons MORE energy to chase my kids around. It's counter-intuitive, but even when you're too worn out to exercise, exercising will actually give you more energy!
  • If I had to choose between working out and counting calories I'd pick working out first. Just going on a quick 20-minute walk around the neighborhood always puts me in a pretty good mood. I get home from work around midnight when no one can see me so I just go out in my jammies and track shoes with my iPod and listen to a book on tape.

    I also hate going to the gym so I gave up my membership. I feel like I'm breaking the machines because I don't know what I'm doing and the only time I asked for help I got some skinny tan girl who acted like I was a moron for not knowing anything about the equipment. Now I just work out at home (saved up what I had been paying for gym fees and bought a treadmill for the winter/summer months) and I feel much more comfortable.

    Maybe if you started trying just a little bit of exercise first the good feeling that results from it would be enough to help motivate you to tackle the diet. That's what works for me.
  • I guess when I think of working out, I think of the gym.. would wii boxing or tennis be ok?? I have the danceling games too... that way, I can do it alone, in the comfort of my own home
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