Men...what do you want from your 'woman'/relationship?

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  • nel0311
    nel0311 Posts: 248
    ....but seriously though.....

    1 -- Commitment. Yes, ladies....you heard it right. We are a team and we're in this together. I will not commit to anyone that I cannot trust.

    2 -- Communication. No games, no grudges, no silent treatments, no patronizing. We talk about it, no matter how stupid/silly/insecure/whatever it sounds like.

    3 -- Be strong. Having emotions are okay. I want you to be head-over-heals crazy about me, but don't completely fall apart when I'm not around.

    4 -- Take care of yourself. Don't let yourself go -- I want you to remain that sexy, attractive, vivacious woman that attracted me to you in the first place.

    5 -- A "man cave" is a must. We have a place together, so go ahead and decorate it how you will (no pinks/pastels/flower prints, please). One room belongs to me; the garage does not count. Respect my space; it's much needed after a long day at work with people in my face all day. I have to have a place to keep my computer games, sports jerseys, baseball caps, video games, Millenium Falcon, etc etc.

    6 -- I really don't want to hear about your ex-boyfriend/ex-husband. It's "us" now, so enjoy it.

    7 -- Nothing makes a man happier than having a woman that can cook. Really.

    8 -- Sex is awesome, but believe it or not, we don't "always want it." I'm satisfied with 2-3 times per week, but hey....that's just me.

    If your not married yet.....

    whats wrong with you?
  • misslissa555
    misslissa555 Posts: 135 Member

    If your not married yet.....

    whats wrong with you?
    True story!
  • abhiforlife
    abhiforlife Posts: 75 Member
    Someone to push the car when it doesn't start in the morning.
  • Evelyn_22
    Evelyn_22 Posts: 70 Member
    Sometimes I get dyslexic and sing, "I want a girl with a cup-holder armrest..."
    OMG I do this too LOL!
  • monocot
    monocot Posts: 475 Member
    jeez and I thought I sucked at relationships cause I talked to much.

    I'm a cook so I spend hours Making the man whos in my life at that moment, Great Treats to enjoy and share with his friends, Make great meals that I know he'll love. Clean the house and do his laundry so I dont have to smell his gross socks.


    But the reason they dont stay in the relationship is cause I don't give out daily/ weekly.
    I always thought a way to a mans heart was through his Stomach not his c*ock
  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 8,571 Member
    Well Shakespeare was a man, and here's what he said:

    Rich she shall be, that's certain;
    wise, or I'll none;
    virtuous, or I'll never cheapen her;
    fair, or I'll never look on her;
    mild, or come not near me;
    noble, or not I for an angel;
    of good discourse,
    an excellent musician,
    and her hair shall be of what colour it please God.
  • karinaes
    karinaes Posts: 570 Member
    1. loyal
    2. Beatiful eyes
    3. nice body (booty don't care if she's flat chested)
    4. Won't want to argue with me (I can't argue with people)
    :laugh: you just described me! :ohwell:
  • Sumo813
    Sumo813 Posts: 566 Member
    I've known some guys who want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket.

    But food, sex and silence were the three that came to mind first.

    Two out of three ain't bad.

    I want a girl who gets up early
    I want a girl who stays up late
    I want a girl with uninterrupted prosperity
    Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
    With fingernails that shine like justice
    And a voice that is dark like tinted glass

    She is fast and thorough
    And sharp as a tack
    She's touring the facility
    And picking up slack


    Lastly :smile: I want a girl with a short skirt and a lonnnnng.... lonnng jacket

    CAKE FTW!
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    Let's just end this by saying I'm God's gift to men?

    Just look at my username: Love (sex) + Vinegar (food). :wink:
  • mwcraig34
    mwcraig34 Posts: 359 Member
    Some one that loves me!!!! Not because I'm freakin hot or have a lot of money or great power and success! But just because of the person I am on the inside! Someone that I can trust my emotions with and that I can give my heart to with out fear of it being broken! I don't care if you can cook and I don't care if you make a good sammich! Just love me unconditionally and I will never leave your side! Oh and SEX too!
  • GadgetGuy2
    GadgetGuy2 Posts: 291 Member
    Someone like my wife of 27 years (I hope she reads this).
  • grinch031
    grinch031 Posts: 1,679
    a friend, a lover, someone to raise children with.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,024 Member
    That she makes an awesome sammich!


    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    Someone like my wife of 27 years (I hope she reads this).

    awww! Someone's having a good time tonight ;-)
  • Bagman12002
    Bagman12002 Posts: 216 Member
    so from reading this....I guess its really true that men have 2 emotions....either hungry or horney? So if you see your man with a erection you make him a sandwich?


    :flowerforyou:
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    In all honesty, some women only have two emotions...... we're either b*tchy or horny.
  • WhyeatKachra
    WhyeatKachra Posts: 404 Member
    Someone like my wife of 27 years (I hope she reads this).

    aww..
  • abhiforlife
    abhiforlife Posts: 75 Member
    Someone like my wife of 27 years (I hope she reads this).

    She married you, you can ease up now :P
  • almonds1
    almonds1 Posts: 642 Member
    so from reading this....I guess its really true that men have 2 emotions....either hungry or horney? So if you see your man with a erection you make him a sandwich?

    you.....need a medal!!!:drinker:
  • annalee_1
    annalee_1 Posts: 235 Member
    Did we even need to ask this question? I like crispy bacon, I can make a yummy sammie, I'm all for the sex part. wait what was the rest.... no matter I can do that too. I think I can I think I can. :huh:
  • Tanyawhite30
    Tanyawhite30 Posts: 473
    so from reading this....I guess its really true that men have 2 emotions....either hungry or horney? So if you see your man with a erection you make him a sandwich?

    you.....need a medal!!!:drinker:



    I got it all right dont I?!?! :laugh:
  • aj_gettingfit
    aj_gettingfit Posts: 257
    Someone to talk to , do fun things with, gets my bizzare humour oh and "that" aswell :wink:

    almost forgot if you can cook bacon crispy you get around 1000 awesome points

    I love crispy bacon but my husband hates it. Who doesn't like crispy bacon??
  • callmeBAM
    callmeBAM Posts: 445 Member
    a big butt and a smile... even though I've been told never to trust it.

    Poison? BBD? Yes, I sing that song at karaoke sometimes, lol
  • callmeBAM
    callmeBAM Posts: 445 Member
    I want a girl with extensions in her hair...

    LL Cool J. I can do this all day...
  • eblake111
    eblake111 Posts: 66 Member
    I noticed almost every guy just wants food or sex....well that information sure makes my life easier!! Simple beings arent you? lol...

    I thought their may be some sincere answers....but since so many guys said the same type of stuff.....Im thinking that WAS Sincere!! LMAO!!

    How to get a man;
    Grocery shop, cook, have sex, give him beer, let him watch the game (silence) and work my booty.....yup that about wraps it up :)
  • FoxyMcDeadlift
    FoxyMcDeadlift Posts: 771 Member
    >implyiing i have the time, or the social skills for women
  • callmeBAM
    callmeBAM Posts: 445 Member
    1. Shares some interests, not all. Music is something good to have in common. A few movies you both like is good. I think a similar worldview (philosophy on life, etc) helps in having less arguments. Plus, when kids come along you are in agreement on how to best raise them.
    2. Respects their own body. Not only is that a benefit visually, but also helps you to maintain your own personal nutritional guidelines. You don't wanna be low carb while they are making chocolate cake every week and eating it for breakfast in front of you.
    3. Shares the load and shares goals. The leading cause of divorce is money. You need to be on the same page with where you are at, where you want to be, and how you will realistically get there.
    4. SEX compatibility. Prob the number two reason for divorce is being unsatisfied in this area. I bet it's more prevalent than is advertised, but many committed wives or husbands will hide it to preserve the marriage or for the kids sake.

    There is my two pennies.
  • kir911
    kir911 Posts: 228 Member
    I noticed almost every guy just wants food or sex....well that information sure makes my life easier!! Simple beings arent you? lol...

    I thought their may be some sincere answers....but since so many guys said the same type of stuff.....Im thinking that WAS Sincere!! LMAO!!

    How to get a man;
    Grocery shop, cook, have sex, give him beer, let him watch the game (silence) and work my booty.....yup that about wraps it up :)
    yep it sure does...pretty much sums up my hubby for sure.
  • SulliedSocks
    SulliedSocks Posts: 18 Member
    To be faithful and respectful that is all i ask. I can deal with the rest!
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I want exactly what I have. I have a woman that isn't in a postion in her life that she needs me. She wants me.

    She is independent, but chooses to share my life.
    She is highly intelligent. Doesn't always agree with my opinion, but always recognizes that I have one.

    If you took at our life and scrutinized it, point by point, we would appear to be exact opposites.
    I've played sports all my life; she has never been involved.
    I'm impulsive; she's a thoughtful planner.
    I like Rock and Blues; she likes Pop and Country.
    When we go out to eat, I am likely to order something I have never had; I can predict what she will order in most restaurants that we have been to before.

    In many instances, she has not agreed with my actions, but she will support me in the moment and discuss it with me later.
    Maybe I am naive and a fool, but I would bet my life that she never has and never will cheat on me. Of course, I haven't and won't either.

    Strong relationships are a choice.
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