Quitting Smoking

Careolyn
Careolyn Posts: 61
edited November 12 in Motivation and Support
This morning I decided to quit. I just threw away my pack. I'm very nervous about being a non smoker, I have identied with it for so long! Any tips, success, support would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance :) I do not think this is going to be an easy journey for me.
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  • eellis2000
    eellis2000 Posts: 465 Member
    are you using any quit aids or just cold turkey on your own? I used chantix for about a month and I haven't had a cigarette for a month and a half. I have gained about 10 lbs though. I would suggest sugar free gum and dum dum pops. exercise and just generally keeping busy helps me also. good luck!
  • ATreimel
    ATreimel Posts: 2 Member
    There are some good web supports- <becomeanex.com> is great. Also Quitline for your state provides phone counseling and education as well as nicotine patches and gum or lozenges. The combination of using some type of medication like nicotine replacement, Welbutrin or Chantix plus counseling has been shown to get twice as good success. Also, tell your friends and family you're quitting and ask for support! Hope this helps.
  • beduffbrickie
    beduffbrickie Posts: 642 Member
    This morning I decided to quit. I just threw away my pack. I'm very nervous about being a non smoker, I have identied with it for so long! Any tips, success, support would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance :) I do not think this is going to be an easy journey for me.

    thats great news!!!!! fair play, I wish I could do that or wake up with the same feeling. I dont have any tips, but I support what your doing as I would love to just pack up like that myself, 10 years now chained to the *kitten*! hope you succeed!
  • lax75
    lax75 Posts: 118 Member
    WTG!! I have never smoked but I have lived through the quitting process with people and have seen how hard it is. Even if you gain some weight, the health benefits of quitting the smoking (not only for you but also for the people you live with) far outweigh the negatives of the extra pounds. And think how much money you'll save! Good luck with this and keep at it - every day you don't smoke you get a little healthier!
  • xosmsox
    xosmsox Posts: 119
    Do it cold turkey! I could smoking 2 years ago, best thing I've ever done. Every time you want a cigarette look at pictures of black lungs, wrinkled skin and yellowed fingertips on the Internet.worked for me!
  • marnijojo
    marnijojo Posts: 235 Member
    Don't think long term....conquer one craving at a time. I like to say I acutally haven't quit, I just haven't had one for nearly two years. Best wishes! It can be done, it just takes tenacity.
  • k8es
    k8es Posts: 271 Member
    Congratulations! There's a group on here for quitting, i highly reccomend joining it -lots of support. Different things work for different people. I quit almost 7 months ago and did it cold turkey. I think cold turkey makes it harder initially but was easier and more permanent in the long run. I had to confront the cravings and breath through them rather than replace the habit with something else. Best of luck and if you fall off the wagon, get back on!
  • kandi810
    kandi810 Posts: 70 Member
    I quit four years ago and still fight the craving almost everyday. It does get a little better. It's like death and grieving, you learn to deal with it. Good luck! Cold turkey and sugarless gum worked for me and I had been a smoker for 25 years.
  • Whodatgirl77
    Whodatgirl77 Posts: 238 Member
    I read Allen Carr's book and it was the game changer for me. Changing my thoughts about smoking were the biggest battle. So far so good....I'm 38 days smoke free.
  • shopewell70
    shopewell70 Posts: 125 Member
    Awesome job !!!! Taking the initial step is the hardest. I quit smoking Oct 25th, 2011 and havent looked back once. I knew smoking was bad for me and my family, I just had to take that step. Once I made that step I had to figure out what I was going to replace it with. We all know that when you quit smoking you gain weight. So I challenged myself that I was not going to gain a pound. I love being competitive. I didnt take the plunge to loose weight, tone up or run a marathon, but rather to not gain a pound. I started out walking about 2 miles each evening at the park. Then I had a real brainer and thought lets see how far I can run....haha... that lasted for about 30 seconds. By doing that I realized just how bad my lungs had gotten. I then made another goal and that was to start wogging (walking/jogging). it seemed as if I just keep broadening my knowledge and kept setting more goals for myself. While wogging, I found the C25K program (Couch to 5K), and I began using it. Today is my last day of the 8 week program. I went from nearly dragging myself for 30 seconds to running 30 minutes straight Wednesday. If you would have told me 8 weeks ago I could do this, I would have dropped to the ground laughing. BUT, I did it and so can you. I was fortunate enough to not use anything as a crutch. I went cold turkey. You have to decide what is best for you and what will work for you. Suggestions are great, but everyone is different. Just in the example of someone begging you to quit, you have to do it because you want to and have made up your mind. That persons influence is great, but it is your determination and willpower. So go out there and do it. You have made 3 huge steps: 1) Deciding that youre gonna quit 2) Throwing the cigs out 3) Joining Myfitnesspal ......substitute smoking for exercise. Just think we used to spend about 5 minutes smoking a cigarette. Now multiply that by how many a day you smoke. Say 10. Thats 50 minutes a day destroying your lungs. Turn that 50 minutes into exercise. Your choice, walking, running, dancing, treadmill, elliptical, just whatever it is you like. Then build from there. I am sorry this turned out to be kinda lengthy, but I have been where you are and I just really want you to succeed. There are many great people on MFP that will walk this journey with you and support you in every way. Isnt that right fellow MFP'ers???
  • FlipThis112
    FlipThis112 Posts: 49 Member
    Allen Carr's book helped me out tremendously!! I highly recommend it.

    http://www.amazon.com/Easy-Way-Stop-Smoking-Non-Smokers/dp/1402718616
  • Megdonald1
    Megdonald1 Posts: 149 Member
    Way to go on your decision!! I quit for my 42 birthday. Aug. 7, 2011 I woke up a non smoker not one since that day. Someone above me posted about quitnow.com I highly recommend them. They were a big help to me. You can do it. Be strong and take it one craving at a time. If you need support please feel free to add me!!!
  • Careolyn
    Careolyn Posts: 61
    Thank you everyone!
  • k8es
    k8es Posts: 271 Member
    I also used Allen Carr's book. It wasn't as if I finished it and *BAM* I never wanted to smoke again, there is still some work and resistance that you have to do. BUT, it completely changed the way I thought about it and I believe that it is because of that book that I do not crave one today, that I did not crave one yesterday, and that I will not crave one tomorrow.
  • amphora
    amphora Posts: 43 Member
    I have no tips for you but wanted to encourage you, really really encourage you. My mom just died the day after Christmas from lung cancer. She was 56.

    One of the biggest reasons she never quit? Worried about gaining weight. The 10lbs she could have possibly gained wouldn't have killed her- the smoking did.

    Do whatever you have to do- STOP SMOKING! Don't try changing everything at once and realize that habits CAN change and willpower can be depleted through out the day so try making contigency plans, the more specific the better for when the urge strikes! Try www.beeminder.com to help keep you accountable day to day.

    If you fail at cold turkey, cut back instead and work your way down to zero. Here are two science-y books I recently read about habit formation and willpower which could help you:

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0055PGUYU/ref=kinw_myk_ro_title\

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0052REQCY/ref=kinw_myk_ro_title

    Good luck! Truly.
  • Careolyn
    Careolyn Posts: 61
    I have no tips for you but wanted to encourage you, really really encourage you. My mom just died the day after Christmas from lung cancer. She was 56.

    One of the biggest reasons she never quit? Worried about gaining weight. The 10lbs she could have possibly gained wouldn't have killed her- the smoking did.

    Do whatever you have to do- STOP SMOKING! Don't try changing everything at once and realize that habits CAN change and willpower can be depleted through out the day so try making contigency plans, the more specific the better for when the urge strikes! Try www.beeminder.com to help keep you accountable day to day.

    If you fail at cold turkey, cut back instead and work your way down to zero. Here are two science-y books I recently read about habit formation and willpower which could help you:

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0055PGUYU/ref=kinw_myk_ro_title\

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0052REQCY/ref=kinw_myk_ro_title

    Good luck! Truly.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Thank you for your support. Wishing you all the best.
  • kammy92
    kammy92 Posts: 408 Member
    Congratulations! !!! I know it can be hard at times! !!! I myself quit August 10,2011......I used an electric cig for a few months sparingly
  • MrsORourke
    MrsORourke Posts: 315 Member
    Congratulations on taking the first step! I wish you endless success!
  • CookieCrumble
    CookieCrumble Posts: 221 Member
    I read Allen Carr's book and it was the game changer for me. Changing my thoughts about smoking were the biggest battle. So far so good....I'm 38 days smoke free.

    Agree completely. I can highly recommend this book, you won't need anything else - and you're doing it already. Well done.

    I quit over five years ago and never smoked another cigarette - and never will. I'm not prepared to give up the feeling of being totally free of a horrible addiction.
  • Congrats! ive quit for a few months cold turkey, and slowly started up again. Id love to quit again, im so afraid to gain back any of the weight i just lost.
  • Heaven71
    Heaven71 Posts: 706 Member
    This morning I decided to quit. I just threw away my pack. I'm very nervous about being a non smoker, I have identied with it for so long! Any tips, success, support would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance :) I do not think this is going to be an easy journey for me.

    Stay busy and change everything up. Drive a different route, get gas somewhere else, hang out with nonsmokers and focus on something else entirely even if it's cooking or a hobby. The first time I quit, I went Vegan and that kept me completely occupied, I did well for 2 years until my SO brought cigars in then I was addicted to those until a year and a half ago. I started this lifestyle change and focussed on getting healthy. I quit 2 weeks before we took a 7 day cruise, by the time we got back, I was ready to be done forever.
  • abnerner
    abnerner Posts: 452 Member
    I quit smoking on November 4, 2009, I smoked for about 5-6 years. I quit basically cold turkey ( i used the gum for about a day before I realized how icky it was ) after my boss's dad passed away from lung cancer, having NEVER even smoking a cigarette.


    I suggest having a strong support system and also removing any lighter you have from your grasp. I broke down and bought a pack one day soon after I quit but had no lighter and didn't realize i had no lighter until I drove away from the store, so I threw the cigarettes out the window instead.

    Good luck! if you need support, add me!
  • Missy169
    Missy169 Posts: 18
    I am at week 9 of smoke free, I smoked for 25 years and just right before Christmas I decided that smoking was hindering me from exercising and with not being able to exercise the way I wanted to was preventing me from losing weight and achieving my goal so I picked a date to quit and I did, I removed all items that reminded me of smoking, made my home and car smoke free, explained to my loved ones & friends that I was done smoking & if they need to smoke they would have to go outside to smoke and respect my wishes, I then went on a cleaning spree to get rid of all the smoke smell out of my home & car and well it has been working for me, just knowing I can breath better, my home smell good now, and that I am some much healthier keeps me going, I never knew after 25 years of smoking that I could say I bet that demon I am smoke free !!!!
  • stephkyp
    stephkyp Posts: 12
    I WAS A SMOKER FOR 40 YEARS - 2 YEARS AGO - THE HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER DONE - BUT. . . . I DID IT!! I GAINED WEIGHT BUT THAT'S WHY I AM HERE NOW - IT WA WORTH EVERY SECOND OF "FREEDOM" GOOD LUCK - IF I CAN HELP LET ME KNOW!!
  • KellyKAG
    KellyKAG Posts: 418
    I quit 1 year and 2 months ago. I smoked for about 17 years a pack and a half a day. It was the hardest thing I've ever done and now when I think about it I cant believe I smoked for as long as I did. Quitting was the best thing I have ever done.

    When your cravings hit (and they will) just remind yourself it will pass. Regardless of how bad your cravings are they pass and then they happen less often until you forgot to want a cig. I also have a co-worker who sits right next to me who has a nasty smoker's cough. Listening to her hack reminds me everyday why I quit. I also had no idea I smelled so bad for so long. That smoke smell on your clothes, in your hair, your car are all so bad. I love that I smell good and am not embarrassed when I meet one of my kids friend's parents and wondering if they can smell the smoke on me.

    Good luck to you. I hope you stay strong. It is hard but it gets easier. :flowerforyou:
  • jocelynna
    jocelynna Posts: 137 Member
    Congratulations on taking that huge first step! I quit smoking 2-1/2 years ago. I hung this on my mirror so that I could remind myself everyday why it was a good decision:

    20 MINUTES
    Blood pressure drops to normal
    Pulse rate drops to normal
    Body temperature of hands and feet increases to normal

    8 HOURS
    Carbon monoxide level in blood drops to normal
    Oxygen level in blood increases to normal

    24 HOURS
    Chance of heart attack decreases

    48 HOURS
    Nerve endings start regrowing
    Ability to smell and taste is enhanced

    2 WEEKS TO 3 MONTHS
    Circulation improves
    Walking becomes easier
    Lung function increases up to 30 percent

    1 TO 9 MONTHS
    Coughing, sinus congestion, fatigue, and shortness of breath decrease
    Cilia regrow in lungs, increasing their ability to handle mucus, clean the lungs, and reduce infection
    Body's overall energy increases

    1 YEAR
    Excess risk of coronary heart disease is half that of a smoker

    5 YEARS
    Lung cancer death rate for an average former smoker (one pack a day) decreases by almost half
    Stroke risk is reduced to that of a non-smoker five to 15 years after quitting
    Risk of cancer of the mouth, throat, and esophagus is half that of a smoker's

    10 YEARS
    Lung cancer death rate is similar to that of a non-smoker
    Precancerous cells are replaced
    Risk of cancer of the mouth, throat, esophagus, bladder, kidney, cervix, and pancreas decreases

    15 YEARS
    Risk of coronary heart disease is that of a non-smoker
    .
  • Yellerie
    Yellerie Posts: 221 Member
    Good for you that is a good step in the right direction. I quit cold turkey May 1, 1998 I like you woke up one morning & decided that was it. I convinced myself that it is mind over matter & everytime I wanted a cigarette I asked my self why or how will it make the situation better & of course it wouldn't so i would find something else to do if you can knit or if you like to draw or any activity that can keep your hands busy will be helpful. I know alot of people say lolipops but because of my weight battle I didn't want the exta calories & weird as this may sound stared using coffee stirrers when I had my coffee it somehow took the place of the cigarette when I missed it the most. Good Luck
  • kammy92
    kammy92 Posts: 408 Member
    I smoked from age 13 till 37, a pack a day! !! Take it one day at a time! It will eventually get easier! 99% of my friends smoke .....when I'm around it now it doesn't bother me......Just hate the smell of myclothes! !! Smells like an ashtray!! Good luck!!! Like I said,it will get easier!!
  • brismom070897
    brismom070897 Posts: 178 Member
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  • Yeah!!! You just made the best decision of your life. I quit 5 years ago. The physical addication will last 72 hours. That's it. You will be grumpy stressed anxious. Just generally crazy. I think I even mourned the loss of my cigs. But after 72hrs, things will get a little easier. Then new habits are formed/replaced in 28 days. Then things get a lot easier. U can do this. Extra gum helped me a lot sugar free and mint if menthol smoker as well as mint tictacs. Just remember, our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to keep trying. And as cliche as it is, take it one day, one hour, sometimes one minute at a time. YOU CAN DO IT!!!
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