It doesn't happen overnight, so be proud of yourself today :
ShadowSoldier23
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I see a lot of posts about people getting frustrated because the scale doesn't move after 3 days or 2 weeks in the gym isn't showing much progress. SLOW DOWN. I myself have been frustrated as well. But we have to remember this doesn't happen over night. It will take months and for some of us maybe even years to lose the weight that took months/years to put on.
Just because the scale doesn't move or you don't see much progress in short periods of time, stop stressing out so much! If you are doing the right thing and going about your weight loss/shaping up the right way then you should be proud of yourself. Much of this hit me today when I was looking in the mirror, which I have started doing obsessively looking for changes, and realized that I have done SO well and I have come so far EVEN with my setbacks. Since I started changing the way I eat from last November I have lost 24 pounds and plenty of inches (much of which I hadn't started measuring until January).
Just take a step back, don't fret if you eat a candy bar once in a while or the scale says one thing even if you've been working hard. No one is perfect and REAL progress takes time. Just be glad that you are doing something to make that change and that there is such a great community of support (and haters, but they can be fun too! =P) here to help you along the way.
Just because the scale doesn't move or you don't see much progress in short periods of time, stop stressing out so much! If you are doing the right thing and going about your weight loss/shaping up the right way then you should be proud of yourself. Much of this hit me today when I was looking in the mirror, which I have started doing obsessively looking for changes, and realized that I have done SO well and I have come so far EVEN with my setbacks. Since I started changing the way I eat from last November I have lost 24 pounds and plenty of inches (much of which I hadn't started measuring until January).
Just take a step back, don't fret if you eat a candy bar once in a while or the scale says one thing even if you've been working hard. No one is perfect and REAL progress takes time. Just be glad that you are doing something to make that change and that there is such a great community of support (and haters, but they can be fun too! =P) here to help you along the way.
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I think I'm a thread killer...before it even starts! lol0
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It's discouraging sometimes, but entirely true. A+ for this post.0
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It does need to be said, over and over again, and you said it well0
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That's SO true ! And good for you for losing 24 lbs,and lots of inches !
I had lost a lot of weight several years ago, while on WW, but gradually, over the years, it has inched back up. I decided in January that it was finally time to help my health again, and that would help my high blood pressure, and my arthritic knee. I told my coworkers (who have been praying that I would lose weight for years), that I am making a lifestyle change, I am NOT going on a diet ! (They both tend to be a little intense, and I am to old to want to have Diet Police around me.)
I did try to begin setting myself up for success, but didn't follow through properly. Today, for the first day, I tracked my entire day of eating and drinking ! I also finally had time to relax, and sit through the first CDs of a hypnosis weight loss program I recently ordered. One step at a time.......
My immediate goal is to track every day this week. Even if I am not within the calories the system recommends, just writing everything down will get me started in thinking the right way again. Hopefully I will see a few less pounds by March 31st.0 -
That's SO true ! And good for you for losing 24 lbs,and lots of inches !
I had lost a lot of weight several years ago, while on WW, but gradually, over the years, it has inched back up. I decided in January that it was finally time to help my health again, and that would help my high blood pressure, and my arthritic knee. I told my coworkers (who have been praying that I would lose weight for years), that I am making a lifestyle change, I am NOT going on a diet ! (They both tend to be a little intense, and I am to old to want to have Diet Police around me.)
I did try to begin setting myself up for success, but didn't follow through properly. Today, for the first day, I tracked my entire day of eating and drinking ! I also finally had time to relax, and sit through the first CDs of a hypnosis weight loss program I recently ordered. One step at a time.......
My immediate goal is to track every day this week. Even if I am not within the calories the system recommends, just writing everything down will get me started in thinking the right way again. Hopefully I will see a few less pounds by March 31st.
Don't give up! Doing it the right way is really the only way if you ask me. There should be no extremes, you should be able to enjoy what you want within moderation and do what you can as far as activity. I sent you a friends request if you need some support
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Right on! Thanks for this. Boost I needed to start my week. :-)0
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Just what i needed to hear today0
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Love this! You are so very right. I wish more people on here thought like this! We are all getting healthy and that is the important thing.0
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So true!0
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Good post, well said. I'm sending a friend request0
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Thanks for posting that...I've been discouraged things aren't happening faster and when I get discouraged I tend to blow it...which I did this weekend. Your words help and your long term outlook and success (24 lbs gone!) is inspirational. I appreciate you taking the time to write what you did. I'll keep at it!0
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Possibly most favorite post ever.
My fave quote atm? : Don't quit because of how long it will take you to succeed on something, the time will pass anyway.
24 pounds is AWESOME! Nice work (:
I think we always look at how far we have to go rather than how far we have come.
Last night I tried on a shirt I had at my biggest and that showed how much I had really lost, I sat there blubbering for a bit lol.
And when I am say doing bicep curls with 15kg or something I'm just like dudee I've lost more weight than this! Really helps! I wanna do that thing when you put a bag on your back with how much you've lost in it but I'm worried about it because I have a bad back.0 -
I agree!0
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I completely agree.0
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100% agree. Don't focus on being "skinny", focus on getting healthy! That was my goal this time around (I've tried umpteen times to "get skinny" before... FAIL!). And I've succeeded, for the first time, with this new mindset!
Congrats on 24lbs!! And keep tracking those inches!0 -
agree :bigsmile:0
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Ask your self how long does it take to change a habit and then your life. More than a couple of weeks that's for darn sure
, Hence that is why there are so many Gastric By-pass failures, because there are some looking for that quick fix, but they don't change their behavior.. doomed to fail
Also ask your self..how do you feel, (Probably the most important part of all this ) I now can walk 5-6 miles and not be short of breath, my pulse rate has dropped, and my B/P is within normal limits, My cholesterol has dropped significantly just by simply walking......
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Thank you for this post! It is so very true. I have been pretty frustrated lately, because I have been same weight for about 3 weeks. I have been exercising and watching what I have been eating. I think we all expect to see our hard work pay off everyday or atleast once a week. And it doesnt work that away. Like you said we didnt put it on overnight so it wont come off overnight. As long as we are making changes and are heading in the right direction. Then we are on the right path and in time we will be rewarded for all our hard work. We need to be led by our goals instead of being led by our failure. Always remember: You are worth it. Good luck everyone.0
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So true!!
I only lost 0.6 pounds this week, but it was a huge improvement from 0.2 last week. I felt a huge sense of accomplishment because of this. People also need to remember that if the weight is slowly coming off, then it will most likely be fat loss rather than water, and is much more likely to stay off!
Keep on going everyone. I'm sure y'all are doing just fine!0 -
Skinny girls look good in clothing, fit girls look good naked!
No matter how long your weightloss journey is, you have already taken the first few steps. When you think you can't do it, remember that you are & you have already done the hardest part. You found the start point and took your first steps towards change.
Well done! Now smile & keep going.0 -
I feel great for helping everyone out! I know I need encouraging words a lot sometimes myself. We ALL do. It's so hard to do this alone and that's why I love MFP.0
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I commend you on this post! I agree with you 100%!! :bigsmile:
Our body has taken months/years to get to the point that we decide to do something about it. Its not about a diet.... it is about a change in our lifestyle. I see exercise as a requirement to care for my body everyday. Just like we brush our teeth, take a shower/bath, paint our fingernails (girls), and last but not least eat.
I have changed my foods for healthy ones.... left the fast food cycle of unhealthy foods, no fried foods, portion sizes and yes calorie counting. I know that everyone wants to see the scale move.... but don't forget that when you begin exercising with cardio and even with weight training.... that you body is going through internal changes. Muscle weighs more than fat. You need to strengthen your muscles so that they burn more fat. So many, too many, get frustrated in a few weeks. But, focus on what your doing for your body. Your scale is not the only thing that you should look for results at. NSV (non scale victories) are so awesome. With time you will see more and more of them. I feel so good after I work out. Listen to your body. Try new things. Make it fun. I just began a yoga class that showed me that so many muscles I have not been using and need to use. I do regular weight training and cardio exercise at the gym and yet yoga showed me a new way to relax and stretch. I was nervous to start that class but I feel such a reward after each hour long class.
I am proud of myself. I count on my friends at MFP for support. I get family support but at certain functions I have to count on me. It is up to me what I put into my mouth. I don't let anybody influence me to eat something I don't want. Nor do I preach to them about the choices they make to fuel their body with. If somebody asks me...sure I will give advice but I don't push what I am doing on anybody else.
Again I say this post is so wonderful... thank you for it!
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I really appreciate this encouragement. My weight is stubborn, but my body is getting smaller. I've lost inches and, to keep myself from getting discouraged, I physically CLAIM those smaller measurements as mine, once and for all. I do that by taking in my clothes with the sewing machine. I'm teaching myself to sew as I go along (you can find anything and everything on YouTube LOL).
I took in 9 pairs of pants this last week and LOVE the way I feel. I know it's happening, and as I go to sleep, I envision it continuing in a healthy way. Oh - and FYI I think cold medicine has loads of sodium in it, because I'm retaining water like crazy and I've taken cold meds for the last 4 days.
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Great post! It is a journey and we had a journey getting here. Great job on your success too. Thanks for a nice positive needed post!0
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BIZZUMP! more people need to see this post!!0
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buuuuump ppl need to see this!0
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Marissa ! WHO SAID that you're a thread killer..... ? !!!
Thanks for your kind words, Hon !
And - today is Day 2 of tracking, and since yesterday morning, I have listened to Tracks 1, 2 and 3 of my Hypnosis CD three times already ! Can you tell that I want to stick with it this time around... ? LOL0 -
Marissa ! WHO SAID that you're a thread killer..... ? !!!
Thanks for your kind words, Hon !
And - today is Day 2 of tracking, and since yesterday morning, I have listened to Tracks 1, 2 and 3 of my Hypnosis CD three times already ! Can you tell that I want to stick with it this time around... ? LOL
Awesome! So glad you are sticking with it and I will keep checking up on you so we can do this together.0 -
Great post! It's not an easy journey losing all that weight each of us has put on over the last few years. Reminding ourselves that it will take time,seems to ease the discouragement. Truly a great post... something that we all need to remind ourselves when we start feeling frustrated.0
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Train insane or stay the same!0
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