Gym & PT for someone obese

I use to have the same fear about going to a gym. Then I realized 99% of the people there don't pay any attention to me or what I'm doing. It's like a switch flipped and I just didn't care...

By the way, I did a similar diet. msg me and I can fill you in on the experience, the before, during, and after....

Walking is great!! Walk for 30-50 minutes 6 days a week at at a compulsory rate.

I'm in pretty much the same situation. How much space do you have to work with?

I'm currently in a somewhat smallish apartment (no garage or basement, etc), so in the interest of saving space, I started with a good swiss ball (with like a 550 pound weight limit) and a set of Power Blocks, which are adjustable dumbells that go from 5 to 90 pounds (or 50, depending on which ones you buy). That was fairly inexpensive and gave me enough equipment to do some basic strength training (you can use the ball as a "bench" to do presses, plus use it for ab exercises), but is somewhat limited by only having 100 or 180 pounds of maximum weight. Things like squats exceed that fairly fast.

If you have the space and cash for it, it seems like a barbell, bench and power rack are the way to go. I'm about to move into a new house this weekend with a garage, and am planning to pick up that gear fairly soon, then start doing the StrongLifts 5x5 program.

As for cardio, you can get cardio anywhere. If you really want to do that in your home, you can get a bike, treadmill or elliptical, whatever floats your boat. I prefer to just go outside and take a walk for that type of exercise, though.

Edit: Oops, I misread this and thought you were asking about training at home. When I lived in Massachusetts a few years ago, I worked out with personal trainers at a place called "Fitness Together". They had a private studio with cardio and strength equipment. You might be able to find something similar where you live.

Why not research independant personal trainers and see if any of them would be willing to come to your home? That's what I'm planning on doing once I'm certified and independant. Trust me, fitness professionals understand that not everyone is ready to exercise in a public environment. There are hundreds of things that can be done to achieve fitness in the privacy of your own home.

find a gym where people are actually working out (sweating). You will walk into some gyms and you will see people lounging around looking pretty. If you find a gym where people are really working you will not be as self-conscience. I had issues when i first started going but the people at my gym are so into their routines that they barely notice me. I am a pretty big girl and some of the muscle heads have even helped me and showed me how to use a machine. It's like we are all working for a common goal and I think that helps.

Also, when i got a trainer i was terrified because i am really out of shape and I get embarrassed that a couple of pants put me into exhaustion and i get all red and huffy and puffy. So i told the guy at the gym that i wanted a female trainer and someone who is nice and motivating. I told him that it was going to take me a while to get to the point where i could walk up stairs without wanting to die so i needed someone with patience. I love my trainer. she makes me feel comfortable even when i am doing the stupidest looking exercises. Just be honest with want you want and don't be afraid to change people if someone isn't working out.

It can also help to plan a workout before going to the gym. Giving yourself a "recipe" to follow and popping in the headphones can help you tune out the rest of the world while you are there. Just remember that many of the in-shape folks in a gym only got that way because they overcame their trepidation and continued going.

And really, no one is looking at you.

you can try to schedule gym time during off peak hours. I had this problem for a while until I made friends and found out the people that were looking were staring because they were happy to see a big guy in there working my *kitten* off. Now even though I still have a ways to go I'm on the other side seeing new people come in and get praise for coming in and making an effort for change. theirs always scoffers but they are few, and they don't matter. but until your comfortable. find a small gym or one that isn't busy when you can go.

that's my opinion anyhoo

btw I'm considered morbidly obese being 6 ft weighing 342 lbs

This might not be the way to go... but maybe you want to stick to a diet and forgo the exercise for now? Changing your diet is a huge change. Exercise is a huge change too. Its very hard to make changes that big in your life all at once. Exercise often causes a delay in weight loss (EVERY time i start a new exercise routine my weight loss stalls for a few weeks as my body adapts). I would focus exclusively on your diet for a few months and drop some weight. Once you get the compliments coming and get your self esteem higher I would consider the gym and prepare for perhaps an adjustment period where the results wont be measurable on a scale (but measurable with a tape measure).

If you decide to add workouts to your routine... you might want to skip the personal trainer. You really don't need weights or any fancy techniques. Just start out at a walking effort level on your cardio equipment of choice. start out 2 days a week 20 mins. Increase it week by week to 5 days a week. Increase your time from 20 to 30 then 40 over the same period of weeks gradually. Once you get a base fitness established then you might consider a PT. Right now... your goal should be just establishing a routine and getting a basic cardio base established. Baby steps!

I am with you babe, Obese since birth, various ups and downs...

When I did join a gym for the first time, after losing 80 lbs, I had a personal trainer come up to me telling me that I should lose another 80 - would BTW would put me below the wieght i should be at - in fact, well into anorexia teritory.

I quit that gym that week.

I then joined the Peace Corps and gained all the wieght back

I find many personal trainers difficult. Many have no medical background and look down on overweight people.

THe best gym I ever went to was a famous gay gym in Philly. It was awesome. it felt like home. All of the personal trainers were just amazing people. When I was training for a marathon more than one came up to me and just said "damn your legs are serious!"

They made me want to continuing working out and not run inside an hide.

You do what you feel comfortable with. Add some friends on MFP - feel free to add me - and ask them to keep you accountable. Set fitness goals for yourself and rewards (nonfood) for making them.

Good luck

Try a local YMCA. Many are well equipped. There are often programs for older people, and people that aren't exactly fitness buffs. I see morbidly obese people all the time there and don't give a second thought to it.