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  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
    Much thanks goes out to everyone here........thanks.........and mab, I totally understand and that's good that you understand that but that doesn't make it less painful than what it was to see him go........I too hope these guys help you out too to feel better! :)

    Toygrrl.....I am glad that you understand, but I am sorry you yourself have to go through these things........I know it'll pass. But in your worries, do NOT forget that you rock, you are intelligent, and beautiful! :)
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    Don't sweat it...it probably sucks less than the love of your life deciding you aren't the 'one' for them(after over a year). I'll go ahead and jump up with you on the sadface wagon and we can be miserable together. :drinker:
    Since misery loves company, can I join in, too?
    I'm splitting with my husband, I have crappy self-esteem, and I'm almost out of peanut butter.
    The peanut butter is the saddest part.

    I shot a bullet through my marriage too, after seven very LONG months. My lawyer is going to file for dissolution of marriage on Monday.
    I didn't suffer heartbreak, though. AndI think I have my own self-esteem issues , I lost something extremely important to me and I don't know how to come to terms with it. Also, because the girls he cheated with are like whoa, and not in the Mya way.

    I can't mourn me forever, so now I'm like

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  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
    hug.jpg

    *hugs back* thanks!
  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
    Don't sweat it...it probably sucks less than the love of your life deciding you aren't the 'one' for them(after over a year). I'll go ahead and jump up with you on the sadface wagon and we can be miserable together. :drinker:
    Since misery loves company, can I join in, too?
    I'm splitting with my husband, I have crappy self-esteem, and I'm almost out of peanut butter.
    The peanut butter is the saddest part.

    Feelin' pretty down myself. Contemplating a divorce. And as for self-esteem...what's that? Not sure I ever had good self-esteem.

    I'll share my peanut butter with you...with both of you...hope you like creamy..

    Creamy is awesome and I am sorry about both marriages! That is SO hard, I know!! major hugs to you both!!
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
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    Stoner dog... enough said. Time for happy dance with a big wide smile.

    Cheer up! People used to be taught that if they don't have something nice to say, say nothing at all. Karma will come back to whomever brought you down.

    Thanks, but I do love this person with all my heart as I know they love me unconditionally........she has to, we are family........it's just appalling that she doesn't think about it before she says it..........and whats more is she wants to talk to me after she says it.........ugh. Then when I don't she decides she's going to act all mad about the fact that I won't stick around to hear her.........

    If it's family, its someting you just have to listen to with half an ear and let go. Read my blog today about my sisters and my love 'em/kill 'em relationship with them. Still family and still love them, but dayum!
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    Don't sweat it...it probably sucks less than the love of your life deciding you aren't the 'one' for them(after over a year). I'll go ahead and jump up with you on the sadface wagon and we can be miserable together. :drinker:
    Since misery loves company, can I join in, too?
    I'm splitting with my husband, I have crappy self-esteem, and I'm almost out of peanut butter.
    The peanut butter is the saddest part.

    Feelin' pretty down myself. Contemplating a divorce. And as for self-esteem...what's that? Not sure I ever had good self-esteem.

    I'll share my peanut butter with you...with both of you...hope you like creamy..

    Creamy is awesome and I am sorry about both marriages! That is SO hard, I know!! major hugs to you both!!
    I'm an equal opportunity PB lover, so creamy is fine. We will all be okay. Tomorrow is Friday.
  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
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    Stoner dog... enough said. Time for happy dance with a big wide smile.

    Cheer up! People used to be taught that if they don't have something nice to say, say nothing at all. Karma will come back to whomever brought you down.

    Thanks, but I do love this person with all my heart as I know they love me unconditionally........she has to, we are family........it's just appalling that she doesn't think about it before she says it..........and whats more is she wants to talk to me after she says it.........ugh. Then when I don't she decides she's going to act all mad about the fact that I won't stick around to hear her.........

    If it's family, its someting you just have to listen to with half an ear and let go. Read my blog today about my sisters and my love 'em/kill 'em relationship with them. Still family and still love them, but dayum!

    Agreed ^^, its the fact that they love me SOOOOOOOOO much that this attitude really hurts when it comes about........definitely something to remember for my next session........
  • Kougra
    Kougra Posts: 358 Member
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  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
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    Stoner dog... enough said. Time for happy dance with a big wide smile.

    Cheer up! People used to be taught that if they don't have something nice to say, say nothing at all. Karma will come back to whomever brought you down.

    Thanks, but I do love this person with all my heart as I know they love me unconditionally........she has to, we are family........it's just appalling that she doesn't think about it before she says it..........and whats more is she wants to talk to me after she says it.........ugh. Then when I don't she decides she's going to act all mad about the fact that I won't stick around to hear her.........

    If it's family, its someting you just have to listen to with half an ear and let go. Read my blog today about my sisters and my love 'em/kill 'em relationship with them. Still family and still love them, but dayum!

    Agreed ^^, its the fact that they love me SOOOOOOOOO much that this attitude really hurts when it comes about........definitely something to remember for my next session........
    Well hopefully you can salvage things well. Good luck!
  • lizsharlow
    lizsharlow Posts: 15
    karma makes it way around the table, the person that hurt your feelings will get their feelings hurt just the same. don't even let it get you down. pull out your favorite funny movie (like "malibu's most wanted) and laugh till you have tears in your eyes!! a kuno mat-taa!!! (i think i spelled it right, from the "loin king")
  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
    karma makes it way around the table, the person that hurt your feelings will get their feelings hurt just the same. don't even let it get you down. pull out your favorite funny movie (like "malibu's most wanted) and laugh till you have tears in your eyes!! a kuno mat-taa!!! (i think i spelled it right, from the "loin king")
    Hakuna Matada :drinker:
    And LION king...unless you mean some weird porno knock off...:wink:
  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
    karma makes it way around the table, the person that hurt your feelings will get their feelings hurt just the same. don't even let it get you down. pull out your favorite funny movie (like "malibu's most wanted) and laugh till you have tears in your eyes!! a kuno mat-taa!!! (i think i spelled it right, from the "loin king")

    I'm afraid I was that karma :( ...........with treating them the way I wanted instead of the way I needed to........but I know she holds no grudges.......
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    You'll be fine, sweetie - I'm sure she knows that the hurt went both ways. Just give it a bit of time and you'll be all right. :heart:
  • bebreli
    bebreli Posts: 227 Member
    Whenever I am :( I like to watch this baby go on a bender.

    http://youtu.be/cds7lSHawAw

    All better :o)
  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628
    You'll be fine, sweetie - I'm sure she knows that the hurt went both ways. Just give it a bit of time and you'll be all right. :heart:

    Thanks!! I feel a great deal better!! :)
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