Help, please! Apparently in dire need of some advice!

I am a 5'5", 22 year-old that currently weighs 139 lbs. My goal weight is 130 lbs and in that I am hoping to tone up and become more athletic looking again like I was in high school.

Currently I eat about 1600 calories a day and eat back most, if not all of my exercise calories.

Three days a week I strength train with squats, abs, a glue machine, compound rowing, leg press, and leg raises. I'm not trying to bulk up, so I lift at a slightly lower weight with more reps. Five days a week I do cardio; HIIT on the treadmill for 20-40 minutes (depending on if I'm strength training as well) and most days I also go on a walk with my dog.

This routine is a 360 from what I was doing before - which was nothing. However, this is my fourth week in and I see NO results. No weight loss, no inches lost. Nothing!

I wouldn't be so frustrated, but last year I lost 30 lbs with MFP only. Only diet, no exercise. So I'm confused as to why now that I'm combining it with exercise I have yet to see any change. I know these things take time, but I always thought that 4 weeks would be enough to see something.

Does anyone have any suggestions or thoughts on this? I'm trying not to get discouraged so I'm asking for some help! :ohwell:

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I didn't take a picture before I started exercising so I've got one from almost 2 weeks ago and this morning.
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  • No thoughts from anyone? C'mon people!
  • GunslingerGirl
    GunslingerGirl Posts: 251 Member
    Maybe you could try mixing things up a bit more. Add some things randomly and then take them away. Keep your body guessing so it doesn't know whats coming. That way it won't get in a rut by doing the same things all the time.

    And not losing anything in 4 weeks can be quite frustrating yes, but not everyone can lose a ton in the short amount of time. For some it may take just a bit longer. I know how you feel not getting the results you think you should get. It gets really annoying! But, you just gotta be patience and wait. It'll come in time.

    If you want more support feel free to add me :smile: I'm always happy to have new friends
  • I'm only starting to get into my own exercise regime, so I'm not the best person to offer advice on this subject. But maybe you could try taking measurements? You may not see anything on the scales, but receive all the information you need from a measuring tape :) Hopefully other people will be able to give you more advice, if you're happy with your current training method, then I would start with measuring. Goodluck!!! x
  • Pebble321
    Pebble321 Posts: 6,423 Member
    Hmmm, can't say I have any good ideas except to just keep at it.

    Sounds like you are eating a good amount and exercising hard. Sometimes results take longer that we want - and I think it can be particularly hard to see changes when you have changed your exercise, as muscle can hold water while it repairs, so this could be masking the changes.

    I know most people here recommend less reps/more weight for strenght training - us women don't have enough testosterone to get bulky without a hell of a lot of very specific effort.
  • becoming_a_new_me
    becoming_a_new_me Posts: 1,860 Member
    Do us a favor and open your diary so we can see what you are eating. You may not be eating enough believe it or not
  • ster81
    ster81 Posts: 249
    If your goal is simply aesthetic, you should drop the cardio completely and focus on lifting weights. That way, you won't have any issues of miscalculating your calorie intake since you mentioned you eat your workout calories back. Dont be afraid to lift heavy, building muscles is tough even for guys, and there is no way you will bulk up. Your body does not have enough testosterones for it to do so...
  • tmoyer1209
    tmoyer1209 Posts: 213 Member
    My only suggestion is to have more patience, the closer you get to your goal the more difficult it becomes.
  • becoming_a_new_me
    becoming_a_new_me Posts: 1,860 Member
    Do us a favor and open your diary so we can see what you are eating. You may not be eating enough believe it or not

    As Moderatetely Active (moderate exercise/sports 3-5 days/week), your Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) including your total daily energy expenditure (TDEE) is 2243.86 calories per day. That means to cut 1 lb per week, you would eat 1743 calories per day WITHOUT eating back your exercise calories. Make sure you are getting enough protien too, especially after your workouts.
  • mes1119
    mes1119 Posts: 1,082 Member
    Your weight sounds normal for your height. I would say it is going to take longer than you would like to get down.

    The closer you get to your goal weight, the longer it takes to lose the weight.

    Oh and I've heard that doing HIIT everyday is harmful? I'm not positive on this though.
  • BrienJD
    BrienJD Posts: 541 Member
    No expert here, but could it be that possible that all you are doing is kinda working against itself??? Lose weight with cardio but build muscle with weight training, + neither loss nor gain.... something of that nature? If you are already fit, isn't it harder to see some type of improvement?
  • I don't know much, but it sounds like what you're doing right now is maintaining your weight, not shedding it. I'm pretty sure to lose weight you probably shouldn't eat back your exercise calories, and for someone your size 1600 seems like a lot to start, and then you're eating more on top of that? Also, are you eating the right stuff? Because to shed weight you need lots of protein; so many people are tempted to carb-load because exercise makes you crave the satisfaction of carbs but they're not very good for losing weight.

    The exercise is awesome though, keep it up! Just remember that muscle weighs more than fat so if you're doing weight training you may not see a difference in the number on the scale. I know plateaus are frustrating but as long as you're healthy and feeling good you'll see results eventually. Don't give up.
  • mnldreams
    mnldreams Posts: 21
    I have the same problem.. A lot of time my body just gets use to it, so try doing something different but that will challenge you a little more. Maybe some type of Zumba or different classes that will get a little of both strength and cardio at the same time. Keep going sounds like you are doing all the right things as far as being active and eating right.
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    *the pic didn't show for me :(

    Yeah, I would expect eating that amount, it will take a bit longer to see results - but it is a good way to do it! you need fuel to build up your strength. For the next month, focus on how much your strength increases, how much better your cardio gets, etc. Get in at least an hour every day, with 5 reasonably intense days, and at least a walk on the other days. If you don't want to work that hard, drop the amount of food a bit.

    Also, during the day, make sure that you don't remain static - get up and move, even just a to the bathroom or to fill up your water bottle, as much as possible. This has been -crucial- in helping me to stop gaining weight, and I am the perfect example as I have been injured and was unable to do more than very short walks.
  • EuroReady
    EuroReady Posts: 199 Member
    I don't know how much of a difference this makes but maybe you need to downgrade, or even upgrade, your base level of activity. For example, if its set to highly active try sedentary. Im not sure if this is good advice though! :/ Good luck.
  • charneus
    charneus Posts: 66
    I actually just posted a status on this very topic. How ironic.

    Some things to try:

    1. Remove 200-300 calories from your intake, as LONG as you don't drop below 1200 calories.
    2. Double the time you exercise. Your body is used to what you're doing now, so you need to push it a bit more.
    3. Add resistance to your exercises. Instead of 20 lb weights, curl 30 lb weights.
    4. Change your diet around. Your body is used to what you're eating. By substituting something else, it may cause a reaction in your body to help you lose those last stubborn pounds.

    These are just some tips you can use to jump off that plateau and lose the rest. I know it's frustrating, but really, the key point in this is NOT your weight, but how fit you are. You can be 300 lbs and be super-fit, or you can be 130 lbs and barely walk half a block before getting out of breath. Sure, it's nice to look "smaller", but it's more important to be healthy than it is to be skinny.
  • skinnylove00
    skinnylove00 Posts: 662 Member
    honestly, some weeks you wont see a loss but other weeks you will. if you find yourself plateau-ing, REV UP YOUR INTENSITY because you cant do the same routine everyday since your body changes!! youd be surprised actually the amount of times you have to up the ante on exercising, the human body is quite the amazing machine!
  • koolmum
    koolmum Posts: 39
    Be patient. Those last few pounds can be a bugger.
    Sometimes it can be beneficial (mentally) to have a goal range instead of a single number since our weight can fluctuate day to day.
    Enjoy your workouts and think about all of the benefits besides weight loss that you're providing for your body and mind.

    :smile:
  • leadoff
    leadoff Posts: 136 Member
    Don't know if it may be true for you, but when I was 23 (many moons ago), I realized my metabolism had come to a screeching halt. However, my eating HABITS remained the same. I suddenly realized that I had to be more aware of what I was putting in my body for fuel. I switched to munching on fruits and nuts throughout the morning up until lunch, where I ate healthy and light. I also went vegetarian for about six months until a major hamburger craving cured me. :)

    You mentioned that you lost 30 lbs and your ticker shows 9 lbs to go. Those last few are always the hardest and take time. Sounds like you have a good workout in place along with a good awareness of your food intake. Keep on keeping on!

    I have been maintaining the same regimin that I started way back when I was 23 (currently 30 something :) ), and I feel that I am in the best shape of my life right now! It's a lifestyle....not a quick fix!
  • pinkpandangel105
    pinkpandangel105 Posts: 38 Member
    Completely new to the fitness world, but maybe try more lean protein? Don't know what you're eating now. Also maybe some is water weight? Jillian Micheals has a home recipe for a drink to get the water bloat out. 60 oz water, 1 tablespoon sugar free cranberry juice, 1 dandelion root tea bag, 2 tablespoon lemon juice. 60 oz a day for 7 days. (I saw it on pinterest).
  • lovetobethin86
    lovetobethin86 Posts: 202 Member
    I feel your pain, I started working out about 2 and a half months ago and didn't see results (weight loss) until maybe 2 weeks ago. Your body is probably just adjusting and the reason u lost the 30 pounds before with just MFP is probably because u would have had more to lose. As your weight gets lower, your weight loss will slow down. I know people think that if women lift heavier weights they will bulk up but unless your lifting extremely heavy, I dont think its going to happen. For example, there are women at my gym who are toned and thin but are squatting with like 60 pounds of weights....they definitely dont look bulky. I usually do 45 or 50 pounds and I'm 115 at 5' 6" and not bulky....well except for a very stubborn inner thigh lol. Maybe try lifting heavier as well as maybe try doing something like Zumba. Its different cardio but fun so maybe you will see results..I did!
  • JAllen32
    JAllen32 Posts: 991 Member
    I plateaued for 4 months after losing 48lbs. So my bootcamp instructor told me to drop my cals to 1200 two days a week. I'm at 1470 the other 5 days, and eat back my exercise cals. I've also added weight training, which I think you mentioned you are doing. So maybe just do the cal thing a couple days a week and see what happens. The first day I tried it, I was too hungry and I ended up going over. The next time I planned better and stayed at 1200, the next week that happened again. So even though I haven't been totally on point with it, I broke my plateau and lost 3lbs. Good luck!!!!
  • 2getgeorge
    2getgeorge Posts: 81 Member
    no offense but every time I hear "i don't want to bulk up" from a woman.....GRRR
    women "usually" don't produce enough testosterone to bulk up.
    you need to push yourself, if its easy your not taxing your muscles enough to burn fat.
    when I see women at the gym all dolled up, they are there to socialize. you need to sweat.to burn.

    are you using a heart rate monitor?
    Its most likely that your burned calories are not accurate.
    I'm an advocate for using heart rate monitors. If your serious about YOUR weight loss you should use one.
    your body is different from everyone else s. you will burn a different amount of calories doing the same exercise than say me.

    Also I have noticed that people are eating the right amount of calories but the ratio of protein/carbs/fats are wacky.
    I came to this site from using livestrong.com due to lack of android app. on that site there was a pie chart which showed you an easy grah of your calorie intake.if you have one of the phone apps the chart is there.
    I strive for 40% protein/40% carbs/20% fats.
    MFP uses the usda standard of 40%carbs/ 30% protein/ 30% fats

    use a food scale to weigh everything
    use a HRM to baseline everything you do from the time you get out of bed to you go to sleep.
    I geek out on the numbers,

    just my 2cents I hope it helps.

    George
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    Hit the weights and go heavy 3-4 times a week. High protein intake, like 30% of your daily calories. Get lots of sleep, 7-9 hours a day. And do cardio 2-3 times a week max to preserve your hard earned muscles :-)
  • Gigilly
    Gigilly Posts: 37 Member
    No worries! Do not stress yourself about it. It is great that you are following your caloric intake and you are doing exercise most days of the week. So let's say you work out 5 to 6 hrs a week plus you walk your dog, maybe 7 hrs a week? So of the 159-160 hours remaining in the week are you active? I do not mean full work outs but how much time do you stand and walk about during the day? Do you walk everywhere or drive? Do you take stairs, do you have other hobbies, interests that are physically active? Often we think that by doing a strenuos activity once a day that should be enough with a sensible caloric intake and then we drive to work, take the elevator, sit at a desk for hours on end, drive home, make a fast meal and sit on the couch unitl it is time to go to bed.
    I am not saying that you do all of this but you might find that by just adding a little more time standing and moving around each day can help you with your weight loss and also help to initiate another lifestyle change.
    I realise that I do not know your routines but I hope this can help. Keep up the good work!
  • auntiebabs
    auntiebabs Posts: 1,754 Member
    Did you take you measurement when you started?
    with as hard as you are working out you MAY be losing FAT, but gaining MUSCLE?
    (Since muscle is denser than fat, you may not see a difference on the scale, but in your measurements)

    When I was your age I would always put on 5 lbs every spring when I started being more active again.
    I would gain muscle before I lost the fat... I would lose that initial 5 lb bump and end up at my start weight, but be a denser more compact me. (Bicycling 8-16 miles a day I had legs like iron. Geez, I miss those days:grumble: )

    Also you are starting out in a healthy range (& your goal is also in a healthy range)
    So first things first, keep healthy and watch your nutrition.
    If you have to kill yourself to get those last 9 lbs it may not be worth it, it doesn't matter if you lose it if you can't maintain it...
    and those who lose and gain back usually gain back PLUS more.

    Don't get caught up in yoyo dieting... focus on your health and live a great life!!!!!!!!!
  • gregavila
    gregavila Posts: 723 Member
    I would also agree with the guy who noted that its likely time to add some real resistance training and weight lifting to your workout. Get a copy of The New Rules of Lifting for Women. You are close enough to your goal weight that if you started lifting and toning you will get there.

    Unfortunately the last 10 pounds are often the hardest. I've not seen any weight change in two weeks now.
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    Go heavy on the weight, with less reps. You won't bulk. Women need to get rid of this myth. Even guys have a hard time bulking up. It takes a lot of very hard work to do that.
  • Snelllee
    Snelllee Posts: 23 Member
    Whenever you start a new exercise program (from doing nothing) your body holds onto some water weight because its not sure whats going on. I usually gain weight when I start an exercise program (sadly I've had to start a few times). This also happened to my friend when she started exercising. This goes away for me at about 6 weeks. Make sure you're drinking tons of water to flush all that out, keep your sodium low, eat protein and fiber, lower carbs, and being sure to log your exercise and food accurately. Also measure yourself and see if you're losing inches. Oh, and keep it up! You'll get results!
  • courtneymal17
    courtneymal17 Posts: 672 Member
    Might be a stupid question, but how are you measuring your exercise calories? You said you eat back most-all of them? It's been my experience that MFP DRASTICALLY over-estimates the calories I burn if I rely on that to input my exercise calories. When I was, I found I lost less weight the week that I actually ate my exercise calories back. If this is the way that you're using to determine your calories burned, I'd suggest either eating only about half of your exercise calories back or getting a heart rate monitor...You can find all different price ranges and values. I have a polar ft7 that I loooove. It's pricey but it's been invaluable in my weight loss.
  • Thanks, everyone! It sounds like there's a few slight chances I can make to make this a little easier.

    I have been trying to focus less on the scale; when I lost weight the first time I unfortunately became obsessed with weighing myself and ended up on the scale 2-3 times a day. Now I realize this is ridiculous. I've made Wednesdays my weigh-in days and I've done well so far this week at sticking to that (I know it's only Friday, but it really had turned into an obsession)!

    I have been thinking about getting a HRM, anyone recommend a certain brand or type? I don't know much about them.

    Thanks for being so helpful. This is exactly why I like MFP so much!