How to stop from overeating

I know it prolly just sounds sad...but really..I think that is one of the main problems I have..I cant seem to control myself...I eat when im depressed as well, which is often.

I dont understand what my body needs me to do to control myself..its almost liek I dont have the mindset for it..

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  • crazytreelady
    crazytreelady Posts: 752 Member
    I was a big freaking over eater!!! But one day, I just said no. I quit carrying my wallet and debit card with me as well, so of I was out, I couldn't eat. I also started giving any sweets and fatty foods away.

    And now, I eat properly. Yah, I have a treat when I want, but I PLAN for it.

    Eventually, your stomach will adjust and you will feel full with less food :)
  • hannahbanana0480
    hannahbanana0480 Posts: 46 Member
    It is a total mental thing. You just have to decide. It has nothing to do with what your body wants, it's what your mind wants.
  • strawberrie_milk
    strawberrie_milk Posts: 381 Member
    Self control and discipline must be learned. If you don't have the right mindset, you're not going to be able to control your eating. Planning your meals beforehand would probably help a bit. Find something you enjoy doing in place of eating.
  • TexanThom
    TexanThom Posts: 778
    I wish I knew. I stopped drinking and stopped using snuff, but food is the one thing that is controlling me. I guess I have issues.
  • petes287
    petes287 Posts: 11 Member
    It is a total mental thing. You just have to decide.
  • lizard053
    lizard053 Posts: 2,344 Member
    Portion out any snack food into single serving bags. Weigh or measure everything. Best investments you can make is a food scale, measuring cups and measuring spoons.

    Get enough to eat! Fill up on high fiber and high protein foods earlier in the day to minimize cravings later. It does wonders to help you maintain control. Starving yourself will only make the tendency to overeat worse!

    Break away from emotional eating. Stop yourself before you eat and ask, am I really hungry or am I looking for something else to alleviate other symptoms? Eating due to depression is a major problem for me. It's why I keep gaining weight back. It's a very hard thing to break. Emotions have to be felt to be dealt with. Eating will never help them, and you'll never be satisfied.

    Start out by always leaving 1 bite of food on your plate. No matter how much you want it. Leave it behind. It will help you break the emotional ties to food, and will help you when you start eating smaller portions. You'll learn to be satisfied with less over time. It's a life-long project! But it can be done!
  • thoshowski
    thoshowski Posts: 135 Member
    I am a big eater when I get bored. Now, I try to keep myself really busy doing anything and everything I can around the house. Usually that helps burn calories, cleaning, raking the lawn, taking the dog for a walk, then I don't realize that I am craving something I shouldn't be eating.
  • chicpeach
    chicpeach Posts: 302 Member
    Understand how your body works. When you feel hunger and/or have cravings, it's your body's signal that it is lacking nutrition it needs for fuel. By eating the right foods - whole, natural foods, and getting a variety of colors in your diet, you fuel your body with the nutrients it needs and hunger or cravings go away.

    Fuel your body with junk food, empty calories or food the is lacking decent nutrition - think fast food, prepackaged/preprocessed foods, and your body doesn't get what it needs even tho your stomach is full so it keeps sending the signal that you're hungry.
  • Bridget28152723
    Bridget28152723 Posts: 372 Member
    I have the same problem as you. Its all in the mind, and how bad you want it, eat when hungry or have several small meals with lots of water and when your tempted to eat something bad , clean or stay busy. If you really feel you are hungry eat veggies or fruit , I know it is hard. You will get used to it.
  • dlaw216
    dlaw216 Posts: 14
    If snuff is anything like smoking your appetite will raise when you quit, mine did after I quit smoking two years ago (after smoking for 18), it is part of the reason I gained the weight I did. The other part was just being stupid with what I ate.
  • TexanThom
    TexanThom Posts: 778
    If snuff is anything like smoking your appetite will raise when you quit, mine did after I quit smoking two years ago (after smoking for 18), it is part of the reason I gained the weight I did. The other part was just being stupid with what I ate.
    I used shuff for 20 years, and stopped 20 years ago.
  • Jessamine
    Jessamine Posts: 226 Member
    What works for one may not work for another. I firmly believe it comes down to a personal conviction or revelation to CHANGE. There isn't a magic trick or switch to make your bad habits disappear.

    I got fed up with my bad habits and had enough. I was motivated and convinced that I needed to change. I stopped all my drinking, and that eliminated a LOT of overeating and late-night snacking. Drinking made me HUNGRY.

    I also signed up for an online meal and recipe planner. I was able to cook meals with specific portions and that has helped me practice healthy portion control. It works like a charm for me, but that doesn't mean it will work for everyone else.

    I got my husband on board with me. He eats what I eat (it's good stuff anyway), he knows my struggles, and he helps me make wiser decisions because I want him to. I asked for his help.

    I motivate myself with short-term goals and rewards for progress.

    I keep bad foods out of my house, for the most part. I don't believe in an "all-or-nothing" mentality. I fail when I eliminate everything I love to eat.

    Like crazytreelady said: It's true! Eventually you will adjust and adapt and feel full with smaller portions.
  • ranewell
    ranewell Posts: 621 Member
    what everyone said!!! But when it's a trigger food for me ( like pizza!!!) What works for me is eating some broccoli before the pizza comes so that I can still enjoy the pizza, but eat about half of what I would before (and the broc is healthy, filling and like 30 calories!!)
  • KaleidoscopeEyes1056
    KaleidoscopeEyes1056 Posts: 2,996 Member
    I have an article on this topic from Time, I'll post it here when I find it.

    Found it! I hope this helps some!

    http://healthland.time.com/2012/03/19/5-tips-to-overcome-emotional-eating/#emotional-eating
  • sburde2
    sburde2 Posts: 178 Member
    If you are using food to cope with feelings of depression, it might not be as simple as just stopping. I don't know anything about you or your situation but sometimes people will use food to self medicate. It can sometimes be helpful for some people to think about seeing a counselor.
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    I'm having this problem RIGHT NOW, as I speak. I'm at work so I don't have a lot of options to eat, besides...I just ate my lunch.
  • Devlyn_P
    Devlyn_P Posts: 294 Member
    Drink alot of water. It will give you that full feeling. If you are an emotional eater try stepping outside when you get the urge to
    binge. Confront it with a physical activity and in time as the inches come off, your confidence will build and hopefully eliminate that depression. Just a suggestion so good luck!
  • Angie_1MR
    Angie_1MR Posts: 247
    I have the same problem, an emotional eater. The day after my binge is over, I get back to my diet...I feel like sometimes my body needs the junk to keep me sane! Most of the time I am good, but there are days where I'll have 3 rice krispie treats in a row and/or Cheetos and/or Domino's Brooklyn Style pizza....it's all mental for me! You just gotta get right back on it!!
  • Amberetta82
    Amberetta82 Posts: 153 Member
    Put up a sign on the fridge or the cabinet asking if you are really hungry or if you are just bored etc. Just a lil note to yourself because you don't want to overeat and you know it. In my experience, when you realize that you are doing something then you can change it. You read that note over and over, you will know something is up. Also, you could also chew some gum or eat a sucker. I'd say gum because it lasts longer.
  • wewon
    wewon Posts: 838 Member
    Eat more protein (0.5 gram per pound of weight) and fiber. Both have you feel full, and eat them at every meal.

    Cut back on the simple carbs, your body absorbs them quickly and you get hungry again.
  • hpsnickers1
    hpsnickers1 Posts: 2,783 Member
    Look into 2 books:

    Addiction: The Hidden Epidemic by Pam Killeen (This is a really good one for learning how to fix your brain - it has helped me and of course going Primal was the best thing I did for my brain health)
    And The Mood Cure: The 4-step program to Take Charge of Your Emotions --Today Julia Ross.

    Great information regarding your neurotransmitters and what amino acid supplements can aid in getting over addictions (I believe that overeating is actually a carbohydrate addiction. And yes, even "healthy" whole grains can upset that neurotransmitter balance, maybe even more so since the gut and the brain are connected).

    This is a start. And the neurotransmitters are amino acids that come from proteins. But if you digestive system is screwed up (it very well could be - my digestive issues were a large part of my anxiety and depression that I have dealt with over the years) then your body is possibly not digesting protein all that well (could also play a part in overeating; eating but not getting the nutrition from the food will keep your body wanting more) then supplements are a good place to start.

    And ditch all the edible food like substances that make up more than 90% of the grocery store and eat real, whole foods.

    I can tell you this right now. It's not a mental problem or a behavioral problem. It's not "in your head". It's real, it's physical and I know exactly how you are feeling because I've been there. I have never been overweight or obese. But I couldn't stop eating at times (it was usually in the form of a carbohydrates). Try overeating just protein and fat (no carbs). It's pretty much impossible.
  • nebulinda
    nebulinda Posts: 120 Member
    You said you're often depressed, so it might be helpful to see a mental health professional. They will be able to help you with your depression (which will help combat overeating) and will probably be able to help you confront the overeating itself, as well.

    If you don't want to or are unable to see a therapist, you could try some other things to stop overeating. Think of the activities you do and places you go where you overeat. Now stop doing those things and going to those places, if possible. For example, when watching TV I always have to have a snack in front of me. Now I pretty much don't watch TV anymore. When you make a meal where you know you will have leftovers, or go out to a restaurant, immediately put half of it into a container and put it away, before you even start eating.

    To help when you're feeling depressed, you could try exercising (especially walking or yoga), journaling, calling a friend or family member, or distracting yourself with a book or game.

    I found a checklist to determine real hunger vs. emotional hunger from here: http://elitebootcamptraining.com/real-hunger-vs-emotional-hunger/

    Real Hunger
    -Builds gradually
    -Strikes below the neck (e.g., growling stomach)
    -Not compulsive
    -Occurs several hours after a meal
    -Goes away when full
    -Leads to feeling of satisfaction after eating

    Emotional Hunger
    -Develops suddenly
    -Hits above the neck (e.g., a “taste” for ice cream)
    -Results in an urgent need to eat
    -Is unrelated to time since last meal
    -Is specific, often for a particular food or brand
    -Persists despite fullness

    When you are hungry, before you eat anything, determine which type of hungry you are. When you have real hunger, eat something filling and healthy. When you have emotional hunger, try to determine what it is that is making you emotional, and do something else besides eat.
  • ralopez420
    ralopez420 Posts: 4 Member
    I do not carry extra money so I will not be tempted walking past the vending machines or any other food. I also try to plan my meals out in the morning. This way I can pack my lunch and dont have any other choice but to eat what I had packed (this is where having no extra money comes in handy). Also... I remember reading in some magazine that Mariah Carey destroys her food when she doesnt want to eat anymore.. that also works. For example, you have ate enough food - so pour something all over your food, lpour your drink on it, put your napkin on top, spill salt all over it, etc, so that you will not be tempted to keep picking at it. In addition to this, get smaller plates. I know a big problem for me is that I grab a plate and fill it up. Now I grab a bowl and fill it up. This way I can control my portion. I hope this helps!

    -Also, When i first started my lifestyle change, I put my scale RIGHT IN FRONT of the fridge. This way i am forced to look at it when getting something to eat. Its all mental. Unfortunately, no one else in my house was very fond of it. :laugh:
  • je158687
    je158687 Posts: 1
    I had the same problem when it came to me gaining weight "overeating". My problem started due to me having a child. During the beginning of my pregnancy I was constantly sick and started to loose significant amounts of weight so I was instructed to eat whatever I could. Shortly after, I got better but still continued to eat whatever, and once I gave birth i chose to nurse and was informed I needed make sure I ate so that my calorie intake would be enough to support my milk supply and child. Now during that time I honestly ate healthy....alot but healthy-lol, because she could not tolerate any fast food or junk food that I ate. Once i weened her off I became so use to eating so much that I kept doing so. While pregnant i got up to 238 once I had her and nursed i dropped down to 186 within 3months and once i stopped I was up to 208 in less then a month and it kept increasing due to my overeating. When i got on the scale on saw 224 i knew it was time to go speak to a professional,and i did! She prescribed me a drug to suppress my appetite, and it has worked. I would honestly suggest going to speak to your doctor like i did, but remember if you are prescribed the suppressant make sure you work out and eat healthy when you do it or else once you stop taking it you will fall back into your old habits.
  • proctor78
    proctor78 Posts: 51
    bump
  • This may sound dramatic, but at restaurants if I want to keep myself from picking at food I don't plan to take home or eat (i.e. a bun I took off my burger, etc), I will put a dirty napkin, pour water, or pour salt on it. It only takes 1 second of self control/motivation to stop yourself in the future.
  • Angie_1MR
    Angie_1MR Posts: 247
    This may sound dramatic, but at restaurants if I want to keep myself from picking at food I don't plan to take home or eat (i.e. a bun I took off my burger, etc), I will put a dirty napkin, pour water, or pour salt on it. It only takes 1 second of self control/motivation to stop yourself in the future.

    EXCELLENT idea! thanks :)