Why lead a woman on?

UsedToBeHusky
UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
edited December 17 in Chit-Chat
I mean, if you don't give a flying piece of donkey crap for a chick, then why make her think that you do?

Looking for some honest answers, fellas...
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  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    sex
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    Because you want to see her naked.
  • fiveferrels
    fiveferrels Posts: 397 Member
    something is better than nothing I guess
  • forever28
    forever28 Posts: 374 Member
    definitely for the bootay.... unfortunately.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    sex

    Yup.
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    sometimes because we can .... but most of the time I have been accused of that, I did not realize I was leading the person on, I thought I was being being friendly.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??
  • mmstgr
    mmstgr Posts: 578 Member
    Sex. But women do the same to men in return. So hey.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    sometimes because we can .... but most of the time I have been accused of that, I did not realize I was leading the person on, I thought I was being being friendly.

    Well see, if 'Free Hugs Friday' happens in RL, I could totally see that.
  • BIGJIMMYU
    BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
    ego, sex, ego, sex,....so on and so on....
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??

    So you're saying you want it but he isn't acting on it? Then why don't you?
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    If you're not sexually interested in a guy and know you won't be, don't keep going out with him. There are ways to hint that you're not going to get down with any guy that wines and dines you.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??

    So you're saying you want it but he isn't acting on it? Then why don't you?

    Ugh! He rejected me once before.
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??

    Don't try to figure people out, just move on.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??

    Don't try to figure people out, just move on.

    :brokenheart:
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    A lot of times "he's leading me on" is another way of saying "he's living his life the way he wants to, and I've mistakenly put him in charge of my life instead of taking the same approach"

    If other people are in charge of your happiness, you'll always be disappointed because people do what's best for THEM, not what's best for YOU
  • scapez
    scapez Posts: 2,018 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??

    Don't try to figure people out, just move on.
    Unfortunately...this is the cold hard truth. If someone isn't what you need or want them to be, there's little point in wasting brain-time trying to figure out what makes them tick.

    For as stupid as this sounds, reading the book "He's Just Not That Into You" helped me immensely. My perspective changed a lot since then.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??

    Don't try to figure people out, just move on.
    Unfortunately...this is the cold hard truth. If someone isn't what you need or want them to be, there's little point in wasting brain-time trying to figure out what makes them tick.

    For as stupid as this sounds, reading the book "He's Just Not That Into You" helped me immensely. My perspective changed a lot since then.

    Blah! Yeah, I know.
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    Sorry but in my experience you girls are a gazzillion times worse for this......
  • _Christine_
    _Christine_ Posts: 1,385 Member
    What he said.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Okay... I'm okay with that...

    So let's say hypothetically, (as a man) you didn't get it... but she totally wanted to at a later date. You continue to put out the vibe, but don't act on it.

    What is the point of that? Just to piss her off??

    Don't try to figure people out, just move on.

    ^^ This has been one of the best lessons I've learned the past year. You will never make sense out of other people's senseless actions, so don't bother trying.
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    sex... or boredom.
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    Sorry but in my experience you girls are a gazzillion times worse for this......

    Agreed or how they still keep in contact with you just to keep you interested when it's nothing more then attention they crave.

    As I read my post again I can be considering a "leader"
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Sorry but in my experience you girls are a gazzillion times worse for this......

    Agreed or how they still keep in contact with you just to keep you interested when it's nothing more then attention they crave.

    As I read my post again I can be considering a "leader"

    Are you suggesting that he might think that I am the one leading him on?
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    So, it kind of goes liek this. Guy kinda likes girl, but not a ton. Can't really see "being" with her, but could see a hook up happen. So, he pursues it a little. He goes to a place, then it doesn't happen. Then, he starts to push it a little further, and then just kinda says, "Ah, F*** it." But, then a week or two goes by, and he gets horny, and starts thinking about her, so then he might make a call and see what's up. But, then it's like, "Oh yeah, lets do something weekend after next"....but, in his mind, he was hoping you'd say, I'll just come over now, F*** your brains out, and then leave immediately. How does that sound. But, because it doesn't really happen that way, he just blows it off.

    Does that make sense?
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    So, it kind of goes liek this. Guy kinda likes girl, but not a ton. Can't really see "being" with her, but could see a hook up happen. So, he pursues it a little. He goes to a place, then it doesn't happen. Then, he starts to push it a little further, and then just kinda says, "Ah, F*** it." But, then a week or two goes by, and he gets horny, and starts thinking about her, so then he might make a call and see what's up. But, then it's like, "Oh yeah, lets do something weekend after next"....but, in his mind, he was hoping you'd say, I'll just come over now, F*** your brains out, and then leave immediately. How does that sound. But, because it doesn't really happen that way, he just blows it off.

    Does that make sense?

    That was kind of amusing actually... but no, it wasn't like that. :laugh:
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    So, it kind of goes liek this. Guy kinda likes girl, but not a ton. Can't really see "being" with her, but could see a hook up happen. So, he pursues it a little. He goes to a place, then it doesn't happen. Then, he starts to push it a little further, and then just kinda says, "Ah, F*** it." But, then a week or two goes by, and he gets horny, and starts thinking about her, so then he might make a call and see what's up. But, then it's like, "Oh yeah, lets do something weekend after next"....but, in his mind, he was hoping you'd say, I'll just come over now, F*** your brains out, and then leave immediately. How does that sound. But, because it doesn't really happen that way, he just blows it off.

    Does that make sense?

    That makes perfect sense, and Ive totally been there.
  • ScottyNoHotty
    ScottyNoHotty Posts: 1,957 Member
    Because we can.....and some guys think that they are gods gift to ALL women.
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    Because we can.....and some guys think that they are gods gift to ALL women.

    well not ALL.... I mean, I dont like some chicks.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Actually, it was more like. Hey, let's screw around on our SO's. No I'm not really into that, but I'll go dump this guy so I don't have to feel guilty. Ok, I'm ready... oh wait... now you are going to marry her... fine, I'll leave you alone. Then months go by.

    Hey! How you doin'? Oh you and that chick broke up? Well why don't you call me sometime. You will? Awesome!

    ... and I wait.... and wait... and wait...
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