Restore my faith in men

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UsedToBeHusky
UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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Are there any single guys who aren't looking for women just for sex?

Obviously, I am going through something here so no ridicule or bashing please.
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  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,522 Member
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    Not single, but my wife is out of town. Rawr.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,370 Member
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    We all like it and want it but that doesn`t mean we can`t be decent and loving too and happy to go without when we are caring for a lady. :flowerforyou:
  • badgerbadger1
    badgerbadger1 Posts: 954 Member
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    You need to take some time out of the game and just enjoy being single for a while. You can't approach dating like you NEED a man. Nor can you go in with the mindset that all men are scoundrels.
  • Krizzle4Rizzle
    Krizzle4Rizzle Posts: 2,704 Member
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    Are there any single guys who aren't looking for women just for sex?

    Obviously, I am going through something here so no ridicule or bashing please.

    I am not a man but I think you deserve the world and nothing less. Remember that.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
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    Yes, there are.
  • JoeyTajzai
    JoeyTajzai Posts: 1,198 Member
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    There is no man that has told me "I"m ready to settle", although I hang out with younger men. Long term relationships just happen.
  • StatHaldol
    StatHaldol Posts: 414 Member
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    You need to take some time out of the game and just enjoy being single for a while. You can't approach dating like you NEED a man. Nor can you go in with the mindset that all men are scoundrels.

    Well said...
  • BarbWhite09
    BarbWhite09 Posts: 1,128 Member
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    I'm sorry, to all the nice guys out there that get the whole "guys just want a woman for sex" stereotype. *hugs*
  • JoeyTajzai
    JoeyTajzai Posts: 1,198 Member
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    I'm sorry, to all the nice guys out there that get the whole "guys just want a woman for sex" stereotype. *hugs*

    It's okay =(
  • sandeeface518
    sandeeface518 Posts: 41 Member
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    I saw this topic and thought " I don't remember posting this" I've been wondering the same thing for quite a while now
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    Not single, but my wife is out of town. Rawr.

    :wink:

    You know I would soooo take you up on that offer... but she scares me! LOL!
  • momof8munchkins
    momof8munchkins Posts: 1,167 Member
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    You need to take some time out of the game and just enjoy being single for a while. You can't approach dating like you NEED a man. Nor can you go in with the mindset that all men are scoundrels.

    Well said...
    agreed and yes there are
  • Classalete
    Classalete Posts: 464 Member
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    Are there any single guys who aren't looking for women just for sex?

    Absolutely...Laundry and cleaning would be nice too.
  • JoeyTajzai
    JoeyTajzai Posts: 1,198 Member
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    Are there any single guys who aren't looking for women just for sex?

    Absolutely...Laundry and cleaning would be nice too.

    Win. LOL
  • AmerTunsi
    AmerTunsi Posts: 655 Member
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    I think the saying is true .. all the good ones are pretty much taken! I'm sure there are some left but it's like finding a four leaf clover. *sigh*
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    You need to take some time out of the game and just enjoy being single for a while. You can't approach dating like you NEED a man. Nor can you go in with the mindset that all men are scoundrels.

    Yes I know. I've been single for awhile. I don't feel that I NEED a man. I take care of myself and my kids pretty well without one. Actually, I do that better than I did when I had one. Doesn't stop me from wanting one though.

    It's just that I met someone that seemed absolutely wonderful. And then he showed his true colors. It's just kind of disappointing.
  • lilfurson
    lilfurson Posts: 190
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    I'm actually not for the whole just hooking up scene...never have been.
  • badgerbadger1
    badgerbadger1 Posts: 954 Member
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    Of course it's disappointing, that's just being human. But that's when you sever and move on. Look at it as a gift that he showed his hand early on. Don't waste your time.
  • grizzlymaze
    grizzlymaze Posts: 185 Member
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    I am a man that is in the process of restoring my faith with my wife. We went through hell and back with my horrible addiction. I am now clean and my wife and I now have better sex than ever. I want it more because I love my wife more.

    For all you men (and women) out there, pornograghy is an addiction just like drugs and alcohol. It has ruined my marriage, but we are working it out. If your addicted, I highly suggest finding somebody to help keep you accountable. You can count on me if your struggling. Just IM me and we can keep it just between us. I can help you and you can help me too.

    Cheers
  • cspence2270
    cspence2270 Posts: 229 Member
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    of course there are- but that type of man usually comes into your life when you're happy and content with yourself because that is the type of women that a man like that is attracted to. He doesn't want to save you he's looking for a partner who will contribute equally to the relationship. They are out there, I know because I married one.

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