What can you do if you can't exsersize?

It's completely possible to not exercise and lose weight. It's all about calories in v calories out. Watch your food like a hawk and drink plenty of water.

First...it is possible to lose weight without exercise. I volunteer with many disabled, older women, and I've watched many of them lose weight on weight watchers...several of them in wheelchairs and without access to assistance to help them do modified exercise. So I not only think it can by done in theory, I've *seen* it done. And these women are on fixed incomes and rely on both cheap and easy to fix meals...no fancy diet foods or shakes, just simple calorie counting (or WW points. Similar idea).

Second...I wonder if there are some things you can do. We think of exercise only in terms of "calorie burn," but its good for your health and can raise your overall metabolism even if the documented calorie burn is minimal. I'm taking a *restorative* yoga class (no standing poses. No forced stretches.) and the next day I swear I can feel that my muscles have *done* something. Other exercise that is focused on breathing and moving oxygen throughout the body may be an option, like tai chi. You might want to look into dvds that you can do at home if getting to classes isn't an option or is personally desired (if yoga...just make sure its specifically restorative or gentle...some yoga is really strenuous).

Good luck. I know you can do it.

Tai chi is a good option. Paul Lam has several DVDs that work well with seniors, people with severe arthritis or those who are disabled. Tai chi is based on slow and controlled movements, so nothing fast and jerky.

I've lost 40 pounds with very little exercise. Watch your calories and it will happen. It can be done. Good luck.

Exercise, while very beneficial for mental and physical health, is not at all important for weight loss. That may sound controversial, but it it borne out by science. Cutting your calories below what you need to "run" your body and all its systems will be sufficient for weight loss.

Remember not to base your notions of weight loss on reality TV shows like The Biggest Loser, which ludicrously over-emphasise the exercise component, neglecting to tell us that oh, BY THE WAY, the contestants also happen to be on what is basically a starvation diet of about 1,000 calories (or less) a day.

I have ME and understand the muscle weakness thing and not being able to do cardio exercise. I've found that pilates is good and doable for me. Most people would consider what I do to be a warm up but I am still working muscles and it's all lying down. You can do more on a better day if you're able.

I've also found a couple of DVD's that work for me which you may be able to do if you can manage swimming. One is a totally seated workout and the other has some standing but you can use a chair to help you and the rest if sitting down.

I've encountered lots of folks on here that have either lost through diet alone or are disabled in some way or other and have managed to adapt exercise to suit them. I try to think in terms of moving, stretching, toning rather than "exercise" as that tends to make people think of intense and cardio based stuff which is not good for ME.

I think you perhaps missed the 'speak to a physio' aspect of my post...

I have Fibromyalgia, too, and am unable to work & on disability. Having Fibro is - well, I really can't think of enough bad things to say about it.

Stretching is very good for Fibro. I have set of sstrecthes that I've been doing almost every day since joining mfp (about 8 weeks). And the results are amazing. the muscles that used to hurt some of the time hurt a lot less of the time, and the muscles that used to hurt all time still hurt most of the time, but hurt a lot less I do have to be careful not to overstretch, or I get that super-sore fibroflare zap that I'm sure you know well.

Walking is what I do for meaningful cardio. (The following is not what I *recommend,* but it is what I did.)

I started off by figuring that I could probably walk for 20 minutes (I like to think that I can do just about anything for 20 minutes . I set my watch timer for 10 minutes and stated walking. When it beeped, I turned around and walked back. Then I was sore as hell for a week.

The next week I did it again. I told myself I'd turn around at 5 minutes. but that seemd *so* short; and I went for 10 minutes before I turned around. Afterwards, I was not quite as sore for not quite as long as the first time.

I've kept going for walk once or twice a week, and now 20 minutes is what I can do without getting sore and "paying for it" the next day. I stiil often get carried away and walk for too long, and get super-sore for the next day or two; but it's not as bad as it was when I started.

The right way, of course, is to start of with a very short time (my doctor suggested 3 minutes) and to *turn around when your timer tells you* (apparently, I am really some kind of idiot . And then work your way up by adding a minute or so a time.

Yoga (the gentle, easy kind) seems to be the best for of exercise for peopele with fibro. The only reason I'm not doing yoga now is that I live in a very small apartment with a big clutter problem, and there literally is not enough clear floor space for me to unroll a yoag mat in here. Once I can organize the space, I will definitely be doing yoga.

Between exercise, exercise recovery, shopping for healthy food, cooking healthy food, and keeping the dishes used for all that healthy food washed; I am getting almost nothing else done these days - clearing the space to do yoga beig a case in point. OTOH, I wasn't getting much of anything else done before I started all this. At least now I'm getting almost nothing done, but with the fringe benefit of health food, slowly improving fitness, and some very satifactory weight loss.

Hope some of this helps.

ME is what some people call CFS or CFIDS although some people say even these are different things. It's complicated huh?

People used to say Fibromylagia and ME/CFS are the same thing but it's been shown in research that there are differences and they respond to diffferent treatments http://www.ukfibromyalgia.com/conditions-mistaken-for-fm/me-and-cfs.html

Absolutely a physio with good knowledge of these conditions is a big thumbs up but I know in the UK it's a matter of luck sometimes to find a physio who understands the trickiness of ME. With mild ME phsyio's can often get very good results though.