FOR YOU MEN! PLEASE ANSWER FOR ALL US WOMEN!

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  • yoginimary
    yoginimary Posts: 6,786 Member
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    Under man law #5876 I am not permitted to answer this question.

    Instead, here is a cute picture of a bunny.

    http://heresabunnywithapancakeonitshead.com/bunny_pancake.jpg

    Awesome :laugh:
  • emtink
    emtink Posts: 387 Member
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    Under man law #5876 I am not permitted to answer this question.

    Instead, here is a cute picture of a bunny.

    http://heresabunnywithapancakeonitshead.com/bunny_pancake.jpg

    that is the cutest thing ever! i'm making it my wallpaper at work.
  • Lisabeth
    Lisabeth Posts: 268
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    Well...what I meant by this is I guess, do men get aroused..even though they are in love with their wives and the wife is sitting there with them. I know my husband will turn his head at an attractive woman....that's just normal....I mean, I don't think twice to look at a guy when a guy in a military uniform passes me, or a guy in a hard hat working outside...that's the truth.....but I don't get aroused. I just want to know if men get aroused or is it just "wow......wow" and that's it. I mean, let me give you a woman's perspective...or mine.....if I see a naked man on the screen (frontal), of course it does nothing for me but kinda like...."oh my gosh!" type reaction. But, if a man is making love to a woman and is passionate and grabs the woman's face and kisses her passionately.....then THAT gets me feeling like ".....ohhhhhhhhhhhhh wowwwwwwww....I'm in love with this guy!!" type. Nothing to do with the girl, just the passion of a man...and he doesn't have to be nude (well, the shirt off helps)...lol So, getting back to my question.......do men get aroused..even though they are in love with their wives and the wife is sitting there with them.

    As to watching movies with female nudity in them with one's wife, I don't really understand what you mean by "keep their "senses" together". If you're wondering if a guy starts lusting for the actress and forgets about his wife, I don't think so, but there may be some who do.
  • twin2
    twin2 Posts: 404
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    Under man law #5876 I am not permitted to answer this question.

    Instead, here is a cute picture of a bunny.

    http://heresabunnywithapancakeonitshead.com/bunny_pancake.jpg

    Way to get around that one - pretty smooth! :laugh:
  • icupfunny2000
    icupfunny2000 Posts: 470 Member
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    of course men get aroused.... did you know the average man gets between 5-8 erections a day....:noway:

    I have always thought, well so what ...as long as they arent touching these women i dont care...
    j~
  • LonelyPilgrim
    LonelyPilgrim Posts: 255 Member
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    I think we all get a little hot and bothered when watching a steamy love scene. Especially (for women) if there's an emotional componant to it.

    it doesn't mean that we want the man in the scene more than we want our husbands. Sometimes it feels that way :) but really what it is, is we want to be the object of passion. We want our husbands to be as passionate about us as the man on screen is about his girl.

    At least, that's how i feel. I would never say "i'd rather be with brad pitt" but I might think "why can't X throw me up against a wall like that?":blushing:

    you know?

    One of my favorite quotes is from the book High Fidelity. and because I love it so much, I'll go to great lengths to actually type the whole damn thing here: (for those of you who dont' know High Fidelity, it's writen from a man's perspective, after a breakup:)

    (quote)

    Women get it wrong when they complain about media images of women. Men understand that not everyone has Bardot's breasts, or Jamie Lee Curtis's neck, or Cindy Crawford's bottom, and we don't mind at all. Obviously we'd take Kim Basinger over Phyllis Diller, just as women would take Keanu Reeves over Sergeant Bilko, but it's not the body that's important, it's the level of abasement. We worked out very quickly that Bond girls were out of our league, but the realization that women don't ever look at us the way Ursula Andress looked at Sean Connery, or even in the way that Doris Day looked at Rock Hudson, was much slower to arrive, for most of us. In my case, I'm not at all sure that it ever did.

    I'm beginning to get used to the idea that Laura might be the person I spend my life with... But it's much harder to get used to the idea that my little-boy notions of romance, of negilges and candeleit dinners at home and long, smoldering glances, had no basis in reality at all. That's what women ought to get all steamed up about; that's why we can't function properly in relationships. It's not about the cellulite or the crow's feet. It's the....the.... the....disrespect.

    (end quote)

    and I totally buy it. From a woman's perspective too.
  • banks1850
    banks1850 Posts: 3,475 Member
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    heh, I used to when I was 20, but I have a little more self control now. I mean, I guess there is some amount of physical attraction if the girl is really sexy and seductive, but its not like guys "stand at attention" every time boobs show on the screen. More often then not my wife or I will comment about it, but ahh, I don't see a nude scene and they say "honey, we need to go in the bedroom right now!" I mean if it was that easy, I imagine my wife would have a collection of Porky's videos when ever she felt the need (she's in her 30's, you know what they say about woman when they hit their 30's, well at least for my wife, it's true):happy: .
  • ali106
    ali106 Posts: 3,754 Member
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    shhhhhhh banks...don't give it all away LOL
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
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    I don't have to worry about my husband getting aroused by other women in the movies. :glasses:




    He always falls asleep right after opening credits anyway. :laugh:
  • ali106
    ali106 Posts: 3,754 Member
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    omg shannon...are we married to twins????? lol
  • Lisabeth
    Lisabeth Posts: 268
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    OMG TOO FUNNY! "Why can't X throw me up against the wall like that!!!" :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:


    At least, that's how i feel. I would never say "i'd rather be with brad pitt" but I might think "why can't X throw me up against a wall like that?":blushing:

    you know?

    One of my favorite quotes is from the book High Fidelity. and because I love it so much, I'll go to great lengths to actually type the whole damn thing here
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
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    omg shannon...are we married to twins????? lol

    Could be...could be...(lol)

    Haven't felt threatened in years! :drinker:
  • Lisabeth
    Lisabeth Posts: 268
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    OK, you guys are killing me.... :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    but its not like guys "stand at attention" every time boobs show on the screen.
  • Lisabeth
    Lisabeth Posts: 268
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    Is this true Banks????
    of course men get aroused.... did you know the average man gets between 5-8 erections a day....:noway:

    I have always thought, well so what ...as long as they arent touching these women i dont care...
    j~
  • banks1850
    banks1850 Posts: 3,475 Member
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    Um, I don't count, but I guess it depends on the guy. I doubt it for me, not anymore, That number sounds low for when I was in my 20's though. :laugh:

    course it's tough to get aroused by a Data center full of servers.
  • kmatanzas
    kmatanzas Posts: 25
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    Alright , i will re answer OF COURSE IT MAKES HUSBANDS AROUSED..and yes he might even think about her that night but we are smart enough to know REALITY from DIVORCE papers (lol)... and you can't tell me i seen a post about what woman desire on men , what turns your head....all the answers are pretty much the same and i am willing to bet maybe %30 of those of the ladies who are married there husbands probably are average guys who don't have the total package like you woman were descibing....one last thing if it does get him excited even if he is getting aroused by naked woman, that like free viagra.....
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
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    I never said my hubbz has the total package.... he's a short, scrawny man but his smile won me over. Whoever knows me knows what my "type" is..... everyone was surprised when we started dating. It was just something about him that really caught my attention.... opposites do attract :wink:

    What can I say.. I'm a sucker for a nice smile.:bigsmile:

    ~Joanna:flowerforyou:
  • sgtinvincible
    sgtinvincible Posts: 2,559
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  • TwistedLiquid
    TwistedLiquid Posts: 28
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    Maybe not aroused, but it definately draws attention. like banks maybe my spouse or I may comment on it but it doesn't lead to anything. Most of the time we laugh about it or point out a nice set of boobs. I think most men wouldn't be aroused by some brief nudity, but if the chick was rubbing herself very sexually even with cloths on I think its more arousing than a naked chick. well... at least on my part. Theres nothing to be ashamed of when a little nudity pops onto the screen while watching a movie with your boyfriend the less attention you draw to it the less akword it will feel. Besides I think its all about the mood of the room while watching a movie that really heats things up.
  • commonsensefitness
    commonsensefitness Posts: 105 Member
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    Agree with Msarro, can't answer that. I dont have bunny pic but may be you gals need to visit Askmen.com more often to know about guys. TC

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