Breakups

RMuske
RMuske Posts: 271 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
Breakups are hard in general I think, I am one of those people who takes them pretty hard. I have trouble sleeping and no appetite. What do you do to get through the hard times that first week when nothing sounds good but laying in bed moping?

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  • Bethyann7793
    Bethyann7793 Posts: 22 Member
    This is probably not very good of me.
    But when I would go through a break up, or now if I have a serious fight with my husband, I go out and buy a few things lol.
    Like to fill the void. I dont like go crazy, but i just get a few things that i have been wanting. Like maybe a new outfit, or some new makeup, or even some new workout gear.
    It normally helps lol. And plus it gets you out of the house and helps you forget.
  • ket_the_jet
    ket_the_jet Posts: 1,257 Member
    I don't really have great advice as I find breaking up to be easy and--can I say this--kind of an endorphin rush.

    Really the best advice I can give you is that you're a human and your time on earth is limited. So laying in bed moping is a terrible way to waste the precious little time you have as a finite being.
    -wtk
  • DavetheHYNIC
    DavetheHYNIC Posts: 318 Member
    Go meet another chick in fact a couple of them to serve as a distraction to get your mind off the old chick.

    Oh I noticed your a lady, ummm go to the gym more? Yeah and do some reading
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    i write crappy break-up poetry.

    no lie

    I have whole blogs dedicated to break ups. They're ridiculous!
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    Well in my experience, my first and only breakup happened 9 months ago... It was hard but I got through it by running everyday. I lost around 25 pounds after my breakup... That's how managed to get through it.

    I think I staying busy and focusing on my happiness had helped me get through it. There were difficult times and even now after 9 months, I feel I still didn't deserve what I got but I'm happy now and thats all that matter
  • Tuffjourney
    Tuffjourney Posts: 971 Member
    Go meet another chick in fact a couple of them to serve as a distraction to get your mind off the old chick.

    Oh I noticed your a lady, ummm go to the gym more? Yeah and do some reading

    Chick? :huh:
  • thomassd1969
    thomassd1969 Posts: 564 Member
    Set small goals for yourself and achive them each day. It gives you a distraction and self worth. Chin up!
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    My husband has been the first guy I ever dated so I never been through it but if he upsets me I take a nice walk outside which normally helps. Don't think about what should've been, think about now and concentrate on you.
  • RMuske
    RMuske Posts: 271 Member
    I'm not in to chicks but thanks :) I struggle to work out because I struggle to eat enough for the energy I will require. But I will keep working on it. Thank you for the responses. They are helping.
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