how to get kids active?!

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  • seraphinaglitter
    seraphinaglitter Posts: 22 Member
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    Just a random suggestion, but my sister did this for her two and it worked: Hide (or sell on if money's tight) the game controller and replace it with wii fit or xbox kinect. They can get a lot of exercise out of certain games and they probably won't even realise. Plus ebay has wii packages especially on the cheap. Another technology based idea is the active DVDs (sing and dance along to favourite children's characters).

    Pedometres help too. Who can do the most steps in an hour? Who can get their's highest by tea time? :)

    As for outside games, if it's hot use a water game. Water pistols (cheaply picked up if not got already, I've got 3 for £3 before) to have a water fight with. Or head to the woods, it's much cooler there so Hide and Seek is an option, or an organised game of imaginary play (You're all little sheep and I'm a big lion coming to get you!). Most children when left to their own devices without being plugged into technology will start imaginary play themselves. If you can't do strenuous exercise due to heat then go for a walk and either hide clues or have landmarks on the way, so the children get points for spotting something. Have a star chart they can move forward in if they complete the task. Whoever does the most, moves furthest ahead in the star chart and gets a treat (choose the game for the day or something). I loved skipping, and it's something you can easily do with them. If you have enough space inside you can do it there too. If you wanted to stay in the garden, then treasure hunts are brilliant.

    Inside energetic games are a bit more limited, but simple party games go down well, musical bumps for example, or musical statues, dressing up and dancing and then everyone having to swop hats when the music stops (anyone left with their hat is out). As others have said, Duck Duck Goose is great, as is Simon Says (the kids I know love it if you link it to a favourite character eg. Fireman Sam, or themselves and they take it in turns after you) and Twister. Party Tapes (when I was little I had paddington bear which me and my sister put on and played to endlessly with just the two of us haha) are available, fun and something to stick on if you do need that quiet time. Hand-clapping games are good fun and they start learning the rhymes of by heart too (Hi Low Jack-a-lo is great and simple). Pirates and Ladies or other similar games are easy to play, lady has to hide from the Pirates and Pirates have sword-fight, and that can be done indoors so easily, just move anything breakable in case the sword-fighting gets a bit to energetic.

    I know you feed them healthily already but food ideas for snacks that are easy to replace higher calorie stuff with, and might be added to your list are:
    low-cal jelly (that's jello to Americans, not jam),
    sugar-free lollipops,
    Pie Filling (their favourite fruit with sweetener sprinkled on top and microwaved until mushy --> If apple, add a little cinnamon and it tastes like the McDonald's pies, works wonderfully as a dessert),
    Home-made Vanilla Milkshake (Skimmed Milk with vanilla essence and a tiny bit of sweetener if needed, all whisked up or frothed in a blender),
    Chocolate Strawberries/Fruit (Get a sachet/pot of the options 40 cal, put into small dish and add a tiny bit of water until it becomes a paste, they each get cut up fruit and get to dip it in chocolate, you can interchange the chocolate for fat-free yoghurt),
    Extra Light Philidelphia/Cottage Cheese with little veggie sticks to dip in,
    Popcorn (salted is the best, but if they want sweet add sweetener, can be a great treat for the evening and a film, story audiobook or book after all the activity),
    New kinds of fruit (I know it sounds obvious, but unusual fruit that they haven't tried before can be really exciting. One of my favourite childhood memories is the Greengrocer at the end of our road who used to give me a different fruit to try every few days, he was called Tony - he was great! Starfruit, passionfruit, different melons, coconut - all fab!)


    Mini Milk ice-lollies are surprising, if you want to give them a treat these are fab! They're only around 30 calories. Alternatively, buy/make lolly moulds (around £3) or use little pots, yoghurt pots or similar, and make out of juice, squash or skimmed milk with vanilla. It's so fun for them! If you don't have time to make them, stick fat-free yoghurt pots in the freezer instead.

    Really hope this helps, do keep us updated!
  • evertongirl
    evertongirl Posts: 120 Member
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    do they have bikes / scooters or even on foot - set out obstacle courses, let them have races, teach them to do somersaults and cartwheels, help them plant a herb garden, if its hot let them lay under the sprinkler - get a big piece of plastic, wet it and add a little detergent/soap mix and they run and slide along it.

    We are in australia where summer dys are regularly 40C plus, the kids still play outside all morning (until 10) and afternoon (after 3) - just make sure they have hats and sunscreen and drink water.

    encourage them to play schools and its sports day - mine love that.

    hula hoops and skipping ropes - cheap and kids love them.

    foam swords and toy guns - they will run around chasing each other to play pirates or cops and robbers until they drop.mine love playing spys and invent all kinds of devices to spy on each other

    encourage their imagination at that age - once they learn to play 'lets pretend' there is endless ways to entertain themselves.the internet has endless supplies of art and craft you can print off and do.



    Inside - cooking wiht them (healthy treats), again imaginary
  • castadiva
    castadiva Posts: 2,016 Member
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    Where are you that it's too hot to go out? It's not clear when you have them, but couldn't earlier-morning and later-afternoon activities be outside? Middle of the day might be too much, but with hats/sunscreen/plenty of water and high-water-content snacks (fruit/raw veg), there must be some time in the day you could get them outside? Walk to a park, take a ball/frisbee/hulahoops/skipping ropes etc. Is there a park nearby that has an adventure playground? Or, how about swimming? If you have a local pool, that'll keep everyone cool and thoroughly occupied in an active way!

    Inside, dancing and related games are often popular - you can make it competitive if that makes it more appealing to the older boys - statues, for example, (and there may be dance challenge games for playstation? That might be an easy compromise...) and the winner gets to choose their favourite fruit/vegetable for the next meal (offer only the things you have!)/pick an outing for later in the week. Building 'forts' in the sitting room/bedroom was always very active (and very popular) for us as well.
  • shadowkitty22
    shadowkitty22 Posts: 495 Member
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    Is there a local community center with free kid activities that you can look into? Buy a croquet set to use in your backyard once you move? Hula hoops, jump ropes, sidewalk chalk, lots of water bottles and sunscreen to keep them hydrated and protected for when they play outside (because otherwise I think you will go insane with having them inside all day). Movie time with homemade popcorn. Bubbles. WATER BALLOONS! Squirt guns. Tye dye t-shirts. Paper bag puppets. Make up a secret code for them to write letters to each other with all day (A=1, B=2, etc). Make cards for Mother's and Father's day. Flying kites. Library.
  • kr3851
    kr3851 Posts: 994 Member
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    I teach dance - and there are some indoor games that you can play that work on coordination and fitness.

    Sailors - clear a space and have all the kids stand in the middle. Then you call out 'directions' and each direction has an action that the kids have to do. Not being a sailor myself, I've probably got all the directions wrong, but my kids have fun!
    Port - run to the left.
    Starboard - run to the right.
    Climb the ropes - mime climbing ropes with arms and legs.
    Scrub the decks - get down on all fours and mime scrubbing.
    Captain's coming - stand to attention and salute.
    Ladies on board - hands on hips and strut around on your toes.
    Calling out the directions in random order makes them run all over the place and get up and down a lot. You get faster and faster and eventually everyone's running and falling and laughing and being ridiculous.

    Musical Statues - dance until the music stops, and then call out a statue which everyone holds for 5 seconds or so and then the music starts again. Statues we use all have a foundation in core strength, but you can make up your own. We use:
    Elephant - stand on one leg and lift the other knee, hooking the same arm underneath the knee to hold your nose. The lower leg becomes your 'trunk'. (this one teaches balance, but mostly is for the amusement of the grown-ups watching the kids try to grab their noses and falling over)
    Ballerina - stand on tip-toe with arms above your head (we make them suck their tummies and bottoms in and try to get as tall as they can)
    Superman - on your tummy, lift your legs and arms off the floor (arms in classic Superman flying pose) - strengthens back muscles
    Dish - on your back, arms by your side next to your legs, lift legs and shoulders off the ground while keeping as much of your back on the floor as possible - strengthens abs

    You can also set up a circuit and spend a minute at each station - push-ups at the couch, punches in the doorway (air punches, not punching the other kids!), star jumps/jumping jacks by the TV. After a couple of sessions, get the kids to pick their own exercises. See what they come up with.

    And if they insist on playing the playstation? Get dance games, workout games, movement games and for every 15 minutes of movement games they play, they are rewarded with 5 minutes of mindless play. You'll be surprised how hard they'll workout to earn half an hour of mindless game time - of course they play the mindless games when YOU decide, not the instant they earn them!

    And, as others have suggested, get them involved in food prep (mini pizzas, fruit kebabs, fried rice, sushi rolls, veggie plates) so they get excited about eating the healthy foods.
  • LilacDreamer
    LilacDreamer Posts: 1,365 Member
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    How were we active as children?

    I was always outside doing something...anything. I didnt sit at home all day staring at the TV and playing video games or surfing the internet like todays android-children.

    My cousin is 13 and I don't think he's gone outside to play since he was around 6 years old. seriously. his life revolves around his Xbox.

    The BEST thing a caregiver can do for a child, when it comes to activity is just get them up and outside participating in any sort of fun activities, whether its at your local community center, a festival of some sort, or just going to the park. Google is your friend, do searches to see if your town or city has any upcoming events planned. Do you have a beach near you? A lot of times beaches will host activities for children. How about the local library? I know for a fact many libraries host activites for children all summer.

    Even craigslist might have postings about different events, festivals, arts and crafts in the local park, nature walks, make it fun for them.
  • Girlwithnoname77
    Girlwithnoname77 Posts: 108 Member
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    I know you said outdoor activities should be limited, but I want to throw one out there in case you change your mind -- geocaching (http://www.geocaching.com/) -- "Geocaching is a real-world, outdoor treasure hunting game using GPS-enabled devices. Participants navigate to a specific set of GPS coordinates and then attempt to find the geocache (container) hidden at that location."

    It's tons of fun for adults and kids alike, and can get you moving and exploring outside. The only downside is that you need a smart phone, or a GPS.

    LOVE THIS IDEA for my own kids! Thanks for sharing!
  • Girlwithnoname77
    Girlwithnoname77 Posts: 108 Member
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    Get active with them. Take away the damn game console. Limit food options for the girl and offer her water instead.

    I wouldn't limit food options just for her. Offer healthy choices for them all. If she's singled out, it's going to hurt her feelings.

    Take them to the park? Do they have a pool somewhere near by? Or pets that they can walk? How about just an old fashioned walk?

    Or play hide and seek outside?

    ^^^ LIKE.

    For various craft ideas, google is an amazing reference book. I have leveraged some fantastic ideas from there.
    http://www.fisher-price.com/fp.aspx?st=110000&e=craftslanding is one, but there are sooooooo many.

    For the age group, there are learning to read websites such as starfall.com that is free and will easily and happily entertain WHILE educating the 5 and 7 year olds. Great wet weather or babysitter-needs-alone-time activity.

    Message me if you have trouble finding activities, I will send you more links.
  • Girlwithnoname77
    Girlwithnoname77 Posts: 108 Member
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    http://www.educational-freeware.com/news/easy-crafts.aspx is another site I just found via google.
  • CassieReannan
    CassieReannan Posts: 1,479 Member
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    Get active with them. Take away the damn game console. Limit food options for the girl and offer her water instead.

    You know, if you got a wii or a xbox kinect you can actually get kids to be active when playing it.
    Me and my nephew play wii sports all the time and were always using our arms.

    Other than that, we play "treasure hunts", go to the park, ride bikes and jump on the trampoline.
  • joankpoirier
    joankpoirier Posts: 281 Member
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  • premiumchilenita
    premiumchilenita Posts: 600 Member
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    I have a LONG song list, all the songs my kids like, and if you don't know what they like, put on what you like (be mindful of explicit songs and connotations of course) get them dancing. All kids love it, do it every day and then afterwards they will want to do it themselves, get them to copy you. I love dancing ridiculous to my kids and they have a good laugh, but they still follow my actions.

    Another one is action songs, I have some songs where I just sing and they do all the actions.

    Get them to act out like animals from one side of the room to the other, and keep picking different ones every time they reach the other side.

    Indoor obstacle course, active story telling, then the older kids can tell stories to the younger ones which will give you a bit of a breather.

    Cubby houses, kids love this and you could probably get them to play in it all day. have lunch in there and read stories and they make their own adventures too. so you can leave them a little while you're attending to other things.

    BUBLE BLOWING!! how awesome is this! you blow them they chase them! even the older ones will love this, I'm a grown up and still love this.

    Have fun :happy:
  • momof3and3
    momof3and3 Posts: 656 Member
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    You need a schedule!
    Do you have them all day or just after school...that will depend on what type of scehdule to use....
    If all day, stucture your day as if they were in school/daycare center...
    8am...free play...games, cards, color, etc...no tv
    9am...snack...have them make their own..yougurt "sundaes", carrots with dip,pretzels with peanutbutter and raisin faces, etc...
    10am...outside
    11am...do something educational
    lunch time
    1pm...organized play...board games, cards, puzzles, etc...
    2pm...quiet time...read or rest....hugs and cuddle time, too
    3pm...playstation for 1/2 hour only....
    4pm...playtime...dress up, act out a play, etc...
    5pm...snack and than home

    organize some of their play time, but other times let them go find something to do....if they say I am bored, tell them to go find something to do! By structuring playstation time and cuddle time you can pre-empt the whinning over it all...

    If you have them after school...have snack, free play, homework time, structured playtime, snack and home...

    Google some school programs to get ideas...
  • avafrisbee
    avafrisbee Posts: 234 Member
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    You baby sit at your place as I understood right?

    Get rid (or hide) the Playstation. When the boys ask to play or where it is or whatever, tell them it was your play station and you sold it.

    Then in the morning before it gets too hot go out side and play hokey-pokey, mother may I, red-light/green-light and have relay races. When it's too hot to play outside come in for a snack or lunch.

    Inside try dress up see if you can get friends to donate old bridesmaid dresses or prom dresses, old veils, any sort of high heels, costume jewelry, etc.

    Boys don't normally want to play dress up but if they do, great! Try thinks like legos, lincon logs, K'nex, etc. Got a punching bag? Or one of those bop clown things. Let them hit and kick that. Blow up balloons and play keep up (don't let the balloon touch the ground)

    As for the whining "I'm huuuungry" I'd simply make a rule that she must drink a full glass of water before she gets any food in between designated mean/snack times. If she's still hungry, offer her her least favorite vegetable. My mom did this to me and my brothers growing up. I learned unless I wanted water and peas, I didn't ask. If you are really hungry you'll eat even your least favorite vegetable.
  • jcpmoore
    jcpmoore Posts: 796 Member
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    I know it's hard to work with, but I've been there. I have two sons and a husband that doesn't care to move most of the time. Here's what I do.

    Leave the game console right where it is. Take away the remotes and hide THEM. Oh, and hide the TV remote, too. My kids spent some major energy trying to find them. lol If you want, even turn this into a scavenger hunt when they've earned time on the console. And that's the thing-make them earn the time by being active. We use a point system in our house. Certain behaviors earn points, certain amounts of points can be spent, at MY discretion, for game time or other privileges. You decide what the desirable behaviors are - being active, cleaning up an activity, etc. Take away points for undesirable behavior, such as whining, disobeying instructions, etc.

    For when they DO have game time, have an active game, like Just Dance or something, that they can all join in with and be active. A dance game really gets those age groups going. I find my kids even want to do yoga and workout videos with me. They love that stuff! All I have to do is start doing it and they are in line and doing it with me.

    Do outside activities every day that there is light outside! If it gets hot, then do it early in the morning before it's hot. They need sunlight and they need true running time. Give them a ball to play with or take them to a park. Have a water day and tell parents to bring water clothes for the kids. Have a water balloon game outside.

    For inside, don't discount dress up games, like avafrisbee mentioned. And YES boys LOVE dress up! They just prefer dressing up as ninjas, super heroes, and sheriffs and such. Read them a story and have them act it out afterward. My kids do this on their own without my prompting even, so I know kids love it. Have them plan a puppet show or something like that, too. Then you can even have them perform it for the parents one night.

    Hope that gives you some ideas.
  • callmeBAM
    callmeBAM Posts: 450 Member
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    Kids like structure and discipline (not like beating them, lol, but routine and expectations) even if it takes a while. Be the adult!

    Card games, board games, crafts, all better than watching the boob tube.
    Any parks nearby? Give them some water guns and they will run around shooting each other.
    Get some tennis rackets and balls.
    Go to an indoor mall and walk around on a hot day.
    Have them make dinner for their parents.
    Take them to an arcade (at least they will be standing up)
  • samf36
    samf36 Posts: 369 Member
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    I am also a licensed child care provider. There is no electronics ( tv, gamethings, computer) for children in my home. They will function just fine without them. Kids love to build with legos and block, do art projects, play board games and cards and play outside.
    I don't know where you live but you involved with your local childcare provider group , take some classes on childcare activity development and nutrition ect. There are many on-line childcare sites too.
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 910 Member
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    i take my kids to the park and make them walk at least a mile with me and then they get to play while i run.
    and in the words of my daughter "playing IS exercise mom" =)

    for the little tots you just put them in a stroller and away you go!! i had a double for the times when both were very small and i wanted to go distances.. its a great way for them to have fun and everybody to get exercise.

    i didn't read the other replies but here are more stuff that gets them out there

    the zoo
    create easter egg hunts around the yard or park (my kids lov this)
    go to the mall and walk around, then let them play in the kid area
    take a nature walk and find leaves and stuff and go home and identify what tree's the leaves came from online or thru books from the library (for the older kids)
    find museums around you and GO
    go to the library and do the kids story time every week - thats totally free and kids love it!
    look for your local paper that has kid events, they have them almost daily in my area
    do a charity walk, like the march of dimes and explain how you are helping kids in need

    you get the idea! there is so much stuff out there to do if you are a SAHM or sitter!! Start planning stuff daily for outside the house and you will find that you are hardly home outside of nap time!
  • emyishardcore
    emyishardcore Posts: 352 Member
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    Maybe hide and seek, and tag?
  • frankiesats
    frankiesats Posts: 114 Member
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    Make treasure hunts with clues, get the clues making them do star jumps, running up and down etc.

    Water games are great, water balloons etc. I used to love having 'water fights' when I was a kid!

    Teach them the old school games, tag, etc. Take them to the park, just climbing up and down slides is great for them! Swimming is also great.

    :)