Which one is more important.. Looks or Personality

Aleyonce
Aleyonce Posts: 43 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
Out of curiousity and i would like to get EVERYONE opinion on this.

Would you date a woman/ man who isnt so attractive but has a great personality?
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  • Chubbyhulagirl
    Chubbyhulagirl Posts: 374 Member
    Most definitely! Looks fade.
    I will say that if you dont have a way to show off your personality to the person youre interested in, you better look good or find another way to get their attention...
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    Absolutely! I don't get too hung up on people's looks. Personality is way more important to me.
  • Aleyonce
    Aleyonce Posts: 43 Member
    Most definitely! Looks fade.
    I will say that if you dont have a way to show off your personality to the person youre interested in, you better look good or find another way to get their attention...

    Thats true it can really go both ways depending on the situation. But i think its bs sometimes when someone says looks doesnt matter because at the end of the day you want to be attracted to your mate in everyway to keep it going or you maybe resentful or stray
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    I think both play a role, but the one thing that in my opinion helps gives a relationship a higher rate of success is compadible personalities. :)
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    Attractiveness is different for everyone, so someone I find hot may not be hot to the next person.

    I do put more emphasis on personality though, an extremely attractive person gets less attractive with a bad personality and an average looking guy can become irresistible with a great personality...
  • Marper8521
    Marper8521 Posts: 158 Member
    Hellzzzzzzzzzzz No!!
  • area55
    area55 Posts: 16
    Personality
  • Julielynn83
    Julielynn83 Posts: 162 Member
    Yes! Personality is everything! When I was younger maybe thought different :)
  • tabulator32
    tabulator32 Posts: 701 Member
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...as is personality, to a lesser degree.

    Attraction (of all kinds) is a fickle thing.

    :bigsmile:
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    Personality, I like someone who can make me laugh and I can have fun with, of course looks are important you need to be attracted to the person, but sometimes it's all about the personality.
  • ZugTheMegasaurus
    ZugTheMegasaurus Posts: 801 Member
    Thats true it can really go both ways depending on the situation. But i think its bs sometimes when someone says looks doesnt matter because at the end of the day you want to be attracted to your mate in everyway to keep it going or you maybe resentful or stray
    Looks matter, but the better the personality, the less important they become. I'd say looks are what draw you to a person initially, but the personality determines whether you'll stick around or not.
  • Aleyonce
    Aleyonce Posts: 43 Member
    Attractiveness is different for everyone, so someone I find hot may not be hot to the next person.

    I do put more emphasis on personality though, an extremely attractive person gets less attractive with a bad personality and an average looking guy can become irresistible with a great personality...

    You are so right with that.
  • paulaGetshealthy
    paulaGetshealthy Posts: 464
    Looks are far more important. Personality doesn't matter. Definitely looks.

    -_-
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Personality 100%. I didn't find my boyfriend that attractive when I started dating him but our personalities just clicked. I'm glad I tried it out because the physical attraction definitely came later. He's much more romantic than guys in the past, maybe because he doesn't have the ego that comes from great looks??
  • Aleyonce
    Aleyonce Posts: 43 Member
    Personality, I like someone who can make me laugh and I can have fun with, of course looks are important you need to be attracted to the person, but sometimes it's all about the personality.

    Agreed,
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    Nope.
  • Aleyonce
    Aleyonce Posts: 43 Member
    I ask this question because recently this guy wanted to date me but i just could not find a way to be attracted to him physically. He had a nice personality but look wise, i couldnt even say he was cute. Im not saying im the best thing since slice bread but geeez. I felt bad about it :(
  • adrian_indy
    adrian_indy Posts: 1,444 Member
    Neither. I base all relationships on astrological signs and sexual talent.
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    Looks are more important, at first. If the personality isn't there though the looks get ugly real quick. On the other hand, once you get to know a personality it could greatly improve the looks. So they are both equally important, but honestly looks are always what grabs attention first.
  • taryn_09
    taryn_09 Posts: 196 Member
    id say overall personality matters most, i think as humans initially we use looks at first to decide if we want to go talk to someone. there has to be an attraction to the person in my opinion.then if you're attracted you go & see what they're all about. if though i find you good looking but there's no personality to back it up doesnt last for me. looks only get you so far, & plus they arent forever id rather have someone who makes me laugh & can hold conversation.
  • love22step
    love22step Posts: 1,103 Member
    Personality trumps looks for me. I learned to shy away from good-looking guys in my dating years. I probably overlooked some perfectly nice guys just because they were too handsome, but I had some bad experiences, and I'm happy with my final results.
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
    I think both play a role, but the one thing that in my opinion helps gives a relationship a higher rate of success is compadible personalities. :)

    Gonna agree with this. Both have their places and the moments where they are more important than the other but at the end of the day if you both (or you several for those who do the polygamy thing) get along and can appreciate or overlook odd quirks/faults then that's about what matters. Because really they could have the nicest personality on earth or could be God's gift to humanity as far as looks but if your own personality can't mesh with them then it doesn't matter because you'd have walked away.
  • Aleyonce
    Aleyonce Posts: 43 Member
    Neither. I base all relationships on astrological signs and sexual talent.

    Lol you are funny. I saw your post about handsome and you made me laugh. I have to agree with the astrology aspect of it. I do believe it to an extent.
  • catcufflings
    catcufflings Posts: 41
    well usually someone catches my eye because they are good looking, though sometimes good looks doesn't mean a great personality.

    For me it's a bit of both.
  • clobercow
    clobercow Posts: 337 Member
    Someone who takes pride and cares about themselves and taking care of themselves is personality. Looks are a natural side effect of that.
  • Pedro_Infante
    Pedro_Infante Posts: 116 Member
    Personality.

    Pretty can get pretty ugly real quick.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    I ask this question because recently this guy wanted to date me but i just could not find a way to be attracted to him physically. He had a nice personality but look wise, i couldnt even say he was cute. Im not saying im the best thing since slice bread but geeez. I felt bad about it :(

    Don't feel bad. He wasn't your cup of tea. It doesn't matter if he was nice, younhave to be some what attracted to someone. If you're to then you're living a lie and feelings will be hurt in the end. Better to just be honest up front.
  • PunkyRachel
    PunkyRachel Posts: 1,959 Member
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBiJAxgZFFI
  • Alma_Sana
    Alma_Sana Posts: 453 Member
    Personality and sense of humor. Looks can be distorted, if your a jerk you start to look less attractive and if you're cool and have a great personality any perceived flaws disappear. That is why there is a thing called chemistry :)
  • PoeRaven
    PoeRaven Posts: 433 Member
    Absolutely.
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