What is a TURN-ON for you (male and female)

Mirabilis
Mirabilis Posts: 312 Member
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In no particular order, because they're all very important:

Compatible pheromones

Smart enough to keep me interested (nothing sucks as much as exhausting all conversation in 15 mins)

Considerate (including prepared to offer and accept apologies if appropriate)

Non-smoker (this is a deal breaker for any ex-smoker)

Wants to share your interests and you to share theirs (really understands what the word "partner" means)


Feh, I should be on Oprah.
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  • scapez
    scapez Posts: 2,018 Member
    The way he kisses me. :love:
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,345 Member
    Ooohhh you gotta def smell good.
    Non-Smoker.
    Fit and healthy.
    Tall
    Nice teeth
    Pretty eyes
    Confidence
    Humor.
    Honest
    Dependable.
    Job
    Goals
    Tattoos are my biggest turn on.

    Maaannn this list can go on forever. Lol.
  • UticaBoy51
    UticaBoy51 Posts: 344 Member
    Shapely and confident.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    Nice teeth/lips
    Tall
    Confident
    Brown eyes
    a nice cologne...


    I could go on for hours
  • EpiGaiaRepens
    EpiGaiaRepens Posts: 824 Member
    intelligent. i'm always checking out the person with their nose in a book.
    bikes. I dunno bikes are hawt.
    multi-lingual. accents and other languages are so interesting to me.
    politicall progressive (you know, not homophobic/racist/sexist)
    critical thinking skills are super sexy!
    happiness and fun loving (you know, smart but not gloomy)
    works with their hands (mehcanics are hawt!)
    an attitude of gratitude (especially if for the littlest thing or the things often taken for granted, like the beauty of the stars)....
    honesty
    a sense of dignity

    <3<3<3
  • andreacord
    andreacord Posts: 928
    -Guys that smell really good
    -Healthy and makes an effort to take care of themselves, if I'm looking good for him it better be the same for him!
    -pretty eyes
    -nice smile
    -funny/sarcastic
    -goals in life
    -can hold a good conversation
    - good kisser

    and I'm a sucker for cute guys that can pull off an eyebrow or lip ring well. Sexy. :blushing:

    Yeah I kind of have a long list but I'll find someone like that someday. :smile:
  • JoyceJoanne
    JoyceJoanne Posts: 760 Member
    *sigh* Just thinking about my man....

    His brown eyes,
    the way he smiles at me,
    his arms,
    the way his mind thinks,
    the things he tells me,
    the way he makes me tingle inside....
  • EpiGaiaRepens
    EpiGaiaRepens Posts: 824 Member
    wow. i totally didn't even think about body type.

    if it's got the brain, the body don't really matter to me. huh. funny. Wish i felt that way about myself!
  • taradickison
    taradickison Posts: 2 Member
    Watching my hubby do push-ups...
  • hollyeverhart
    hollyeverhart Posts: 397 Member
    Men: Nice hands/nice forearms. The V, tattoo's, thin but toned body, well taken care of facial/body hair. Cute bubble butts, I hate when guys have flat butts lol. Lastly & most important FUNNY, caring, loving, good person, reliable. Has to be able to goof around, can't be to serious. Lucky for me my husband has all those traits! :)

    Women: Pretty fair/pale skin, nice eyebrows, awesome creative hair/makeup, flat stomach, hourglass shape, super high heels! exotic looking girls, Funny, good personality, cool style, unique, has to stand out in a crowd, tattoo's/piercings I don't really find girls that blend in all that attractive.. That's just me though! Everybody likes something different c:

    Edit: Men- How could I forget!!! They have to smell GREAT!!! No cheap axe body spray either lol
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
    Women who randomly put words in all-caps.
  • SirBen81
    SirBen81 Posts: 396 Member
    nunchuk skills and computer hacking skills.
  • Jaidee1979
    Jaidee1979 Posts: 61 Member
    Intelligent
    Pretty eyes
    Small ears (Don't ask! Hahaha...)
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Nice teeth/lips
    Tall
    Confident
    Brown eyes
    a nice cologne...


    I could go on for hours

    Go ahead, I fit all of the above so far. ;)
  • Jade17694
    Jade17694 Posts: 584 Member
    Nice aftershave and big hands :bigsmile:
  • AnnaVegngal86
    AnnaVegngal86 Posts: 23
    Men-slim but toned, tattoos/piercings are nice, (usually..i mean, i don't typically judge people based on their body type. personality is KEY with me, not a lump in the mud..sense of humor, taste in music and lifestyle kinda matters, again not always as much, uhm, i prefer a man who knows his limits, be it liquor, smokes, or drug, luckily my husband is a recovering addict like myself..and does not wish to go back to that lifestyle. I would LOVE him to be vegetarian, but it won't happen. honest, caring, concerned about issues if need be..
    I'm really not picky i guess.

    haha

    Women-I like slim but toned as well (again, not always, i have dated curvy hilarious ladies as well) tattoos are a plus, tasteful is a plus, sense of humor, caretaker is a plus, able to talk to me about anything, honest, caring, kinda goes the same with men i guess.

    ;)
    <3
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    Physical?
    Butt - one with enough shape that I can actually grab it
    Big hands (especially if they have a few callouses)
    Dimples and/or butt chin
    Chest hair

    Personality?
    Sarcastic (but not mean-spirited) sense of humor
  • Snow__White
    Snow__White Posts: 1,650 Member
    Money
  • themommie
    themommie Posts: 5,033 Member
    good kisser
    sense of humor
    smile and a twinkle in their eye
    smells good
  • RaeLB
    RaeLB Posts: 1,216 Member
    (my short list)
    self-confidence
    assertiveness
    good sense of humour
    compassion
    honesty
    passionate about helping others
    politically engaged
    & a nice smile
  • 1shauna1
    1shauna1 Posts: 993 Member
    Anyone with a great smile; they're instantly more attractive! Women - who are well kept (I'm not talking designer clothes, etc but keeping yourself neat, etc. At least try!). Men.....well there are sooo many things! :love:
  • sisierra
    sisierra Posts: 659 Member
    Aggression
    TATTOOS!!
    glasses
    long hair
    a fine physical form/ shows of physical prowess
    large hands and long fingers
  • Skinny_Jeans_Soon
    Skinny_Jeans_Soon Posts: 326 Member
    The biggest turn on for me is a man that loves God. Some others are
    Kindness
    Sense of Humor
    Spontaneous
    Respectful
    Great with kids

    As far as physical, I am not that picky as long as they can keep up with my active lifestyle and enjoy the same outdoor activities that I do!
  • xonicolette
    xonicolette Posts: 151 Member
    When my fiance actually wakes up instead of myself to tend to our baby crying in the middle of the night & tells me "no, its ok, you go back to bed baby. I'll go get him." :)

    Idk why but it does! haha
  • ElizaRoche
    ElizaRoche Posts: 2,005 Member
    -UNIFORMS!!! (military or police)
    -smells good (deodorant or lotion, not just the soap he uses when he showers)
    -blue eyes
    -sarcasm
    -good sense of humor
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    Intelligence, confidence and humor.
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    nice back and butt, pretty eyes, smile. kindness. someone who can handle me.
  • Jennyisbusy
    Jennyisbusy Posts: 1,294 Member
    I like when the LMFAO guy does the wiggle wiggle part of his song.
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    nunchuk skills and computer hacking skills.
    But can you draw a liger?
  • Yes2HealthyAriel
    Yes2HealthyAriel Posts: 453 Member
    Tall around 6 feet or taller (then again pretty much everyone is taller than me seeing as I am only 5'1")
    sexy laugh
    low voice
    bare chest (no hairy chests)
    pays me compliments and flirts

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