What is a TURN-ON for you (male and female)

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  • suziblues2000
    suziblues2000 Posts: 515 Member
    In no particular order, because they're all very important:

    Compatible pheromones

    Smart enough to keep me interested (nothing sucks as much as exhausting all conversation in 15 mins)

    Considerate (including prepared to offer and accept apologies if appropriate)

    Non-smoker (this is a deal breaker for any ex-smoker)

    Wants to share your interests and you to share theirs (really understands what the word "partner" means)


    Feh, I should be on Oprah.

    Pretty good list! But what do you mean by "Non-smoker (this is a deal breaker for any ex-smoker)??
    I am an ex-smoker, but I could put up with a smoker (probably)
    Or does this mean it is a deal breaker for only YOU? Even a non smoker would be out?
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,064 Member
    Congrats I'm Gay now-Ty after the flower pic
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,064 Member
    1. Tattoos
    2. Huge Biceps
    3. Sarcasm
    4. Confidence
    5.Nice Teeth
    6. Non-Hairy (as in shave your chest bush)
    7. An awesome sense of humor
    8. CHEMISTRY--- probably the most important of all
    9. A great flirt
    I must be your soul mate-Ty
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    confidence, killer smile, great kisser, smart, good sense of humour
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    black hair , nice black eyes that the black is slightly bigger (little bit like my avatar)? nice booty that is round but firm. Likes to have fun and not be serious all the time and goof off. Must not like partying all the time since i'm not into it. Must like outdoortsy activites and not be afraid to break a nail. If she's hispanic or with hispanic roots better :)
    Has to be shorter than 5'9" cause i'm not that tall :\
  • thamre
    thamre Posts: 629 Member
    big feet
    *raises eyebrow* um 9.5?

    sorry - kinda looking for 12 or 13 :tongue:
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    I know exactly what turns me on...and instantly:

    When a woman with long hair flips her hair to one side of her body and in front of the shoulder, exposing the neck. GRRRRR! That is my #1 stop me in my tracks and daydream turn-on.
  • GrnEydGrl86
    GrnEydGrl86 Posts: 154
    The words giant vagina just make me friggin laugh
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    THIS!
  • suziblues2000
    suziblues2000 Posts: 515 Member
    Loves music, if he can sing (good) or play an instrument: extra points;
    Good sense of humor (makes me laugh);
    Same morals about life as me;
    Smarter than me;
    Earns a good living;
    Is basically happy.
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,064 Member
    big feet
    *raises eyebrow* um 9.5?

    sorry - kinda looking for 12 or 13 :tongue:
    mybad *hangs head* I understand-TyTy
  • rammsteinsoldier
    rammsteinsoldier Posts: 1,552 Member
    Accent
    tattoo
    great smile
    Musical
    Funny
  • colofitguyfm
    colofitguyfm Posts: 63 Member
    Eyes
    Smile
    Brain

    If I'm not attracted to her based on that, then the rest is irrelevant.
  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    The words giant vagina just make me friggin laugh

    THIS!
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    Say it outloud 3x, beetlejuice shows up
  • EchoOfYourPast
    EchoOfYourPast Posts: 459 Member
    When i am doing dishes or cooking and he kisses my neck.
    When he is absorbed in a project and takes a break to sit down....i jump in his lap and he holds me.
    When taking a long car ride, he touches my hair when i lay on his lap.
    When he works overnight and wakes me in the morning by rubbing my back.
    When he hits the pause button on a movie so he can spend time with me.
    When we are getting ready to go out somewhere and he says i look so good we end up late and i have to start over getting ready.
    Movie days when we don't bother to get dressed.
    Getting texts that say i love you.
    When he asks his daily question -"Have i told you that i love you today."
    When we are out to dinner and he says ' I can't wait to get you home."
    When he sings with his music and pulls me in close to dance.

    I could go on and on forever....it's been a very happy 24 1/2 years !
    San :)
  • Jennyisbusy
    Jennyisbusy Posts: 1,294 Member
    A well dressed person can really get me going too:
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  • Jennyisbusy
    Jennyisbusy Posts: 1,294 Member

    Like+a+hotdog+down+a+hallway.gif

    Do you have a oyster in a coin slot gif too?
  • Faintgreeneyes
    Faintgreeneyes Posts: 729 Member
    On a guy:

    *Green or Blue Eyes
    * Smells good
    * Nice smile
    * Sense of humor
    * 5 o'clock shadow/scruff
    * Nice arms, torso, legs
    * Tall
    * Music Lover
    * Little rough around the edges, but really a softy on the inside
    *Tattoos are a bonus :)
  • mississippi_queen
    mississippi_queen Posts: 474 Member
    1. Tattoos
    2. Huge Biceps
    3. Sarcasm
    4. Confidence
    5.Nice Teeth
    6. Non-Hairy (as in shave your chest bush)
    7. An awesome sense of humor
    8. CHEMISTRY--- probably the most important of all
    9. A great flirt
    I must be your soul mate-Ty

    Undoubtly so Ty :love:
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    I like women who dont have giant vaginas
    Like+a+hotdog+down+a+hallway.gif


    SNORT!
    I like the ones that just aren't this.....^^^^^ \m/
  • Bluescat1
    Bluescat1 Posts: 207 Member
    Eyes
    Soft kisses
    Whispers
    Lips
    Hips
    Chill bumps
    Just to name a few
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
    I like a girl who isn't afraid to get dirty.
    I am talking about the kind of woman who will go to the junkyard with you and lay down in the mud and muck to help pull a transmission off of a 1995 F150 and then two hours later put on that perfect little sundress and sandles for a nice dinner on the beach.
  • Bermudabarbie
    Bermudabarbie Posts: 568 Member
    Nice, low-key vibe.
    Listens.
    Talks.
    Healthy and fit.
    Cooks.
    Sense of humor.
    Great hair.
  • sjeagle30
    sjeagle30 Posts: 292 Member
    Everything my boyfriend does :) The way he looks at me, the way he helps around the house, the way he loves my kids as his own, watching him do the things that he loves and is passionate about(hunting, fishing, etc).... I could go on and on.
  • KennySeubert
    KennySeubert Posts: 17
    Wow, tattoos are really a turn on?? Personally tattoos turn me off. The human body is beautiful enough without them and some of them are not very attractive.

    My Turn ons:
    Eyes (Big Brown eyes are the best)
    Lips
    Face
    Chest
    Butt
    Good Mind
    Good Spirit
    Good Heart
    Love
    Faith
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    Intense face petting.
  • courtcourtfnp
    courtcourtfnp Posts: 134 Member
    -Eyes, I'm a sucker for some pretty eyes.
    -Dark hair
    -sense of humor (sarcastic/funny)
    -not afraid to get dirty...can work on cars, do other stuff outside
    -smells good


    My list could go on & on
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,064 Member
    1. Tattoos
    2. Huge Biceps
    3. Sarcasm
    4. Confidence
    5.Nice Teeth
    6. Non-Hairy (as in shave your chest bush)
    7. An awesome sense of humor
    8. CHEMISTRY--- probably the most important of all
    9. A great flirt
    I must be your soul mate-Ty

    Undoubtly so Ty :love:
    CALLME
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    When a lady initiates....even if it's just to hold your hand.
    When she gives you a look and you see in her eyes she loves you!

    Bottom line women rock!! \m/ :bigsmile:
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    open minded
    kissing my neck
    strong
    confidence
  • hcoburn37
    hcoburn37 Posts: 442 Member
    big feet
    *raises eyebrow* um 9.5?

    thats not that big Ty
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