Fat BEECH
deniseearheart
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Why is it that any confrontation I have that is the first they they call me.... Waitressing had an unhappy customer whats she call me a fat ***** .... One day got out of car and this lady had her truck parked on the line and was technically to close. My door opens doesn't ding hard or leave any marks or anything but just touches her truck and she freaks out swearing at me and called me a fat *****... No longer friends with a gal I know and she drunk text me last night calling me alllll sorts of names one being "fat *****"
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Honestly, many people are just too stupid to come up with anything better.0
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Consider the source and move on.0
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Honestly, many people are just too stupid to come up with anything better.
Ya true and they are just mean... I would not ever call anyone any type of name if I were mad at them or not.. I don't know what to say back when they do say things to me.. I am not quick with a comeback LOL0 -
i heard this on a show once called Starting over
Babe In Total Control of Herself :drinker:
other wise its a female dog . .and i don;t think your a dog .. if you think of it in them terms then it doesn't sting so bad ( but it takes a while to get used to the new definition)0 -
That sucks. Hurt people, hurt people. That's all there is to it. People, even as adults, tend to bully those they assume are weaker than themselves in some way. I bet that reaction would have been completely different if I had "dinged" that door. In either case, you seem to have handled it well by simply going about your business. Don't lie with barking dogs if you don't have to.0
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Some people just can't control their anger. Or they take it out on someone who doesn't deserve it. Just be the better person and walk away don't feed into it and it will leave them feeling stupid.0
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It's the easiest, meanest, and quickest insult.0
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people can be quite cruel and unimaginative when trying to hurt others. sorry this happened to you0
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I usually come back with something good or just bark at them. Usually scares people enough to stop whatever they are doing.0
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I guess because I am chubby it is the easiest quickest insult .....0
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i heard this on a show once called Starting over
Babe In Total Control of Herself :drinker:
other wise its a female dog . .and i don;t think your a dog .. if you think of it in them terms then it doesn't sting so bad ( but it takes a while to get used to the new definition)
ya that is a good way to see it0 -
That sucks. Hurt people, hurt people. That's all there is to it. People, even as adults, tend to bully those they assume are weaker than themselves in some way. I bet that reaction would have been completely different if I had "dinged" that door. In either case, you seem to have handled it well by simply going about your business. Don't lie with barking dogs if you don't have to.
Ya you are right... Just sorta hurtful. Sometimes it is a weight loss motivator LOL0 -
that's all they got. i'd take it as a compliment that they pick the easiest thing and go for that because they cant find anything else.
and people like that i usually demolish verbally. they might only have 1 or 2 things for me but i can guarantee you i have at least 10-15 for them :laugh:0 -
At least when you hit your goal they will have to think a little harder about what they say :P0
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weight comments are so hurtful, I think that's why rude people are so quick to use them. One way to respond would be "i can change my weight, can you change your personality (or being an a**hole)?" or something similar.0
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After having my second child I ran into a girl I hadn't seen since I was a teen (and of course I had a decent figure back then). The first thing she says is "Emily! You got fat!" Like really? And she totally didn't even seem to think it was an unacceptable greeting either. I'd rather take it as an insult knowing they're going to say something mean and just choose fat cause it's easy, then to have it happen in the situation I did.0
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I had a jealous friend of a previous boyfriend ask him what it was like dating a fat girl.
That was pleasant.
People just use it because it's easy, and they'll get in less trouble for saying "i don't like you because you're fat" than something deemed more extreme, ie. "i don't like you because you're black/white/hispanic/jewish/native/gay/lesbian/catholic/what have you". Fat is still "acceptable" vocabulary, unfortunately.
Plus, people know it hurts. Easy way to cut deep.
Sorry you have to put up with it.
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for me I just laugh in their face ask is that the best you can do not to bright are you and then I go and lose another pound in their honor so I am not a fat bast**d anymore0
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I'd rather be a fat b!tch than a stupid one... (which is my personal favorite insult of all time)
My mom has always told me, "Don't worry, sweetie, you'll get skinny, but they'll always be a C U Next Tuesday." ... not necessarily the most healthy mindset, but it's gotten me through some tough times.0 -
<---likes fat beeeetches.....lol.....as long as their cute....lol...0
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mannn id give anything to be called that iam half japanese lolll i always get the cough cough short end of the insults lol0
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People search for the cruelest thing they can say to someone to push their buttons. That is one of the most hurtful things you can tell a female...even when she isn't fat...or a beeotch.0
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as a kid i was once called fatty boombalati... I think i'd prefer fat beech:P People are cruel. Just thank them for their "kind" words and move on.0
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This was said to me, by a man 16 years older than me, no less, when he was mad at my fiance... Very mature, but I laugh every time I think about it and plan on posting something on his facebook when I become thin. Take that! Lol0
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Some 11 y/o kid walked past me once and called me Fatty, so I called him up on it and said it that was the best he can come up with he's going to be in so much *kitten* when he starts secondary school
He then apologised.0 -
im so sorry. people can be so mean, but its insecurities about themselves. why would they want to make someone else feel like crap if they were happy? they just want someone else to feel as miserable as them.
hold your chin up. breathe. we can lose pounds but they'll be stuck with their personalities for life. karma gets to us all!0 -
Fight mean with mean
Say: "*kitten* you, you dumbass broke down 2 cent hoe! B*tch I got more swag than you! And *kitten* your car b*tch you got a problem with me come say to my f*ckin face I'll *kitten* your world up in a f*cking heart beat! Do it b*tch this fat b*tch will make you wish not to *kitten* me anymore! Get at me b*tch GET AT ME!"
and...thats....when you turn on your HRM and start ripping weave and burning calories and then you can log it in as "Whoopin some broke tricks *kitten*!"0 -
Fight mean with mean
Say: "*kitten* you, you dumbass broke down 2 cent hoe! B*tch I got more swag than you! And *kitten* your car b*tch you got a problem with me come say to my f*ckin face I'll *kitten* your world up in a f*cking heart beat! Do it b*tch this fat b*tch will make you wish not to *kitten* me anymore! Get at me b*tch GET AT ME!"
and...thats....when you turn on your HRM and start ripping weave and burning calories and then you can log it in as "Whoopin some broke tricks *kitten*!"
:laugh:
people mistakenly assume all overweight people are nice and they can say whatever they want. i like disappointing them
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At least when you hit your goal they will have to think a little harder about what they say :P
Skinny B***h?0 -
When people are assh*&%s I like to pick up the nearest heavy object and throw it directly at their heads.0
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