Any other naturals here?

Dragonnade · May 2012

I went blonde briefly - and it was awesome for reassuring me that actually, being ginger was better!

Profile pic is hair now. Long enough that it curls properly and I am entirely in love with it! Wide tooth comb when wet and then run away and it does that - I'm happy!

plusdivanva · May 2012

I have been natural for almost 11 years and wearing locs for almost 10 years. I have trimmed them twice in that 10 years. I'm actually planning on cutting them once I hit the 50 lb weight loss!!! 20 lbs to go but will continue to be natural. Letting some new growth come in now so I don't have to chop it all off. Looking forward to trying some twist outs!!

dad106 · May 2012

I've been dying my hair blond w/highlights since I was 16.. I'm 23 now and have no intention of stopping. Naturally my hair is brown, and I think it looks ugly on me... hence the dye job!

I also have really curly hair that I straighten if I have the time.. but for the most part, I wear it curly and rinse in-between washes.

Seeing as you have curly hair, I would advise using a sulfate free shampoo and co-washing. Also, instead of combing or brushing, detangle your hair wet, saturated in conditioner and GENTLY. Do you let it air dry?

I use Colorese Moisturizing Shampoo and Conditioner.. Can be found at Sallys, and is the equivalent of pureology, without the outrageous price.

I detangle mine in the shower with conditioner and again when I'm out of the shower..both with a wide tooth comb. I then don't brush until before my next shower. I also put mouse in and let air dry.. unless I'm straightening it.. then it's blowdry and flat iron with a round brush thrown in.

Stephanie198907 · May 2012

I've been natural going on 5 years. My goal is tailbone length when straight then I will cut to waist length and maintain. My texture is 4a/4b and my longest layer is mbl and my shortest is just above apl.
All our hair wants is a good diet and moisture/protein balance. Your hair is gorgeous! Hope you reach your hair goal.

LovesGG · May 2012

I'm like 85% natural because I still have some relaxed ends that I'm impatiently waiting to cut off very soon. I've been transitioning for a year (in 5 days).

ShyGirl89 · May 2012

I've been natural for 8 months now. I've never had my hair dyed before. I thought about it, because I always wanted crazy colors in my hair, but I decided against it XD

Squeezalsize10 · May 2012

Never dyed my hair..... i like my hair color golden brown. Although i have 2 strands of grey hair...mmm too early to start dye?

Emancipated_Tai · May 2012

I've been natural 7 years and love the versatility of wet to straight. I originally started by just cutting out the process little by little, then in 2009 I did the “Big Chop”. It’s grown back nicely, with a few other scissors to hair experiments, but it is currently at the top of my bra strap straight, and to my shoulders wet.

I suggest EVOO treatments and lots of conditioner! I live in Florida, so it’s not the best climate for natural hair, but I manage.

ARDuBaie · May 2012

I've been leaving my gray grow out and love it!

Why?

Because, I am a nurse and I have taken care of too many women, and a few men, who have had cancerous growths removed from their scalps. The one thing that they all have in common is that they colored their hair.

Additionally, I am on an 'authenticity' path and could not justly say I was being authentic when my hair was colored. I don't wear make-up either.

So I am all natural and I love every moment of not having to worry about hair, make-up and all that other stuff.

SithZombie · May 2012

I only recently started dying my mousy brown hair to different colors...first red, and then black...I've noticed that my root growth is lighter than my original shade! Oh no!!! Now I want to have the color stripped and let everything grow out...Thinking about having the mane thinned and layered, but my husband would pitch a fit if I put scissors to my hair again!

Lib_B · May 2012

I would LOVE to hear tips on caring for curls. I have a daughter - age 5 1/2 who is a curly blond. she already asks me to straighten it and as someone with crazy wavy hair (i'm a 2A) who would kill for those curls (she's between a 2c & 3a but more 3a). Back in the day, when her dad had hair, he had a 3B. at any rate, i want her to embrace them. (i would insert a pic, but i haven't figured that out yet).

thus far, i've stopped washing it every day, but we do condition every night in the shower. if we style it, we put 'biosilk' in it. it's so dry and coarse and it seems like when we do get enough product in to soften it, it weighs her curls down.

we've used aveda and other such products in the past, but if i can't justify the cost for me, i sure as heck am not buying it for my 5 year old. would love some advice. and if you could message me, that would be even better to make sure i see it. thanks!!!!

Lib_B · May 2012

I would LOVE to hear tips on caring for curls. I have a daughter - age 5 1/2 who is a curly blond. she already asks me to straighten it and as someone with crazy wavy hair (i'm a 2A) who would kill for those curls (she's between a 2c & 3a but more 3a). Back in the day, when her dad had hair, he had a 3B. at any rate, i want her to embrace them. (i would insert a pic, but i haven't figured that out yet).

thus far, i've stopped washing it every day, but we do condition every night in the shower. if we style it, we put 'biosilk' in it. it's so dry and coarse and it seems like when we do get enough product in to soften it, it weighs her curls down.

we've used aveda and other such products in the past, but if i can't justify the cost for me, i sure as heck am not buying it for my 5 year old. would love some advice. and if you could message me, that would be even better to make sure i see it. thanks!!!!

also, i should note we braid at night to prevent breakage and she sleeps on a silk pillowcase.

jenniet04 · May 2012

I actually tried to go natural last year for a couple months and totally hated it!! First I will not go without dying it because otherwise I would be totally grey (damn genetics!). Second, my hair is very fine but curly and frizzy. I was still not able to go a single day without washing and it was impossible to comb and it didn't help the curl or the frizziness at all.

mfpcopine · May 2012

I would LOVE to hear tips on caring for curls. I have a daughter - age 5 1/2 who is a curly blond. she already asks me to straighten it and as someone with crazy wavy hair (i'm a 2A) who would kill for those curls (she's between a 2c & 3a but more 3a). Back in the day, when her dad had hair, he had a 3B. at any rate, i want her to embrace them. (i would insert a pic, but i haven't figured that out yet).

thus far, i've stopped washing it every day, but we do condition every night in the shower. if we style it, we put 'biosilk' in it. it's so dry and coarse and it seems like when we do get enough product in to soften it, it weighs her curls down.

we've used aveda and other such products in the past, but if i can't justify the cost for me, i sure as heck am not buying it for my 5 year old. would love some advice. and if you could message me, that would be even better to make sure i see it. thanks!!!!

Curly Girl: The Handbook by Massey is excellent. It has a section on children's hair and comes with a DVD. www.naturallycurly.com is a helpful site. I get better results with good products, but Naturally Curly features active discussions of products at all price ranges. I like Devacurl and Wen best.

Comb her hair with your fingers.

bethgames · May 2012

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This is natural. Exactly the way mom made me. Never colored or permed or anything.....as I start to go gray (45 sucks!) I just call them natural highlights. :grumble:

jcstanton · May 2012

Never colored my hair in my life. Did have a few perms in middle school and high school, but haven't done that in years. I don't think my hair could take that kind of abuse now. It's very fine and fragile due to hypothyroidism and PCOS. I'm hoping it will thicken back up a little now that I have been medicated for both problems and am I'm now eating much more nutrient dense foods.

jmelyan23 · May 2012

I have never dyed my hair, and probably never will. I'm pretty happy with the color it is now and in the summer it gets enough natural highlights to make a difference. As for straightening/curling, my hair has always been SUPER straight so I hardly ever straighten it (only to make it sleeker) and if I want to curl it I have to use a really high heat and a lot of hairspray, so I hardly ever do that. I do braid my hair after the shower and keep it in overnight to get the wavy look, but that's about it these days.

babymaddux · May 2012

i have what i call 'white english' corkskrew curls. looser than yours but a lot more curly than most. i gave up fighting it when i was in my early 20s i guess. i never brush it, just wash it every morning (can't tame it enough to leave the house otherwise) and use a small amount of curl cream or similar to beat the frizz.
i'm a type 3, but can't remember if it was a or b. and i do dye mine...

qnz234 · May 2012

yes yes, naturalista here! love ur curls!

amosjo · May 2012

I am a natural redhead and have never dyed my hair. I love the color and I intend to keep it until nature turns it gray. I'm 35 and have yet to find a gray hair so I'm crossing my fingers! I haven't decided yet whether I'll dye my hair once it starts to gray, but at the moment I'm leaning towards "no."

My hair is naturally wavy (in my profile pic it's been straightened), and most days I just wash, brush, and go. I dislike blow drying or using hair product so I rarely do. I have a great stylist who cuts it to bring out the waves without looking frizzy, and the natural look really works for me.

shannypoo21 · May 2012

I've been natural for about 2 years now. I transitioned for almost 15 months then cut off the relaxed ends. It's been one hell of a journey I must say. I colored my hair at the end of 2011 and I love how it looks when I do my twist outs but it's been hard to maintain a cute style since I work out so much and sweat like a man! Looking forward to when I gain more length and can do more with my hair.

2143661 · May 2012

Completely natural here. I don't ever do anything to my hair nor do I wear makup. It feels so good to be free all the time!

mfpcopine · May 2012

I don't use a chemical relaxer on my hair, but I do use highlights. Initially, I did it because my hair was so thick I thought it read as big dark mass and I wanted to break it up. Now, I use a mix of highlights and lowlights to help mask my gray hair.

InnerFatGirl · May 2012

Thanks everyone for your replies! Gonna wade through and reply to some individually. Keep it natural, girlies

InnerFatGirl · May 2012

Completely natural here. I don't ever do anything to my hair nor do I wear makup. It feels so good to be free all the time!

Me too! Getting ready is so easy - detangle and co wash hair, wash body, wash face/brush teeth, cream body, cream face, cocoa butter on lips and go. Don't dry my hair, just let it dry naturally. Low maintenance with better results than I've seen with the majority of make-up/product junkies.

InnerFatGirl · May 2012

I've been natural for about 2 years now. I transitioned for almost 15 months then cut off the relaxed ends. It's been one hell of a journey I must say. I colored my hair at the end of 2011 and I love how it looks when I do my twist outs but it's been hard to maintain a cute style since I work out so much and sweat like a man! Looking forward to when I gain more length and can do more with my hair.

Well done. How long is it now, and what is your goal?

I'm jealous you can do twist outs. They don't work for me AT ALL

InnerFatGirl · May 2012

yes yes, naturalista here! love ur curls!

Adding you! Thank you so much! Love your hair too

InnerFatGirl · May 2012

I've been trying really really hard to not put a relaxer in my hair and just let it grow natural. My hair is similar to yours except wayyy frizzier. I can't deal!

Oh honey, you can do it! Relaxer is SO damaging for your hair. If you're just patient, you can have the results you want from relaxer without the breakage/the dryness etc. Trust me, I have seen women who have been relaxing for years (including the black half of my family) and most of them just have short stubs of dry hair. Not attractive.

I would suggest joining some natural forums (CurlyNikki is a really good one), watching some natural girls on YT (especially this woman - she's amazing;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_1b5_XLegUY) and just learning as much as you can. I don't have a hair regimen at the moment, but I still use the tips I have learnt to keep my hair healthy.

And I have frizz too! Lots of it! Learn about PH balance and sealing, and it shouldn't be too much of a problem

it's a learning curve x

InnerFatGirl · May 2012

I've been natural for about 4 1/2 years, and haven't used heat in about a year. I have thick as hell 4a/4b mixture hair. It's just pass BL now, but I keep this stuff in a pony tail bun all the time. I've recently started thinking about cutting it to my shoulders, because I am so sick of it. I love my hair and I love the fact that it grows so well, although I don't have what most people consider the "ideal" hair type. Seriously, I can't begin to tell you how many people tell me they don't know how I deal with my natural hair and that they would get a relaxer.

People are so ignorant. I haven't had to deal with it myself, as I have the so called 'pretty hair', but I have observed it (though I have had my share of prejudices aimed towards my hair, but I digress). It pisses me off, especially when it's black people saying it. Relaxed hair is only easier to deal with if you don't look after it, which leads to breakage and general unhealthiness. You can have semi healthy relaxed hair, but that takes as much work as natural hair. In which case, you're better off being natural.

Why do you keep it in a bun? Protective styling?

InnerFatGirl · May 2012

I tried to go natural and stop with the relaxers but it hurts so bad to comb my hair in it's natural state. It brought back bad memories from my childhood lol. It's just too much but I have much respect for my sisters out there sporting their natural locks.

You shouldn't be combing it, sweetie. Not good for anyone with a kink in the hair. I don't comb mine unless it's detangled, and even then, it's with a wide tooth, and I am CAREFUL as hell.

Just split into four sections, saturate with water and conditioner, and gently detangle, pulling any tangles up as opposed to apart.

Then keep it in protective styles a lot. Honestly, hun, there's so much stuff people with afro/4a/b hair can do that I can't. Twist outs being one of them. There's lots of ladies on the internet who can be an inspiration, role model and source of knowledge for you. It doesn't have to be traumatic or extra work.

Any other naturals here?

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