Trying Desperately to Quit Smoking & Needing Some Support

Hello MFP Peeps,

I have now been on MFP for almost 3 months, I love the site I am 22lbs down with about 30 to go. My main goal in joining this site was to lose weight and be healthy, the amount of friends and support I have found here as been absolutely amazing. My goal now that I have developed these great eating habits and exercise routines is I am Trying Desperately to Quit Smoking. I know this site is not a smokers help line, but looking for any tips or support that anyone could give would be great. I am terrified of gaining my weight back. I welcome any comments feed back or even tips from people that have quit or are even currently trying to quit.

Thanks Everyone
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  • BackTatJIM
    BackTatJIM Posts: 1,140 Member
    I quit smoking before I started mfp and the same rules applied for both bad habits. I smoked for about 5 years up to a pack and a half a day and from all the research and personal experiences Cold Turkey is the way to go. with stopping all together you will get through the withdraw process faster. If you research the mental and physical syndromes of quieting you will feal a lot better when you go through them. The hardest part of quitting for me was getting out of the routine , especially while at work. One you quit and get through the withdraw symptoms you will never want to go back. Good luck
  • Whitney0919
    Whitney0919 Posts: 23 Member
    My husband quit using an e-cigarette. If you're really ready to quit, it is definitely easier to quit cold turkey, but if you're quiting because you know you should and not because you want to, the e-cigarette is great! If you're close to a Walmart, they're really cheap....
  • KCoolBeanz
    KCoolBeanz Posts: 813 Member
    I sort of bounced back and forth for a few years between smoking and not (I was a professional quitter), but when I finally decided that I was sick of it (and for me, that was the key), I used the nicorette lozenges. I picked that brand, because they were the only ones that carried a flavor I liked. I did find that I became a little bit addicted to those, so you need to be careful. I started using them more than I had been originally smoking. I started weaning myself off them with sugar free candy, and then eventually, I just kind of forgot about having candy around and I was clean!

    If I'm around people that are smoking, or in situations where I used to socially smoke (ie. patio with beer), I make sure to keep mints in my purse, and I find the strong flavor of the mint tends to overpower the smell of the smoke, and I usually forget about it.

    I'll admit that on the odd occasion I've had one, but it usually serves as a reminder why I quit in the first place. :-)

    Good luck! Feel free to add me if you like, for support.
  • Missy8856
    Missy8856 Posts: 29
    My husband and I quit smoking 3 years ago. He quit cold turkey and I used the nicorette lozenges. You really have to find what works for you. You CAN quit smoking, please don't give up!!!
  • SunLove8
    SunLove8 Posts: 693 Member
    HI! Congrats on reaching out for support in quitting smoking :) I smoked for around 18 years (started when I was 15) and gave it up Feburary of 2011. For me, it took using chantix 4 different times to finally do it. It does work but it did give me horriable nightmares. I did gain a little bit during that time but I told myself it was better to gain a bit than to continue smoking. After about a month I felt that my metabolism stabilized and I could lose weight the way I was before. I would talk to your doctor and see what would work best for you in order to quit smoking. YOU CAN DO IT! :)
  • blynn2708
    blynn2708 Posts: 262 Member
    I quit 4 yrs ago with laser therapy. :bigsmile: Congrats to you for taking this step! I took vitamin C...about 10 a day and lots of water! I would take one when I had that craving, remember, it's a habit. Change ALL routines...I changed my route to work, even my radio station! lol If you smoke while driving do you light up at certain landmarks?? It really does work! I wish you all the best!! :flowerforyou:
  • After about 5 or so times of quitting and either failing or going back within a few months, I did some research and decided to give Wellbutrin a try. That was 3 years ago. Within 2 days @ the max smoking cessation dose, my desire to smoke was decreased by about 90% and smoking cigarettes was physically tormenting (they tasted different - DISGUSTING and made me nauseous). Within a week I had no desire at all, only the habits remained. I stayed on for a month at that dose just to "be sure" since the habits did linger.

    I absolutely recommend giving it a try! Good luck!
  • kayl3igh88
    kayl3igh88 Posts: 428 Member
    I cut myself down to less than 5 a day (from 20-30 a day) in a week & then went on Champix (tablets that block the "good feelings" from the nicotine reaction, so all you get is the bad taste) from the Dr as I didn't have the willpower to stop completely by myself. I've read that CT is the best way to do it but Champix really worked for me. I started on here 2 weeks later, 4 days after I had my last cigarette.
  • SunLove8
    SunLove8 Posts: 693 Member
    I cut myself down to less than 5 a day (from 20-30 a day) in a week & then went on Champix (tablets that block the "good feelings" from the nicotine reaction, so all you get is the bad taste) from the Dr as I didn't have the willpower to stop completely by myself. I've read that CT is the best way to do it but Champix really worked for me. I started on here 2 weeks later, 4 days after I had my last cigarette.

    Do you mean Chantix? Just wondering if there was a different one out there. I was able to quit smoking with using Chantix but had bad nightmares. Congrats on quitting!
  • LaPati
    LaPati Posts: 41 Member
    Read Allen Carr's EasyWay to Quit Smoking.
  • myhusbandletsme
    myhusbandletsme Posts: 12 Member
    I quit 10 months ago - one of many times I have tried - this quit is my last here is a great web site for you - whyquit.com. I quit because of my husband complaining I smokied all the cigs - he left his somewhere and thought I smoked them- I tossed him the cigs and said that he could have them all. It was the hardest thing I have ever done - took months to feel right again - and then came the weight gain....you can do it !!!
  • jgic2009
    jgic2009 Posts: 531 Member
    I quit smoking 9 months ago.

    I started by indentifying my triggers -- times and events I found myself smoking. For me, the biggest triggers were driving and after a meal. Once I identified my triggers, I started delaying lighting up. So, when I used to light up as soon as I pulled out of the driveway--I would make myself wait 5 minutes. After the 5 minute wait was ok, I upped it to 10 minutes, and so on, trying to break the association in my mind.

    Then I downloaded an app for my phone -- Livestrong My Quit Coach (or something like that) -- and set a quit date. The app creates a program for you to wean off, or you have the option of going cold turkey. There's a support community with the app, and you can "check-in" to track your cravings and when you smoke. I used the app to cut my smoking in half, and then I quit cold turkey.

    You can quit, too -- but you have to want to, and you have to work at it.

    Good luck!
  • thekacers
    thekacers Posts: 68
    I quit smoking before I joined MFP. It was my New Years' Resolution to get healthy, and I took it in baby steps. I quit cold turkey on January 2nd. I didn't use the patches or gum because they're so expensive, and I had quit in the past, so I thought it would be no biggie. This time around, I was MISERABLE for about a month. I was depressed & moody, I couldn't sleep and I always seemed... sweaty! UGH. But after the month or so went by, I felt much better! In March I quit drinking soda, and I joined MFP in April!
    Anyways, I don't know if I would recommend going cold turkey, but I do think it helped me get through the process faster. Using the gum and the patches is still giving you nicotine so it will take longer to really get over it.
    Keep some sugar free candies on you if you find yourself hungry (although if you eat too much sugar free stuff, it acts as a laxative! Be warned.)
    Have someone in your life who can support you, who you can turn to if you feel like your going to slip up.
    You may feel like you are going to lose all control, but if do, you're really just making the decision to lose control... which means you're still actually in control and you're just giving up. I had to tell myself this almost everyday - that whether I succeed or not is all up to me.
    I wish you the best of luck!
  • redcat17
    redcat17 Posts: 267 Member
    I quit 6 months ago using an E-Cig. I haven't smoked one since I got mine. But don't get one of those cheap ones you can buy anywhere. Get something like the E-Go C. You can find them on http://www.ovaleusa.com/.
  • kayl3igh88
    kayl3igh88 Posts: 428 Member
    I cut myself down to less than 5 a day (from 20-30 a day) in a week & then went on Champix (tablets that block the "good feelings" from the nicotine reaction, so all you get is the bad taste) from the Dr as I didn't have the willpower to stop completely by myself. I've read that CT is the best way to do it but Champix really worked for me. I started on here 2 weeks later, 4 days after I had my last cigarette.

    Do you mean Chantix? Just wondering if there was a different one out there. I was able to quit smoking with using Chantix but had bad nightmares. Congrats on quitting!

    Kind of, I believe Champix is the UK version of Chantix. They made me dream, which was weird because I haven't really dreamed since I was a kid, but that's all - I think changing my diet disturbed my sleep more than the tablets! :smile: I do have dreams now where in them I'm smoking, then I remember I've quit (I'd been smoking since I was 12, quit in March - I'm 23) and wake up laughing at myself because dream-me feels so guilty for smoking :laugh: And thank you, congratulations to you too! :happy:
  • senyosmom
    senyosmom Posts: 613 Member
    different strokes for different folks! I smoked for 12 years and quit about 4 years ago. I picked a date about 3 months before I quit and told myself everyday that the date I picked was it for me. I quit cold turkey on that date. I did not smoke another cigarette for a year - on my one year quit smoking anniversary I decided to smoke one cigarette (stupid, I know). Lucky for me, it made me light headed and feel sick and I never touched another one again.

    I'd be lying if I said I didnt still LOVE the smell. :)

    Good luck to you!
  • jedikrissy
    jedikrissy Posts: 106 Member
    Thanks everyone! I just finished reading everyone's posts, and they are helpful just to read other peoples stories is a great motivator. I have tried cold turkey and the pills and the gum ect.. before. That was about three or so years ago. I don't think I really wanted to quit before, But this time I really really do! For my health and so I can exercise without feeling like my chest will cave in. I have been a heavy smoker for about 15 years, yesterday was my quit day and I had 3 smokes. Today I have had none and I really want to have one. I got these Nicorette inhaler things, they kinda help. They help for the hand to mouth thing, my girlfriend used them to quit. I think I will just stay on here and keep reading stories and checkout that one website that was recommended and NOT go to the store to buy smokes. Soooo hard! Keep those stories coming, I like reading them.

    Thanks again everyone! :)
  • Chellie74
    Chellie74 Posts: 23
    You can do it! My husband and I smoked for many years. We started smoking e-cigs in February and we're still going strong. In fact, there are days were I don't even think about it. It feels great! Have some faith! Good luck and stay strong! :)
  • jedikrissy
    jedikrissy Posts: 106 Member
    Read Allen Carr's EasyWay to Quit Smoking.

    I just found a Free download of the book, I am reading it right now. Thanks very much, at the very least it will keep me occupied for the rest of the day.
  • gatecityradio
    gatecityradio Posts: 401
    Cancer /thread.
  • cutchro
    cutchro Posts: 396 Member
    It took a lot of tries but I finally quit 2.5 years ago!! You just have to change your habits for a short time and take it one craving at a time. I used the patch and when I craved I distracted myself and before I knew it the craving had gone away.... Usually about 5 minutes tops each time and the cravings got fewer and farther in between. Hang in there and just focus!
  • jedikrissy
    jedikrissy Posts: 106 Member
    Cancer /thread.


    You know gatecityradio, just posting the words Cancer/thread is not Helpful, Motivational or Supportive! Everyone know about Cancer, and smokers are not the only people that get it. My great grandfather smoked 2 packs a day for over 50 years and he did not die from any kind of cancer or smoking related illness. Also I have people I know and family members That have never smoked a day in there life and they have lung cancer, and know they never worked in a smoky restaurant or lived with a smoker. SO If you don't actually have anything to say please don't post anything.
  • Happyhappy352
    Happyhappy352 Posts: 153
    My husband quit using an e-cigarette. If you're really ready to quit, it is definitely easier to quit cold turkey, but if you're quiting because you know you should and not because you want to, the e-cigarette is great! If you're close to a Walmart, they're really cheap....
    I quit the same way. I had smoked for 20 years and quit about three years ago. You realy have to want to quit in your heart of hearts for anything to work. Good luck :O)
  • sarahdangar
    sarahdangar Posts: 43 Member
    I stopped about 17 weeks ago, same time I joined MFP to maintain my weight, rather than gain after quitting. I smoked ofr 14 years and used the Allen Carr book. My husband used it 6 months before me. He was a 40 a day smoker for 26 years and just stopped. I couldn't believe he had done it but it still took me six months to try. I was sceptical that I was going to read a book and suddenly stop smoking 20 cigs a day, and be ok with it. I won't lie and say day 1 and 2 weren't bad...I found the physical withdrawal from going cold turkey hard work but I haven't smoked since. I get the odd craving but know that I will never smoke again...even in the first few days when the cravings were harder, I knew I wouldn't give in. people ask me why or how i think the book works. I have no idea. for some reason it just made sense to me and worked.

    No matter how you are doing it, you are doing it. You will have mega hard days - don't beat yourself up over that. I put a post it note on my desk that just said "suck it up"...and you just have to. The book says that the best way to be a non smoker is to not have a cigarette and it is that simple (if not always that easy). Good luck and do what feels right for you x
  • Rogiefreida
    Rogiefreida Posts: 567 Member
    My husband and I quit cold turkey at different times. He quit 3 months before me, out of the blue, just stopped one day and hasn't touched a cigarette since. I quit February 2011 cold turkey as well, and ended up getting horribly sick about a week after I quit with pneumonia. That was a pretty easy way to quit, I couldn't breathe! But I don't recommend it.

    Seriously though, I have had 2 cigarettes since I quit. Both times I was with friends who smoked, and we had had a few drinks so my willpower vanished. My actual last cigarette was January 10th of this year. Whoever said that changing your habits helps is right. The mental part of quitting was the hardest thing for me, and changing my routine helped the most. I started chewing gum everytime I wanted to smoke, and still do when I want to now.

    Good luck! It's really hard, but you feel so awesome when you can say that you haven't smoked since ____ date. :)
  • Ekoria
    Ekoria Posts: 262 Member
    I am trying to quit CT today. Has any one else had any weird symptoms? Other then wanting to stuff my face with chocolate I have found the expected feeling of being exceedingly grumpy but then I have found the less usual feelings of: .

    .Being dizzy
    .Shaking
    .Exhausted
    .Head aches
    .Mild panic

    Ugh! Massive well done to every one who has already quit, I hope I can achieve the same soon!
  • jac1967123
    jac1967123 Posts: 32 Member
    i quit two years ago after several failed attempts i went to my gp for help and used champix you don't have to go cold turkey accept all the help your offered each and everyone of us is different what works for some wont for others but oh my its so worth it in the end good luck to everyone the main thing is dont give up trying to quit :smile:
  • AmyJoMelikova
    AmyJoMelikova Posts: 1 Member
    I smoked for 22 years and quit May 15 of last year. The reason I quit was because of my health. It is so hard on your bones and body. I didn't realize that smoking was actually making my deginerative disc disease worse in my back and that after my back surgery it would slow the process of healing. So I had to tell myself...no matter how much I try to cover it I still smell, it is so expensive, is that fair to my family?, my teeth are going to end up like another family member who smokes and drinks coffee, I want to be one of those people who is a "non-smoker" when they ask me on a job or on a medical questionairre. Change your frame of mind to believe that you are a non-smoker. It also helps that I don't drink anymore and that my friends have changed because of a move. Moving is pretty drastic...lol :laugh: but if you need to change to some friends that are more supportive you might have just have to for a little bit for your own health. Good luck!
  • kimmyj74
    kimmyj74 Posts: 223 Member
    As a nurse, I see patients everyday that smoked for years and years. Some are on oxygen 24 hours a day, some have cancer, traches (whole in throat in order to breath). They come in so out of breath that they have to stop before they get back to the exam room. Many times they have these syptoms many years after stopping smoking, not right away. The damage was done by the time they decided to quit.
    With all that being said- I too have struggled with smoking for the past 15 or so years. I have quit for months, years, etc and seem to always go back. I KNOW what it does and it's not good but the damn drug is so addictive! Wish I had never started but I can't change that. Can only change my decisions from now on, and so can you!
    You need to find what works for you. Cold turkey, patches, pills, gum, e-cigs, losenges, etc. There are so many things out there to help you. Your Doctor can do a referral to an agency that could possibly give you free "quit" supplies and support.
    All I can say is good luck and if you fall off the wagon, like I have many times, just remember how bad it is, how good you feel when you can exercise and actually breath.
  • dreambodin2011
    dreambodin2011 Posts: 166 Member
    I gave up when I found out I was pregnant with my first baby (12+ yrs ago) and leading up to that point I had cut right back as my husband was a light social smoker and could go for months without touching them.
    So...for me I had already tried a couple of times, but being pregnant was a no-brainer, there was no way I could smoke while pregnant.
    So that made it easy, and prior to the pregnancy, I had given up from time to time for a year here and there - what worked for me was cold turkey and being strong mentally - reminding myself at the end of the day how many cigarettes I had 'saved' my body from was a good visual...and how much $$$ I saved also. Rewarding yourself with a treat, perhaps a new hairdo, or outfit etc with the $$$ saved can also be a good motivator to keep at it. (or better still put the $$$ away for a trip).
    I had a friends' mum die at 37 from emphasema (sp?) which was nasty and caused by smoking.
    Anybody who claims smoking is good for your health is just, well, a bit naive with 'head in sand syndrome'. Good luck to them.
    You will smell better!
    You will save money.
    your health will improve - and your breath.
    Chew gum - drink water.
    research the benefits of quitting, and think of them daily as you allow your body to withdraw from the nicotine. Visualise this daily.
    Just believe this is the right thing to do.
    Tell yourself you are a non-smoker.
    Be wary of situations where you will be tempted. Steer clear if you are not strong enough for them.
    Set yourself up for success. Good luck - but it really has nothing to do with luck - sheer determination - just like anything good in life. x