What the h***?

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  • jenbar
    jenbar Posts: 1,038 Member
    The weight thing is just a way to gain control of your emotions so that you feel guilty and won't leave his sorry *kitten*. Do not fall for that and do not allow him to control your emotions. He's a flucking *kitten*, plain and simple - not a man! Pack your shyt, whack him in the balls as hard as you can, then leave.

    I agree totally!
    Pack up his bags and put them on the front lawn with a sign that says
    "FREE TO WHOEVER WANTS THEM... luggage, clothes and cheating no good husband"!
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
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    I agree totally!
    Pack up his bags and put them on the front lawn with a sign that says
    "FREE TO WHOEVER WANTS THEM... luggage, clothes and cheating no good husband"!

    Bring a truck and a shovel...for all the bullsh*t he'll try to give you!
  • Helawat
    Helawat Posts: 605 Member
    Simple response:

    you deserve better than that...period.:flowerforyou:
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
    Omg! Don't listen to a word he says. He is obviously a pathetic man to have to resort to such nastiness! It is in NO way your fault. Man, I want to just come over there and punch him!! (I'm not a violent person either!! )
  • Helawat
    Helawat Posts: 605 Member
    Yeah, I really hate men who spin things around to make it look like the woman's fault. Disgusting behavior.
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    I would call him an a*shole, but an a*shole actually has a function. He, on the other hand, serves no purpose.
  • Rachel89
    Rachel89 Posts: 68
    That is really horriable? Are you guys going to try to work things out or are you done... you shouldn't have to take that.. you are beautiful
  • neverbeenskinny
    neverbeenskinny Posts: 446 Member
    You know GTO, that's exactly what my ex said to me. He said I got too fat...well, like I said yesterday, the woman that he cheated with is now carrying my 60 extra pounds and then some...AND he is cheating on her too. You're just much better off walking away, you don't need the heartache. You will find someone that you treasure just as you are. Body weight and size has nothing to do with whether a person loves you or not, if they love you only for the outside, they're not worth having.

    You are a beautiful person and worthy of much more.
  • songbyrdsweet
    songbyrdsweet Posts: 5,691 Member
    OH MAN I'D HAVE SOCKED HIM. :explode:

    Like everyone has said, don't listen. And look at it this way: You can lose the weight. He's stuck with himself. :smokin:
  • auntkaren
    auntkaren Posts: 1,490 Member
    As you all know from my prev. post, I found out my husband is cheating on me:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
    Well get ready for this....he said, "if you weren't so g**d*** FAT I wouldn't have cheated!! Besides, if you are going to accuse me of it, I may as well DO it!!" I tried to talk to him last night and all I got was cussed out. He called me every filthy name in the book:cry:

    He is trying to make it sound like I DROVE him to cheat.
    Don't you dare believe a word , you remember I told you about abuse doesnt always means someone has to beat on you physically? I would record his mouth . And you young lady are a very sweet and pretty he is :devil: evil and wants to drag you down. I hope he isn't saying these things in front of the kids. Don't shed a single tear over his words, I know they say that bricks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me........bull-crap/////words cut deep/ . What a low life scum of the earth, how dare he talk to you like that. :explode:
  • evjazz
    evjazz Posts: 28 Member
    Wow, take it from someone that knows... focus on your self, your health, your self esteem, your children. This is what matters. He is weak and clearly not committed for long term. Don't allow his weakness to weaken YOU. You must find a place spiritually where you can heal, recover and grow. He will not allow this as you are, you must become bigger than he in almost every aspect, emotionally, spiritually but not physically. The best revenge is a good life. Live one..without him undermining you and protect your kids from his stupidity.... all my support and love to you!
  • Eve23
    Eve23 Posts: 2,352 Member
    I am really sorry to hear about this. Keep your head up. Keep your focus on what is important. You deserve to have a happy life.

    We are here for you:flowerforyou:
  • pam0206
    pam0206 Posts: 700 Member
    GTO, Stay strong. Don't take any of his justifications or allow him to try to get validation by blaming you. Sorry. It was his choice to cheat and HIS choice alone. He made his bed, now let him lie in it. Perhaps easier said than done........Best of luck. Take care of those girls AND yourself.
  • beep
    beep Posts: 1,242 Member
    We're pulling for you. A happy marriage is about self-lessness, not selfishness. And a happy marriage is never always happy, but it is committed to loving each other unconditionally, no matter how fat, no matter how skinny. Find a man who knows that love is a verb, not a feeling.
  • dulceluva
    dulceluva Posts: 728 Member
    he's a f***ing flipping idiot.
  • yenn
    yenn Posts: 48 Member
    I would call him an a*shole, but an a*shole actually has a function. He, on the other hand, serves no purpose.

    BEST line ever. I've been lurking, reading your posts, and I have to say I was so mad at your husband BEFORE you found out he was cheating, now I'm ready to come out there and kick his @$$ myself !!

    Don't even allow him to get those kinds of shots off at you ... blaming you for his bad behavior ! Just walk away and take EVERYTHING of value with you !!
  • mommyskis
    mommyskis Posts: 277 Member
    Oh, it's your fault HE cheated?! No way!!! I don't have any wisdom, just wanted add my support. Good luck on a new, cheater-free life! You get the best part anyway; your girls.
  • Benson
    Benson Posts: 444
    1- Get him out of there
    2- Take whatever you can get - you deserve everything he has after that!
    3- Recover and then find someone who will treat you like the queen that you are.

    Stay strong and be grateful you won't have to be treated like crap anymore in the name of "matrimony"
  • dragonscapes24
    dragonscapes24 Posts: 114
    GTO... kick his @$$ to the curb... you deserve better than that... you have been working so hard, don't let him get in the way of your life...

    Keep your chin up and be who you are no matter what... there are good men out there who will love you unconditionally... Years ago I was in your shoes and thought I would never find someone worth my love... but I have and he is everything I could ever want... You will find your prince too some day...

    Jenn
  • ali106
    ali106 Posts: 3,754 Member
    hugs!!!!!!!!!!! he is such a sad excuse of a man....you are such a strong beautiful woman....

    I wish you could zoom ahead in the future to actually see how much better you'll be w/out him and how sad and pathetic he will be ...I'm just sorry you have to deal w/ it all...but I'm very happy a loser like that is going to be out of your life!

    hugs!
    Ali
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