Help, Help, Help - how to break binge streak.

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  • sweetnlow30
    sweetnlow30 Posts: 497 Member
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    Some things that help me:

    --Setting a timer for 5, 10, 15, maybe even 30 minutes and telling myself, "If I still feel like eating this in X amount of minutes, I will!" Often after waiting 30 minutes, I'm like, "Hell no, I don't want that!"

    --Pre-logging every last bite of what I Want to binge on BEFORE I eat it. This technique brings reality home. Often my binges seem like such a great idea in my head but when I put them down on paper or my mfp diary (and often ask for feedback from my friends on mfp) I realize how terrible I'll feel if I go through with it. Also, deleting every item after deciding not to binge takes a while but for me, I'm like, "screw you, food item I'm not eating! And screw you, and you... " etc. Haha

    --Sitting down to a HUGE plateful of a low calorie option and pigging out. Anyone else ever tried to eat an ENTIRE bag of baby carrots? Trust me, you won't want to binge on anything after that...

    Good luck, I hope this helps.

    I love the timer idea! I really need to try this myself. To the OP, I gained back 20 pounds of the weight that I lost last year through binges so I can totally understand where you are coming from. I honestly can't say what will work for you but, for myself, my warning signs are not wanting to come to my weight loss forums anymore and not logging my foods. On days when I start my mornings reading weight loss oriented posts and when I log my whole day in advance, I am much more likely to stay on track. Exercising also helps because I don't want to undo all the hard work I just put in. Anyway, I just wanted to say you are not alone (hug)
  • weightlossguy01
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    I say log your entire binge in your food diary and see what the total impact is. It puts it in your face and could really help you realize the damage done. Start thinking in terms of what else you could have instead for the same amount of calories through out the day and it will help put things in perspective!
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
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    . Consider trying to either curb your appetite with pills or do what I do and beat it to the punch by eating every 4 hours!

    GOOD LUCK!

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    I used to think this way, but now I strongly disagree. Go on bodybuilding.com forums and search it out and you'll see many who have lost a lot of weight have been on a number of appetite suppresant type things.
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    nothing against the folks on bodybuilding.com but alot of those guys have very different goals, are cutting, etc., and I would imagine the OP is looking for a long term solution. Pills are NOT a long term solution and can be dangerous
  • casslynn298
    casslynn298 Posts: 13
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    Love all the suggestions and this post. I have this issue too. Love emotional eating --- NOT
    Keep the suggestions coming please. :)
  • kristenlees122
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    i snack all day, fruit and nuts, drink lots of water.. i try and stay away from the junk.. i have a huge binge problem. for the first time in 10 years, i have gone 5 whole days without binging. i am so proud :) lol. this week, i have been making myself drink lots and lots and lots of water, especially when i crave something, workout every day, brush my teeth when i want to eat, and just over and over remind myself of my goal. its not easy, but you can do it :)
  • cspong
    cspong Posts: 260 Member
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    Any time I feel like eating junk, I try to get refocused and motivated. I talk to my husband about how I'm feeling and I hit up the success boards.

    I have junk in my house because my husband eats it and sometimes its hard. Making myself refocus can really help though.
  • empenTen
    empenTen Posts: 29
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    go to Wal Mart and look at the fat people, then buy a shirt that fits your goal body and put it on...does it fit? if not, STOP

    Reverse Thinspiration... not cool

    Brilliant! I am going to go and wedge my body into my dream jeans now to remind myself why I started. I have been really struggling today
  • fiberartist219
    fiberartist219 Posts: 1,865 Member
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    You are close to your goal weight, so honestly, if you're hungry, you should not feel ashamed about eating. I can understand the craving to eat a bunch of junk though. I get that way sometimes too.

    My suggestion is to take a look at your macro nutrients. Are you getting enough protein, fat, carbs, etc? Eat lots of nutritious foods FIRST, and then if you still want some chocolate, chips or whatever kind of junk food you have lying around, you can, but you'll be less likely to eat an entire bag of something if you've already had your meat, veggies, etc.

    When you are close to your goal weight, the weight loss is going to be very slow, so don't feel bad if you hang out at 130 for awhile.
  • Mommy2BnG
    Mommy2BnG Posts: 5 Member
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    I love the advice about setting the timer! I'm going to try that myself.

    Bingeing is one of my biggest challenges. Something that helps me is to identify my "trigger foods". Nutella is a MAJOR trigger food for me!!! One bite is NEVER enough! So... I don't buy Nutella now.

    I also like the idea of drinking water when you get the craving for something you know you shouldn't have.

    Another idea: When you start to have a craving, remove yourself from the situation. Step outside of your house & walk around for a few minutes. Maybe a change of scenery is all you need.
  • wftiger
    wftiger Posts: 1,283 Member
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    No offense, but telling anyone to simply keep the junk out of the house is easier said than done. We have no idea if the OP lives alone, has a spouse or partner, has a roommate. I am pretty good about buying good stuff, my DH while he eats only *some* of it (*edit i.e the good stuff *I* buy) he still buys stuff that I really wish he wouldn't because I sometimes find it tempting as it stares back at me in the fridge or cabinets. I have indulged at times, within reason and if/when it fits into my calories. Other times I didn't keep tabs on it, just ate ate ate it, went over goal, didn't log it, sometimes logged it.

    Unfortunately I do not have the answer. It's different and personal for each person. But you are not alone, trust me.

    I'm going to have to disagree. Even if the OP has a spouse/children junk food is not good for them either. Just don't buy it as simple as that. Buy fruit, veggies, nuts, etc. Doesn't matter if you are underweight, overweight, young or old you do not need potato chips to live.
  • weightlossguy01
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    No offense, but telling anyone to simply keep the junk out of the house is easier said than done. We have no idea if the OP lives alone, has a spouse or partner, has a roommate. I am pretty good about buying good stuff, my DH while he eats only *some* of it (*edit i.e the good stuff *I* buy) he still buys stuff that I really wish he wouldn't because I sometimes find it tempting as it stares back at me in the fridge or cabinets. I have indulged at times, within reason and if/when it fits into my calories. Other times I didn't keep tabs on it, just ate ate ate it, went over goal, didn't log it, sometimes logged it.

    Unfortunately I do not have the answer. It's different and personal for each person. But you are not alone, trust me.

    I'm going to have to disagree. Even if the OP has a spouse/children junk food is not good for them either. Just don't buy it as simple as that. Buy fruit, veggies, nuts, etc. Doesn't matter if you are underweight, overweight, young or old you do not need potato chips to live.
    I agree that the original poster shouldn't be buying the stuff themself because the money spent on that could go towards much healthier alternatives.

    However, in an ideal world, that's simply not the case. Not everyone around you is trying to lose weight like you are. You'd also have to avoid going to certain people's houses, visiting certain friends and family, social gatherings, etc. The truth is you have to eventually face it. I occasionally go to IHOP with a friend to get coffee and EVERY TIME I go, I sit there and see everyone around me eating very unhealthy food. It's very tempting to order something but I've since learned, you do not go there unless you've ate first. I have a certain degree of self control but I am not invincible. And I have since learned there are chemical releases in your body that literally fight you on it! I thought it was all about self control but it's not. It's partly self control but it's also about never allowing yourself to get really hungry and release those chemicals.

    There was a study done where a guy was put under a machine on a full stomach and they flashed images of unhealthy sweets and then of healthy salads. They checked his brain and didn't see it firing as much, he simply was not as effected by it and therefore if he faced those foods in real life, he would not need to exercise as much self control on a full stomach. They then put him under on an empty stomach after he hadn't ate in a long time and flashed those images and his brain began firing like crazy when he saw the images of the sweets and not so much so with the salad.

    The point of the experiment was to show that you are fighting your own biology trying to fight this stuff on an empty stomach. Don't starve yourself or skip meals or you could end up eating back 2-3+ times more food! Eat every four hours and keep track of the last time you ate.

    I would almost bet money the person binged after going a long period of time without eating something. Always look at a clock after you finish a meal to know roughly when you must eat again and you can greatly fight your risk to binge.

    Watch the bbc documentary I posted previously, highly recommended.
  • weightlossguy01
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    If you finish breakfast at 8am, you need to look at the clock and add 4 hours to it and think, I need to eat something again around 12pm. It doesn't have to be exact but just know, the longer you wait after 12pm to eat, the more likely you are to binge or eat horribly. If you finally finish eating at 1pm, start counting again 4 hours out and set a mental reminder to eat around 5pm. That should then technically be your last meal of the day outside of snacks. 4 hours after that food wears off you'll begin to get sleepy and you should go to sleep! Always choose sleep at night over eating if you want to lose weight! If you stay up to 1am, you'll likely eat again! So go to sleep and don't stay up and binge. Lack of sleep is also a vicious cycle because you get a lot of your energy from sleep. If you don't get enough the night before, you are more likely to binge during the next day based on the lack of energy!
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
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    If you finish breakfast at 8am, you need to look at the clock and add 4 hours to it and think, I need to eat something again around 12pm. It doesn't have to be exact but just know, the longer you wait after 12pm to eat, the more likely you are to binge or eat horribly. If you finally finish eating at 1pm, start counting again 4 hours out and set a mental reminder to eat around 5pm. That should then technically be your last meal of the day outside of snacks. 4 hours after that food wears off you'll begin to get sleepy and you should go to sleep! Always choose sleep at night over eating if you want to lose weight! If you stay up to 1am, you'll likely eat again! So go to sleep and don't stay up and binge. Lack of sleep is also a vicious cycle because you get a lot of your energy from sleep. If you don't get enough the night before, you are more likely to binge during the next day based on the lack of energy!

    I seem to keep disagreeing with you but what you are suggesting isnt true for everyone. I do IF (intermittent fasting) every day and have found that my hunger is much more in control now. I fast from last nights dinner to the next afternoon and occasionally continue fasting up to 20 hours.

    The idea of eating every four hours fails because you cant eat that much in one feeding and you never feel full and are always looking towards the next meal. Plus its just inconvenient to have to schedule eating that way.
  • mccollumse
    mccollumse Posts: 84 Member
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    I truly appreciate all the great replies! It has been a huge help keeping me on track today. My binges over the last few days haven't had much to do with actual hunger....although there are times that they start like that, but I can just go and go, like a bottomless pit of eating. I also have felt fatigued this week that makes me vulnerable. The suggestions to keep the bad stuff out of the house is good, but you know what, if I am binging I find that my standard of what is appealing will alter. I will eat the most appealing stuff first (like the frozen cookie dough, not even cooked, augh!) then I will move to other things. Eventually thinking about frozen biscuits (cooked!) with peanut butter seems appealing. I was eating leftover Halloween and Easter candy......had eliminated the chocolate pieces quite a while back, but settling for the sugar jelly beans,etc. it isn't a rational thing. And part of the problem is the dreaded "all or nothing " mindset. If I slip I am going all out. I was thinking I should look into over eaters anonymous. I do think it is like taking that first drink and falling off the wagon.

    On the plus side, ran my 3 miles and 30 min on the elliptical. Feeling pious today. If I can just make it thru the long weekend. Thanks everyone. Means more than you know!
  • Tickateeboo
    Tickateeboo Posts: 132 Member
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    No offense, but telling anyone to simply keep the junk out of the house is easier said than done.

    No.

    It isn't.

    If you've got a problem with it, then it doesn't come in the house. If other people in the house have a problem with it then they can sort themselves out.