Does dating affect your fitness progress?

2»

Replies

  • hbart500
    hbart500 Posts: 243 Member
    Even more motivation for me to stay fit :)
  • vasogoma
    vasogoma Posts: 53 Member
    When I am dating I do break my diet a little more because my boyfriend takes me out to have dinner and such, but somehow dating motivates me to take care of myself more so I do more exercise, plus it has me less anxious leading to less binging :)
  • blowsfire
    blowsfire Posts: 76 Member
    my eating habits go to crap when my hubby is home on weekends:embarassed:
  • Darkskinned88
    Darkskinned88 Posts: 1,177 Member
    As far as other things not involving time...alot of restaurants have "smart" choices on their menus so that helps(or they always have and i was too busy looking at burgers to notice) or i do alot of walking and talking on dates than i have in the past (blown transmission also to blame)
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    I wouldn't know :sad: I've only been getting healthy since I've been single!


    Ditto. :sad:
  • cmeade20
    cmeade20 Posts: 1,238 Member
    Anyone else have this problem? I start dating someone and my working out goes to crap. #singleftw
    and...this is why i don't date fitness and eating is my life :laugh:
    i'm married to my exercise and food :indifferent:
    even if i got with someone, i'm sure she would get bored and annoyed at me watching everything i eat and measuring everything and me being in the gym 5 days a week. I'm not changing this for anyone. The only way it would work would probably be with someone that counts calories too :ohwell:

    There are plenty of women who wish their boyfriends counted calories
  • africaa
    africaa Posts: 228
    well I'm single and I don't want to be committed to anyone until this journey is over.. :)
  • svetz
    svetz Posts: 35 Member
    I have no issues finding healthy meals when dining out, but I do prefer to date fit or active men. I keeps me motivated and I love being able to enjoy an active lifestyle together. It makes the journey to be fit everyday that much more second nature! I can't date men that are less active than me, even if I prioritize fitness over spending time with the guy - I just don't want to be with a partner that doesn't share my objectives.
  • WhitneyAnnabelle
    WhitneyAnnabelle Posts: 724 Member
    My husband is always trying to get me to exercise. That douche canoe.
  • karinefitness
    karinefitness Posts: 336 Member
    Anyone else have this problem? I start dating someone and my working out goes to crap. #singleftw
    and...this is why i don't date fitness and eating is my life :laugh:
    i'm married to my exercise and food :indifferent:
    even if i got with someone, i'm sure she would get bored and annoyed at me watching everything i eat and measuring everything and me being in the gym 5 days a week. I'm not changing this for anyone. The only way it would work would probably be with someone that counts calories too :ohwell:

    There are plenty of women who wish their boyfriends counted calories

    You're right!!!
    I wish I would meet someone who weights & counts their food as well (or doesn't mind that I do). It would make life much easier... I know some people think I'm obsessed, and maybe I am, so I'd love to meet someone who's as crazy about fitness as I am.
  • GAsoulstar
    GAsoulstar Posts: 84 Member
    I honestly don't feel that dating affect your fitness progress (only speaking for myself). Self-motivation is important and if you are dating someone they should understand and respect your desire to workout or get in better shape. I think a lot of times we put our priorities in the wrong areas. If you are dating and you can't workout then something is wrong with that relationship. I know I enjoy working out and we should motivate it each to do something we like sometimes.
  • AshCakes88
    AshCakes88 Posts: 123 Member
    Yes! Just got treated to steak n shake...just couldn't say no :(
  • HBinOC
    HBinOC Posts: 78 Member
    I too gained weight during a relationship- only because its a time issue- you want to spend time with that person, yet -work, kids, other priorities at times interferes, and yes you could get up at the crack of dawn- for some of us that is a challenge in its own:)
    I have been more on track single because the time is dedicated to me and only me on my schedule.
  • simplysarah32
    simplysarah32 Posts: 9
    I think WHO you date is definitely important. Someone who understands how important exercise is can be a huge motivation.
  • m60kaf
    m60kaf Posts: 421 Member
    Exercise no ... but my food intake becomes less healthy, but I seem to naturally regulated the calories correctly
  • chrishgt4
    chrishgt4 Posts: 1,222 Member
    No not really - I have my weights sessions and any other stuff I have planned and that is my stuff that she has to fit around. Just like she goes to the gym her times and I don't get miffed about that. (Because who would get annoyed that their gf is keeping fit?! That **** is hot!!)

    With food - I just make what I'm having and she can have that or her own food.

    Sounds harsher than it really is.
  • HideNGeek
    HideNGeek Posts: 136 Member
    I'm not single, but I find when i'm home all day with the better half that my eating isn't as healthy as it would be when I am at work and in my routine.
  • ninaquelinda
    ninaquelinda Posts: 136
    Dating usually includes eating out and lots of drinks... which means I step up my workouts. I guess the thought of someone possibly seeing me naked in the near future is a good enough motivator to keep on track. :blushing:
  • Doreen_Murray
    Doreen_Murray Posts: 396 Member
    I wouldn't allow that to happen at this stage because it's part of who I am now, so I'd only date someone who commits to living a healthy lifestyle. I think if you both are committed to your fitness and health goals then it will inspire a healthy relationship from the start.
  • harrietlg
    harrietlg Posts: 239
    my boyfriend started to become healthy and exercise more for me :) I think he realised that if he eats crap I eat crap ! but for some reason he doesn't like me bigger anymore which i didn't appreciate him telling me! i'm doing this for me so i'm happy and my self esteem is a little higher!
    but yes when we got together i ate like crazy! but it was mostly my housemates eating habits that i used to copy !
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    I wouldn't know :sad: I've only been getting healthy nice I've been single!
    Same! :sad:

    Same as well. I think it's a double-edged sword. It's good in a way because it keeps me focused and busy. The flip side, I'm too focused and busy that I probably miss out on potential dates.
  • Jigglebewie
    Jigglebewie Posts: 336 Member
    When you first start to date someone all you want to do is spend time with them, going out and enjoying yourself. I gained over 2 stone (28 lbs) when I started going out with my boyfriend nearly 5 years ago.

    My weight has gone up and down up and down, it's only been these past few months were I'm starting to workout and live a healthier lifestyle. It's working out for the better now, as he is supporting and helping me, and I'm trying to help him eat healthily too.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    When you first start to date someone all you want to do is spend time with them, going out and enjoying yourself.

    I know this is true for a lot of people, but for like... half of us- the opposite is true. You wanna spend as much time as possible continuing on your route to awesomeness and hope that they can A) Keep Up B) Be inspired by you and inspire you back C) appreciate that you are continually improving yourself in front of them and D) realise that this is proof that its not going to turn into a rut or get boring.

    I cant understand when people fall in love an suddenly dont want to do anything but curl up on the couch together, eat a milions meals, drinks a million drinks, watch a million movies, shut out the world and their friends and leave all their personal goals behind. Life should not stop when you meet your match.... it should LAUNCH!

    Or at least thats how the oher half of us see it

    shrug

    I meet someone I like... you bet your *kitten* Im at the gym and my consistency improves.
  • Jigglebewie
    Jigglebewie Posts: 336 Member
    I can defo understand that now, back when I met my partner I was 16 he was 21, he was skinny, I was probs the same weight then, as I am now (I did go up 2 1/2 stone whilst with him). But if I was to meet him again right now whilst I was losing weight, my routine would stick, I'd want to keep losing for me.

    Back then I was too young to even care, I knew I was bigger than most girls my age, but my close group of friends were all big too, they weren't doing anything about their weight and I didn't really think about it.

    Now I am getting on track and it feels great to be losing weight and actually having support from the one your with. He's actually into being healthy now, he cycles each day and has been eating well. So it's great if you can find someone who's into living a long and healthy life with you.

    If not, still keep up your routine, I wouldn't give up now =D
This discussion has been closed.

Categories