Was supposed to be a blind date, but...

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  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    Don't want to go through a date with the woman just staying to be polite just to never see her again or standing me up with some lame excuse.

    I live with a lesbian, so this comes from a place of love, respect, and knowing a lot of gays... But lesbians are the most notorious for ending up with someone the public might consider mismatched. Be confident in who you are and the amazingness you bring to the table and nobody is out of your league. I literally know a few pair where one is a 9 and the other is probably a 6 from my point of view, but they both think themselves and their partner are sexy and beautiful.
  • dollipop
    dollipop Posts: 379 Member
    Oh FFS. Just show up. Who knows, even if you and she don't click, who knows who you might meet?
    Carpe diem!
  • Timkoetta
    Timkoetta Posts: 70 Member
    Stop being such an insecure *****
    Hope for the best plan for the worst

    She might like your confidence

    god knows she will see you as pathetic pre judging yourself.
    Be a man chicks dig that :laugh:
    Ummmmm, OP is female. Just sayin' :laugh:
    OP - don't prejudge *her* taste.

    How the hell was anyone supposed to know that? She's got her profile locked down, and has a teddy bears BACK as her avatar lol?

    hahahahahahaha lol

    should i just send pics then? or just show up?

    Does she want pics? If so...send them...if she ditches you, you didn't want her anyhow...trust me.

    I agree, if she ask for pics send them, if not then don't. And go on the date.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Oh FFS. Just show up. Who knows, even if you and she don't click, who knows who you might meet?
    Carpe diem!

    Hmm...

    I like you...lol.
  • dollipop
    dollipop Posts: 379 Member
    Oh FFS. Just show up. Who knows, even if you and she don't click, who knows who you might meet?
    Carpe diem!

    Hmm...

    I like you...lol.
    *wonders what came *before* the edit...* :wink:
  • Nataliaho
    Nataliaho Posts: 878 Member
    Stop being such an insecure *****
    Hope for the best plan for the worst

    She might like your confidence

    god knows she will see you as pathetic pre judging yourself.
    Be a man chicks dig that :laugh:
    Ummmmm, OP is female. Just sayin' :laugh:
    OP - don't prejudge *her* taste.

    How the hell was anyone supposed to know that? She's got her profile locked down, and has a teddy bears BACK as her avatar lol?
    "One03 has chosen to keep her profile private" gave it away. That and the teddy ain't very manly. :laugh:

    Very observant!! I clicked, glanced for gender, and closed it lol.
    I like to think not much gets past me :wink:

    I would have to agree. That's a pretty wonderful trait by the way, lol.

    I got it from that too.... just sayin :happy:
  • bathsheba_c
    bathsheba_c Posts: 1,873 Member
    Carpe diem. Seize the carp!

    I think it would be a little odd not to send a pic in return, unless you excuse yourself saying that you don't have any good digital pics available.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Oh FFS. Just show up. Who knows, even if you and she don't click, who knows who you might meet?
    Carpe diem!

    Hmm...

    I like you...lol.
    *wonders what came *before* the edit...* :wink:

    If you ask me very, very nicely...someday I might just tell you :).
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Stop being such an insecure *****
    Hope for the best plan for the worst

    She might like your confidence

    god knows she will see you as pathetic pre judging yourself.
    Be a man chicks dig that :laugh:
    Ummmmm, OP is female. Just sayin' :laugh:
    OP - don't prejudge *her* taste.

    How the hell was anyone supposed to know that? She's got her profile locked down, and has a teddy bears BACK as her avatar lol?
    "One03 has chosen to keep her profile private" gave it away. That and the teddy ain't very manly. :laugh:

    Very observant!! I clicked, glanced for gender, and closed it lol.
    I like to think not much gets past me :wink:

    I would have to agree. That's a pretty wonderful trait by the way, lol.

    I got it from that too.... just sayin :happy:

    Yeah, but I already knew you were wonderful, silly girl =p.

    Seriously though...I never would have even clicked the profile to find out until Dollipop said it was a girl lol.
  • ONE03
    ONE03 Posts: 125 Member
    Sorry about the double post before. Yeah and how many guy's goal weight is 103lbs (username)? :laugh:

    People are attracted to who they are attracted to. I really don't mind, if someone were to just tell me I wasn't their type physically. It's the being polite through the date while it looks to me they obviously want to leave or standing me up with some lame excuse. I know people want to be nice and not hurt my feelings, but it actually hurt a whole lot more lying to me. It's just a disservice to themselves as well as to me.

    Sure. I don't want to prejudge anyone's taste, but I've just had far way too many experiences of the above.

    I'm trying to figure out a way to send pictures, since she didn't ask for them.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member


    I'm trying to figure out a way to send pictures, since she didn't ask for them.

    Then don't send them? Just meet her.
  • Nataliaho
    Nataliaho Posts: 878 Member
    Sorry about the double post before. Yeah and how many guy's goal weight is 103lbs (username)? :laugh:

    People are attracted to who they are attracted to. I really don't mind, if someone were to just tell me I wasn't their type physically. It's the being polite through the date while it looks to me they obviously want to leave or standing me up with some lame excuse. I know people want to be nice and not hurt my feelings, but it actually hurt a whole lot more lying to me. It's just a disservice to themselves as well as to me.

    Sure. I don't want to prejudge anyone's taste, but I've just had far way too many experiences of the above.

    I'm trying to figure out a way to send pictures, since she didn't ask for them.

    That is the risk of a BLIND date though isn't it, there's kind of no way around it.... just remember, with great risk comes great reward :)
  • ONE03
    ONE03 Posts: 125 Member
    Well, I'm going to the event anyway. Can't miss it. :laugh: I was just going to avoid her, since she doesn't know what I look like. There are going to be tons of people there. Not like I would see her unless we specifically set up a meeting spot.

    So I guess I'll meet up with her. I might send her pictures if she somehow brings it up while exchanging texts. The other girl did. She wanted to call me to hear my voice and make sure I wasn't a *man.* I'm pretty sure she just wanted to call to hear what I might look like through my voice, so I just gave her my facebook.

    Will update on how it goes in 2 weeks.
  • Brandicaloriecountess
    Brandicaloriecountess Posts: 2,126 Member
    Go and have fun.
  • Serenstar75
    Serenstar75 Posts: 258 Member
    Most success I've had in dating is be MORE like a man anyway :) I'm saying, confidence. Be yourself. Be confident and don't fret. I know rejection is hard, but you never find success without meeting someone and love YOURSELF.
  • _hi_hat3r_
    _hi_hat3r_ Posts: 423 Member
    Don't want to go through a date with the woman just staying to be polite just to never see her again or standing me up with some lame excuse.

    I live with a lesbian, so this comes from a place of love, respect, and knowing a lot of gays... But lesbians are the most notorious for ending up with someone the public might consider mismatched. Be confident in who you are and the amazingness you bring to the table and nobody is out of your league. I literally know a few pair where one is a 9 and the other is probably a 6 from my point of view, but they both think themselves and their partner are sexy and beautiful.

    ^^THIS
  • _hi_hat3r_
    _hi_hat3r_ Posts: 423 Member
    Well, I'm going to the event anyway. Can't miss it. :laugh: I was just going to avoid her, since she doesn't know what I look like. There are going to be tons of people there. Not like I would see her unless we specifically set up a meeting spot.

    So I guess I'll meet up with her. I might send her pictures if she somehow brings it up while exchanging texts. The other girl did. She wanted to call me to hear my voice and make sure I wasn't a *man.* I'm pretty sure she just wanted to call to hear what I might look like through my voice, so I just gave her my facebook.

    Will update on how it goes in 2 weeks.

    Some women have deep voices so thats really not a good indicator of finding out someones true identity. Just saying. Good Luck.
  • ONE03
    ONE03 Posts: 125 Member
    Thanks everyone. Well, I just punked out and told her I wasn't meeting up with her.
  • ShareeMorty
    ShareeMorty Posts: 324 Member
    Sorry about the double post before. Yeah and how many guy's goal weight is 103lbs (username)? :laugh:

    People are attracted to who they are attracted to. I really don't mind, if someone were to just tell me I wasn't their type physically. It's the being polite through the date while it looks to me they obviously want to leave or standing me up with some lame excuse. I know people want to be nice and not hurt my feelings, but it actually hurt a whole lot more lying to me. It's just a disservice to themselves as well as to me.

    Sure. I don't want to prejudge anyone's taste, but I've just had far way too many experiences of the above.

    I'm trying to figure out a way to send pictures, since she didn't ask for them.

    If she didn't ask don't worry about sending them. In my experience physical attraction is ever changing, the type of men I was attracted to in my 20s is different to the men I find attractive now. If you don't click, you might make a new friend or chalk it up to dating practice. She obviously likes your personality, there is a chance she will like how you look too. Go out and have fun :)
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