Kicked while I'm down

I just spent a few days in the hospital for an ongoing illness I'm battling. I log on & half of my friends are gone. I am ready to quit. I don't have many people backing me & now I have less. I don't know if I can keep doing this.
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  • ill support ya jus add away
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    I am sorry to hear that - just means you are better off without them!! I am sorry to hear about your illness - I hope you get to feeling better soon.

    If you want you can add me :)
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    I am sorry that has happened to you. You are welcomed to add me as a friend. I am always logged on be it the computer or my smart phone.
  • Nielasan
    Nielasan Posts: 38 Member
    hey! don't beat yourself up when you're already feeling low. you can do it, it seems like you already lost a lot of weight. focus on your success and be kind to yourself mentally. we're all just humans trying to be the best we can, don't give up!
  • misty0413
    misty0413 Posts: 212
    They were not really your friends if they deleted you after being absent.
  • LizV32
    LizV32 Posts: 127 Member
    I'm sorry to hear that, I won't do that, feel free to add me!
  • sorry to hear that,Please feel free to add me and we can support one another :)
  • DataBased
    DataBased Posts: 513 Member
    I just spent a few days in the hospital for an ongoing illness I'm battling. I log on & half of my friends are gone. I am ready to quit. I don't have many people backing me & now I have less. I don't know if I can keep doing this.
    You're more than 50% of the way to your goal. Please don''t allow yourself to react emotionally to the actions of others - you're doing great! Their behavior does not have to dictate your own. Make some new friends (there are many of us available) and keep going - you're worth it!

    :flowerforyou:
  • tracrey
    tracrey Posts: 4 Member
    Push through the bad thoughts. You have already lost 57lbs You're doing something right.
  • IrishChick71
    IrishChick71 Posts: 311 Member
    Wow! That sux! But I have been in the same boat.. It just let's you know who you can count on. I'll send you a friend request.
  • kfogle0120
    kfogle0120 Posts: 15
    :flowerforyou: Add me if you want to.....i'm new and not going anywhere!
  • BostonMatt
    BostonMatt Posts: 258
    Quitting won't solve anything. For every friend that deleted you, you'll find two more.
  • gogojodee
    gogojodee Posts: 1,243 Member
    Same here, by my brother no less - lol. You can add me. I have medical issues/family medical issues and I totally understand where you're coming from. :flowerforyou:
  • cassmonster
    cassmonster Posts: 58 Member
    Glad you are feeling better! Feel free to add me....I dont delete!! People have many reasons for not logging on....who am I to judge??
  • dicoveringwhoIam
    dicoveringwhoIam Posts: 480 Member
    sending a friend request!!
  • determined2lose89
    determined2lose89 Posts: 342 Member
    I am so sorry to hear that people removed you. I think that's truly awful. I am very supportive, especially when it comes to health issues getting in the way of our weight loss journey. Feel free to add me! :flowerforyou:
  • mcott1012
    mcott1012 Posts: 27 Member
    That just broke my heart! I'll send you a friend request and we can motivate each other!! :flowerforyou:
  • LHSweeney
    LHSweeney Posts: 87 Member
    Dont let other people determine your life. You got those people and you will get others. Change is good and it will be good for your confidence to make new friends. You will be fine my sister : ) friend me if u like ...Im not the most interactive person out here but ... Im right here and I always answer mssgs.
  • ForMe31217
    ForMe31217 Posts: 42
    I sent you an invite. you have come so close. don't give up!!
  • Sissy4EverX3
    Sissy4EverX3 Posts: 247
    Forget them. They obviously weren't worth it. I always at least try to check in with someone if I see they haven't logged in for a few days or a week. But if it starts going on *months* without seeing any activity whatsoever on their account... then yeah, they go bye bye. Thankfully, there's been less than a handful that I've had to do that to. :)
  • liezelcha
    liezelcha Posts: 150 Member
    I'm in and out of hospital with probs and i get dropped because I disappear sometimes so I get it...you can add me.
  • wingednotes
    wingednotes Posts: 274 Member
    Don't worry. They've done you a favor. They've removed themselves and now you are left with the good ones.
    I'm sending you an add...
    Hang in there. Lots of support is here for you :)
  • reese66
    reese66 Posts: 2,920 Member
    You can add me if you like, I don't delete normally.
  • mrsgroove
    mrsgroove Posts: 44
    Add me!! I'm certainly not perfect but I'm plugging along on here for the last year. I am a similar age as you and also a busy mom and full time worker. Let's help each other along this bumpy road. Sending a friend request now. : )
  • gypsybree
    gypsybree Posts: 218
    You've lost 57 pounds. Why quit?
  • karenwill2
    karenwill2 Posts: 604 Member
    there are always new friends you can add. :wink:
  • cjrunner80
    cjrunner80 Posts: 14
    I am sorry to hear that - just means you are better off without them!! I am sorry to hear about your illness - I hope you get to feeling better soon.

    If you want you can add me :)

    I completely agree. You are better off without them, and just like @gypsybree said you have lost 57 lbs. Keep ROCKING it!!! I am sorry about your illness, but it is awesome that you have pushed through and signed back on!! Feel free to add!! :) I am doing this for my fiance, and so when I become a teacher!!!
  • LinaBo
    LinaBo Posts: 342 Member
    DON'T give up! Who has the power over your health? YOU! The same goes with any power over your own life. Your body is the vehicle, you are its driver, you alone possess the manual, and no one else. Don't put that power in the hands of fairweather friends. If anything, your illness was a blessing; it purged your circle of people who you were better off without, anyway.

    Feel free to add me to your friend list. I don't respond to every post, but I try to respond to those who need it most. I can also help with any cooking/recipe troubleshooting (I'm a culinary arts grad).
  • Dont worry about them. I rarely log in. I have lacked motivation and the gumption. If they drop you just becasue of that, then they are better off without you. Add me. me:)
  • laneydawn
    laneydawn Posts: 64
    That isnt exactly supportive at all. We need support when we are struggling....and sounds like those people werent in it for the right reasons. Add me if you wish.