Boy troubles):

I'm sorry someone got hurt, that's awful! But yes, do watch out because no doubt his list of excuses may pile up...

My ex-boyfriend was always late picking me up to go somewhere because he was doing things like watching an episode of his favourite tv show, or some other lame-*kitten* excuse. He was honest, yes, but kinda didn't really think too much of our dates and stuff.

Take a long hard look at your relationship. Never forget that YOU are the prize, not him. If you break up, it's HIS loss. You are an amazing girl and anyone would be lucky to have you, and you deserve someone who thinks the world of you and never wants to disappoint you - all they want is your happiness! Is Brandon treating you like the wonderful girl you are, or is he taking you for granted? And if this is only the beginning of the relationship, well, it may only get worse from here... unless he's under the impression you're just casual and not serious yet?

Make sure you're both on the same page

He's just not that into you.

This....more women should watch the movie as well.

No they should not! After two hours of telling her to give it up, the guy ends up showing up at her door wanting to be with her. The ending was the opposite message of the whole entire movie.

Totally agree. Thanks. I thought I was the only human that found a complete contradiction there.

It kind of seems like he's stringing you along until he leaves. Don't stick around with that! If he really wanted to be with you, he'd make an effort!

Iawtc.

Youve got to keep on moving !

Do you want a long term relationship with these occurances? They will happen over and over just in different settings. You teach people how to treat you by not putting up with disrespect. Await an explanation, but don't make excuses for him.

You will not change him so you need to decide if this is what you want. Don't allow the drama to influence your decision, keep it calm and think it through.

Being married to a soldier I can say the military usually comes first(ex soldiers saftey) and sometimes the recepetion in some areas(hospitals) isn't great. But however if you feel you are not being treated the way you need to be then move on. Part of being with a soldier is those middle of night calls when they have to leave to handle, something that someone stupid has done. My husband has worked very hard to not make me feel like the mistress in our realationship which isn't easy all the time.

husband was also a soldier, he MADE time for me. a phone call to break plans isn't a big deal, or even a text to say "my buddy's an idiot, we're in hospital, so sorry I missed our date." I agree with a lot of others here, if he was really into you, he'd make the effort to make you feel special. That being said, I've got 4 brothers, and let me tell ya, they can all be boneheads, but their wives can't resist them. AND they were all taught, if she's worth it, make her feel worth it, and you gotta "earn" her.

He's not earning you. If he doesn't make you feel WOW! now, then what's going to happen later? I say, next time you make a date with him (if you choose to do so) you don't wait around. if it's at 7pm, then 7:01 you're outta there, and going out with the girls. if you wanna be vindictive, you could always no-show on him, but usually the high road is better in my opinion. "A lady doesn't like to be kept waiting." so quit waiting for him. There are lots of other marines out there, or other soldiers, if you've got a thing for men in uniform.