how long is long enough

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  • MoveTheMountain
    MoveTheMountain Posts: 764
    Have you tried duct tape and chains to a wall in a basement? She likely won't get out of that. OR a cage. CAGE! DO IT!

    That's really really funny! (and man, you can't beat a cage!)
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    2 years? Move along. See sees you as a puppet.
  • heatherrose9
    heatherrose9 Posts: 122 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward
  • tnrown87
    tnrown87 Posts: 134 Member
    He deleted his account! So sad. :indifferent:
  • _HeathBar_
    _HeathBar_ Posts: 902 Member
    didn't take long to deactivate..:indifferent:

    Lol I guess he didn't like the answer...
  • msjersey73
    msjersey73 Posts: 182 Member
    Go watch the movie "He's just not that into you".........ASAP. watch it at least twice, please. if you have already seen it...watch it again, twice.

    She sure isn't worth keeping, if she keeps leaving you. A REAL WOMAN WOULD NOT LEAVE YOU AND KEEP COMING BACK.

    find someone who couldn't bare to leave you, even for a day. That's how my husband and I feel about each other, we can't bare to be away from each other, even all day at work. we have been together for 6 & 1/2 years, and we are more in love every day! and we communicate all our issues with each other, no matter what.
    You know better, then to stay with someone like that, you may just not want to be alone. Go get out and get new friends and find a real woman.
  • MoveTheMountain
    MoveTheMountain Posts: 764
    Read this book:

    http://www.amazon.com/People-Lie-Hope-Healing-Human/dp/0684848597/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1340303725&sr=8-1&keywords=people+of+the+lie

    And this book:

    http://www.amazon.com/Codependent-No-More-Controlling-Yourself/dp/0894864025/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1340303761&sr=1-1&keywords=codependent+no+more

    (But first, move, change your name, get a new cell phone, etc. etc. etc... )
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    Yeah, you guys can stop giving advice now. He is gone. He probably went to stalk her on PoF.
  • MelissR75
    MelissR75 Posts: 735 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward


    I love you binary jester.

    Just out of curiosity, where does she go when she's gone?
    Plenty of Fish
    ^^ This!
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Since he deleted I guess I don't get to tell him he is a dumba$$...oh well.
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward


    I love you binary jester.

    Just out of curiosity, where does she go when she's gone?
    She's over at my place making sammiches and cleaning the glass.

    I thought that was my new job!?! :mad:

    You are in anytime you are ready baby. She wasn't worth a crap anyway......Kept putting mayo on my sammich instead of mustard.
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  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    persistence.jpg
  • SCVSarah
    SCVSarah Posts: 231 Member
    It's been long enough. I did the same thing with someone for 4 years. Unfortunately the behavior will remain the same for as long as you allow it to. Good luck.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    This thread has become a practice in who does NOT read the rest of the comments.
  • Emancipated_Tai
    Emancipated_Tai Posts: 751 Member
    I can actually feel the awkward

    :laugh: :drinker:
  • beckylawrence70
    beckylawrence70 Posts: 752 Member
    Probably time to move on.......
  • Emancipated_Tai
    Emancipated_Tai Posts: 751 Member
    Yeah, you guys can stop giving advice now. He is gone. He probably went to stalk her on PoF.

    Basically!
  • Jess81620
    Jess81620 Posts: 72 Member
    Honey, she's not that into you. Have a bit of time on your own and find someone who loves you just as much.

    Agreed
  • jillica
    jillica Posts: 554 Member
    Does this kind of thing happen often? 4 posts and poof?
  • Mhaney
    Mhaney Posts: 467 Member
    I've been that girl.

    put your foot down and tel lher to GTFO. She is acting like this because YOU LET HER.
  • Randyamc
    Randyamc Posts: 365 Member
    This thread has become a practice in who does NOT read the rest of the comments.
    ^^ This lol!! Made for a good read though!
  • tmauck4472
    tmauck4472 Posts: 1,785 Member
    Just out of curiosity, where does she go when she's gone?
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    She's over at my place making sammiches and cleaning the glass.
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    She must be the pregnant girlfriend your wife says is stringing you along :laugh:
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    This thread has become a practice in who does NOT read the rest of the comments.
    Yep. It reminds me of when I leave the room, take a shower, and step out of the bathroom to realize my boyfriend is still talking to me. It's like I never left.
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    If she cared she wouldn't leave so much. I suggest move on and find someone else who wants to be with you.
  • taxidermist15
    taxidermist15 Posts: 677 Member
    my boyfriend waited 5 years. and then when we did finally get together

    I went and left to go study on the other side of the world. But yes, we are still together, and worth every little minute.

    each relationship is different and ours is defiantly a one of a kind, people commment on how weird our realtionship is, btu each to thier own.
  • Pebble321
    Pebble321 Posts: 6,423 Member
    You are what I call "back burner guy." You are the guy she can go to to get attention when she's not getting it from the guys she's really interested in.

    Stop the cycle. It's never going to happen and you are probably missing out on other opportunities with girl's who would actually be into you.

    Sadly, I think this is probably right. I know it's really easy to stay and hard to let go - but if you let go now, I'm willing to bet that in a year's time you'll be REALLY glad you did.
  • cobracars
    cobracars Posts: 949 Member
    Have you tried duct tape and chains to a wall in a basement? She likely won't get out of that. OR a cage. CAGE! DO IT!

    If you love something, set it free, if it comes back to you its yours,
    if it doesn't
    hunt it down and make it sorry for the day it ever left you
  • seventwenty
    seventwenty Posts: 565 Member
    Not enough penis jokes in this thread. You've all lost the touch.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    You are what I call "back burner guy." You are the guy she can go to to get attention when she's not getting it from the guys she's really interested in.

    Stop the cycle. It's never going to happen and you are probably missing out on other opportunities with girl's who would actually be into you.

    True this. I'm sorry about your situation but this is the truth.

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