Standards? Do you have them?

Posts: 880 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
Do you have standards? Or would you just give in and sleep with anyone, if you were in a bad "dry spell"? Something i've always wondered about men (women too), just because of what ive seen some of my guy friends do and watching too much Maury :laugh:

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  • Posts: 1,799 Member
    Dry spell? Psshh.
  • Posts: 110
    Nope I wouldn't sleep with just anyone but I've also been with my hubby since I was 16
  • Posts: 34,458 Member
    Well.....women don't really have "dry spells"....unless it's by choice. :wink:
  • Posts: 177 Member
    Sleep with just anyone? No way. I have vibrators. They don't have diseases or bad breath.
  • Posts: 880 Member
    Sleep with just anyone? No way. I have vibrators. They don't have diseases or bad breath.

    LOL. love it!
  • Posts: 162 Member
    for me personaly yes i have standards. i know alot of guys that would hook up with just about anything that moves, but no spell is too dry to make me hook up with just anyone
  • Posts: 9,149 Member
    When I was single, I slept with pretty much any guy who offered. They weren't the ones I was attracted to (the ones I wanted didn't want a fat girl or decided to sleep with one of my friends who had big breasts to offset being fat).

    And to be clear, by 'sleeping with', I mean having sex (intercourse and all that).
  • Posts: 1,270 Member
    I think I have fairly high standards. I think quality over quantity.
  • Posts: 99 Member
    I lost my wife a few years ago, but she left me with the gift of 2 very wonderful kids. I owe it to myself, to her, and to them to stay healthy and strong. Part of that is not getting a disease by sleeping around. SO until I mary again I am not going to give in. Though after the rodeo there are usually seveal interested rodeo hags.
  • Posts: 172 Member
    Even on a dry spell I have standards...even if they do lower slightly. :laugh:
  • Posts: 107 Member
    "Classy ladies don't have one night stands...
    We hold auditions and you didn't get a call back"

    LOL this pretty much sums up my former single life.
    Now to be fair it wasn't EVERY SINGLE guy that offered.
    I sure had fun though lol
  • Posts: 162 Member
    Sleep with just anyone? No way. I have vibrators. They don't have diseases or bad breath.

    nicely put
  • Posts: 740 Member
    My standards have benchmarks...and performance indicators :wink:
  • Posts: 162 Member
    I lost my wife a few years ago, but she left me with the gift of 2 very wonderful kids. I owe it to myself, to her, and to them to stay healthy and strong. Part of that is not getting a disease by sleeping around. SO until I mary again I am not going to give in. Though after the rodeo there are usually seveal interested rodeo hags.

    props!
  • Posts: 467 Member
    I'm very selective. Not just any woman can have a piece of this.
    Plus dry spells don't bother me. I rather be sexless than sex someone annoying/stupid.
  • Posts: 566 Member
    No dry spells here, I'm always wet.
  • Posts: 467 Member
    Sleep with just anyone? No way. I have vibrators. They don't have diseases or bad breath.

    But then who will borrow money from you to buy beer?
  • Posts: 880 Member
    "Classy ladies don't have one night stands...
    We hold auditions and you didn't get a call back"

    LOL this pretty much sums up my former single life.
    Now to be fair it wasn't EVERY SINGLE guy that offered.
    I sure had fun though lol

    I hear ya sister :wink:
  • Posts: 467 Member
    No dry spells here, I'm always wet.

    I already told you, I have a girlfriend.
  • Posts: 5,044 Member
    I make a lot of jokes on here...but I do have standards!
    I'm not just putting him in anywhere..he might get sick and throw up!

    I can just beat him and do that!!!! LOLZ
  • Posts: 880 Member

    props!

    Serious props! Also side note... thats why there is condoms...just saying. But you make a very good point.
  • Posts: 237 Member
    yes. i have standards.
  • Posts: 5,030 Member
    No dry spells here, I'm always wet.

    Lol!

    I have serious STD-phobia. That's probably why I've only slept with 3 people ever.
  • Posts: 99 Member

    Serious props! Also side note... thats why there is condoms...just saying. But you make a very good point.

    Better safe than sorry.
  • Posts: 162 Member

    Serious props! Also side note... thats why there is condoms...just saying. But you make a very good point.

    i know for myself as a new single father that is a big part of my increased level of standrds. ive got two kids that are my main priority and i dont want to hook up with someone that i couldnt see being a part of their lives. not sure i will wait till marriage again but i feel you and have a ton of respect for you
  • Posts: 843 Member
    Oh yes...there's no way I could sleep with "just anyone"! :noway: Then again....the longer the dry spell, the lower the standards...maybe? :laugh:
  • Posts: 880 Member

    Lol!

    I have serious STD-phobia. That's probably why I've only slept with 3 people ever.

    I've slept with well over 3 people, used a condom with everyone of them (no gift giving, if its not wrapped up :wink: ). Never had an STD in my life.
  • Posts: 3,845 Member
    Right now? Pretty much anyone. Long dry spell right now.
  • Posts: 362 Member
    Yes I still have standards no matter how long the dry spell although get a few drinks in me, and they will lower.
  • Posts: 139 Member
    I am just waiting in someone to lower their standards ..... ;o) ... someone ? I actually mean anyone x
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