Looking for fellow stay-at-home moms

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  • Hi everyone

    I'm a part time stay at home mum, I work a Thurs, Fri, Sat now. I know just what you mean about not wanting to deprive the kids but also not eating as regular as they do. I found myself almost having 2 dinners for a while there :embarassed: . But thats all changing now, all the best to you all and add me if you wish, but I must say i'm aiming for a v low cal diet atm
  • PrfctGdess
    PrfctGdess Posts: 257
    I'm a SAHM (well, WAHM, but I work part-time from my computer) of three boys, ages 5, 3, and almost 2. It's definitely tough working in exercise/workouts around the kiddos sometimes, but you'll find something that works for you! I started at 205 lbs and I'm down to low 180's...hoping to get down around 145, but we'll see when I get there. :-)

    I don't find it hard to stay out of the kitchen since I don't like to cook <giggle>, but I DO find I snack less on days that I keep busy. As for exercise, I am fortunate to have an elliptical in my basement, but honestly, I don't use it all that much. I take our golden retriever for a run some mornings (when i can manage to get up early enough) before hubs leaves for work/before the kids are up. I have a Wii with Zumba, Golds Gym Shape Boxing, Just Dance 2, and a Wii Fit+ (which I like for yoga). Really, though, I'd have to say my bread and butter are workout DVDs, specifically Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred and Turbo Jam. I like the 30DS (or Ripped in 30 is another good one) because it also makes me do strength training.

    I wait until the littlest one is napping usually, and the older two will either entertain themselves for 30 mins with toys, watch me work out, or work out with me (which is ADORABLE!!). HTH!
  • My name is Brandi! And I am stay at home mom of 3! 2 boys and 1 girl ages 12, 6 and 3. I have learned that it is ok to take time for me and get my workout in before my husband leaves for work in the morning! I workout at Farrell's Extreme Bodyshaping, and have learned that I am a much better mother now that I get to go in and punch and kick the crap out of a heavy bag 3 times a week! I also struggled with food for alot of years. My biggest problem is finding a balance. I tend to have extremes...which has caused alot of body issues. In my 20's I was boderline eating disorder, which of course gets fed by people telling you how great you look when you drop weight! Now I am trying to do things the healty way and find balance! Feel free to add me!
  • apedeb09
    apedeb09 Posts: 805 Member
    Welcome! I'm also a stay at home mom of 3... (5 years, 1 year and 3 months). I have over 50 lbs to lose as a result of my two most recent pregnancies (my boys).. i understand what you mean by wanting to eat all day since we stay at home all the time. I started out slowly. First I got rid of all the junk food in my kitchen because i know if it's there, I will eat it! I've found that my weakness is chips. Anyway, I gradually started eating healthier and then I started counting calories and making exercise a habit everyday. I have no time for the gym either (not only that but I really can't afford it) so I just pop in a workout video everyday and make sure I do that. No gym required! :) I am going to send you a friend request if thats ok!
  • TheOnlyPink
    TheOnlyPink Posts: 4 Member
    Hi!
    I'm a sahm, i'm 26 and i have two boys, almost 5 and 7 months. I also have about 100lbs to lose. Would love for you to add me, i like having friends with similar circumstances and goals!

    Good luck with your journey!
  • trophywife24
    trophywife24 Posts: 1,472 Member
    Heya :) I'm a 27 year old stay at home mom - my boys are 5 and 2. We live in NC :)
    As far as going to the gym, I either go at 6am before my husband goes to work at 7:30 or I'll work out at home (currently hooked on POP Pilates) while the baby takes his afternoon nap. For staying out the kitchen.. I just keep busy. It's easier said than done but once you just stop doing it, you won't think about it anymore. Feel free to add me :)
  • ana3340
    ana3340 Posts: 13
    welcome welcome ... feel free to add me... i'm 23 and a stay at home mom as well . i have two little girls .. 2 & 6 years old .... :smile:
  • kbobb7
    kbobb7 Posts: 6
    Hi there! I'm a 41 y.o. SAHM of 5 kids, 18, 12, 9, 7, 6. I started putting on the weight when I got pregnant with my oldest child 19 yrs. ago. I have steadily put on weight with each pregnancy. I was so preoccupied with taking care of everyone else that along the way, I forgot to take care of myself. As time went on, I got depressed and just didn't care.
    About two weeks ago, my niece introduced me to this website and I have lost 7 lbs already. It is a wonderful site to help you lose the weight "the right way". I have lost weight (20 lbs or so) in the past, but always put it back on. I'm ready now to lose it and keep it off and be healthy so that I can play with my kids and not be embarrassed when we go in public. This forum is a great support system as well. It feels great to know that you are not alone!!! Please feel free to add me. :smile:
  • mrsheavy
    mrsheavy Posts: 33 Member
    Im a SAHM too - in the UK. With a little boy of nearly 18 months... I put on about 4 stone in pregnancy - have lost 2stone of it so far!
  • PrivateVenue
    PrivateVenue Posts: 41 Member
    Hello!

    My name is Jenni, I'm 26, married, and we have 2 awesome kids! Our son is 4 and our daughter is 9 months. I have always been overweight, but 2 pregnancies really did me in and I have found myself at almost 300lbs. As a stay-at-home mom, I find myself with 2 major challenges- being around the kitchen/food all day, and not making time to go to the gym. I hope to "meet" other mamas to hear how you beat those feats!

    I know how that is! Regarding finding time at the gym, I understand you need your 'you' time, but you could incorporate your kids into your routine. I do my own little circuit at home which includes using my three month old as resistance and I bought my four year old one pound dumbbells so she works out with me. Not only are you getting your workout in but you're teaching your kids healthy habits!

    Also, try to premake or premeasure your snacks. Keep fruits and veggies in plain sight, along with measured snacks. Grapes are great because as you're walking by you can take a few and not worry that you're overeating.

    Just take it one pound at a time! It's worth it!
  • ber3023
    ber3023 Posts: 146 Member
    I'm a stay-at-home-mom too. My boys are (almost) 10 and 5. I've managed my loss by just working out at home, no gym memberships. I understand about the kitchen thing! I do really well on my snacking until the kids decide they need something in the evening and then I end up having something I shouldn't with them! lol Can't say my pregnancies were a weight gain issue for me though. I was a lucky one who lost with both, since I was already obese. Had weight issues my entire life!
  • CharityEaton
    CharityEaton Posts: 499 Member
    Stay-at-home mom here too.
    My youngest will go of to Kindergarten in August, so I guess that makes me a stay-home-alone-mom then huh?
    I have three girls ages 5 7 and 9 years. We live out in the middle of nowhere and I love to cook so the weight loss journey was tough for me but I DID it...I'm about 14 days away from one full year on MFP! I hit my first goal weight in April and am now looking to drop a little bit more.
    You can friends me if you like. I'm a bit nutty and I workout like crazy now! It took time to get to this point but I will never go back! I love the new me soo much more than the old me!
    I understand what you mean by having a hard time staying away from the food and making tie to workout. It's hard to do but you can do it! I promise!
  • Kourtne_KK
    Kourtne_KK Posts: 60 Member
    Hey Im a stay at home mom my boys are 2 and 6 months
  • picassoadagio
    picassoadagio Posts: 407 Member
    Hi! I am a stay at home mother of 2. My daughter is 4 and my son is 18 months. Instead of going to the gym (because I'm afraid people are watching me) I work out at home with free weights and dvds and if I have to munch because I'm in the kitchen, the carrots are in the front of my refrigerator and I always have fruit on the table.

    If I can do you, you can do it. Since I have had my daughter (I weight 236 lbs.) I have lost 71 lbs. You are more than welcome to add me if you would like. :smile:
  • Mommareed4
    Mommareed4 Posts: 144
    Hello I am a SAHM as well: I have a 6 yr old, 5 yr old, 3 1/2 yr old, and a almost 2 yr old. I have lost about 60 pounds and now have been trying to get to last 25- 30 off.
  • abetterjune
    abetterjune Posts: 219
    Pity party going on right here: I WISH I was a stay-at-home or even work-at-home mom. What I wouldn't give to take care of my toddler all day every day!!! *sigh* Just living vicariously through all of your struggles that I wish I was dealing with hahaha
  • CountryMom03
    CountryMom03 Posts: 258 Member
    Hello There!:) Im 35 and also a SAHM to 3. A 13 yr old daughter, 11 yr old son and a 9 yr old son:) Also going to be homeschooling my two sons starting this next school yr lol. I have 60 pounds to lose and like some, seemed to gain alot of it when I left work. Feel free to add me as well!:) Just please remember to include a message in your FR so that I'll know who you are why your wanting to be friends:) :flowerforyou:

    ~Carrie~
  • MWojdak
    MWojdak Posts: 20 Member
    Hi
    I am also a stay at home mom to 2 boys, 5 years old and 11 month old. I know how hard it is not to snack on what to kids are eating and just going in the kitchen for something during the day.
  • brandivestal
    brandivestal Posts: 2,637 Member
    Hi! I am a stay at home mom to our 2 year old. Even though I have time for the gym, I don't have one remotely close to us. We live in the middle of no where! I have found many ways to work out from home and burn a ton of calories! Add me:-)
  • roodieroo
    roodieroo Posts: 25 Member
    Hi! I am a stay at home mom to our 2 year old. Even though I have time for the gym, I don't have one remotely close to us. We live in the middle of no where! I have found many ways to work out from home and burn a ton of calories! Add me:-)

    The same here! Our closest gym is like 20 miles away... so I push my almost-three-year-old in a stroller on the dirt roads or pop an Insanity DVD in! It is funny to watch my little guy work out with me, too!

    I am a SAHM, too. Feel free to add me or check my profile for more info!
  • I'm a stay home mom as well....and i need to about 30 pounds...please feel free to add me always looking to make new friends
  • Kat51313
    Kat51313 Posts: 18
    Hi there - I'm a stay at home mom of a 3 year old boy and a 4 month old daughter... I can barely find the time for laundry, let alone time to work out.... and the laundry's important, since I've dubbed my daughter "the Human Geyser." I'm in a very rural area, though on a state highway, so walking with my kids down a roadside would be taking my life in my hands, and frankly while I live on a farm, I'm still too out of shape to be walking up and down all the hills with a 13lb kid strapped to my chest and expect to make it home...

    Please feel free to add me - I sent you a friend request :)
  • Dorkaleena
    Dorkaleena Posts: 59
    SAHM to a 12 year old (As off tomorrow) boy! :) I'm stuck at home every day. One car household. So easy to be lazy and just sit on my duff a lot of the day. I've started exercising slowly. I use a DVD for core strengthening and a mini arm cycle for calorie burn. :) I do great with my food intake until everyone else is home. Then... it's a bit more of a struggle.

    Feel free to friend me if you have a mind to! :)
  • :smile: Wow! There are alot of us! I stay at home mostly because I am permanently disabled but I still have 4 kids at home, 20, almost 18, 17 (pregnant), and 11. I will soon be taking care of my new grandson while his parents go to high school, which will be a new challenge for me. I am planning on using the daycare at the gym in order to get my workout in and am just trying to follow my food diary guidelines while around food/kitchen all day. Just have to make up my mind that I don't want extra or wrong foods because I have the picture of the old me in my head that I WILL get back!! You can do it!!! Feel free to friend me!
  • kayla1025
    kayla1025 Posts: 104 Member
    Hi I am a stay at home mom of an 8yr old girl, and 5&2year old boys :) Im currently doing p90x. Trying to get my body back, have 10 more pregnancy pounds to lose still haha.
    Anyone want to add me they can. Can always use more fitness buddies :))
  • I too am a stay-at-home mom. I have 3 boys - 7, 3, & 2.... You would think I'd be skinny mini with the ACTIVE boys.... My heaviest was 232lbs and I went down to 202lbs doing this website and Zumba. However, my instructor hurt herself so I slacked off the Zumba and stopped logging my food; needless to say I'm back up to 225.4lbs.... :-(

    I started back on the website yesterday and back up with Zumba today. I weighed in this morning and am down 1lb.... :-) I know I can do this cause I did before.... It's such a struggle but I am determined!!

    Good luck on your journeys!! :-)

    Feel free to add me.... : - )
  • Hi.. I'm at stay- at-home-mom too (11,9,7,5,3) feel free to add me.. I too lose a good amount of weight but find it kind of hard with the children..
  • Stay at home mom, here! I have one son, Gavin, who is 5 months. I have about 100 lbs so lose, obviously not just pregnancy pounds, but those are there too! I need friends, so anyone please feel free to add me!
  • Kellymf2426
    Kellymf2426 Posts: 9 Member
    I'm a sahm of two boys. Chad that's 4 and Logan that's 2. Boy do they keep me busy!! Please feel free to add me ladies :)
  • Treesy72
    Treesy72 Posts: 230
    I'd be happy to be you friend. I'm in the same boat :)