Is it just me?
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Shannon2714
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I get SO irritated when someone does not respond to a text message/email/phone call/ etc. It really annoys me and stresses me out. And, of course, it makes you think there is a reason they aren't responding, then overthinking again....until your head explodes....
So, is it just me that's this effed up?
So, is it just me that's this effed up?
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b*tch, why you no respond to my dirty PM?
oh...I'm on block. d'oh!0 -
I used to be the same.
You can't let it get in your head like that.
Then the obsession owns you....0 -
Nah....my best friend took 4 hours to text me back today, but I just figured she was up north and out of range. Sure enough, she was at the cottage. So there are usually reasons. Maybe they are sleeping, having sex, turned their phone off for a movie and forgot to turn it back on, maybe they just need a break from the phone....whatever. It is NOT you! Because, of course, you are perfect!
Edit: I really need to stop typing in the dark.0 -
Only if I need an answer to something ASAP...then yes, I stress, other than that...nah, it's not that serious.0
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After about a day I get irritated too. Then worried something might be seriously wrong with them...what if they've been in an accident etc. By day three I figure it is me and no one loves me...then by day four the stalking begins...0
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normally I would say that if they don't respond then *kitten* them for being lame but I'm trying to be not such a bitter b!tch these days so . . . maybe they're just busy or forgot. I know I do sometimes.
feel free to flame me for this response . . . even I think it sucks. I'm so off my game lately.0 -
After about a day I get irritated too. Then worried something might be seriously wrong with them...what if they've been in an accident etc. By day three I figure it is me and no one loves me...then by day four the stalking begins...
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Yep, it irritates the **** out of me, but only because I ignore calls and texts on the regular and so they must be trying to be like me!0
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Don't make me stalk a *****. XD0
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b*tch, why you no respond to my dirty PM?
oh...I'm on block. d'oh!
Dirty PM???? Where? When?? GIMME!!!0 -
Don't make me stalk a *****. XD
So is THAT how to get your attention?0 -
normally I would say that if they don't respond then *kitten* them for being lame but I'm trying to be not such a bitter b!tch these days so . . . maybe they're just busy or forgot. I know I do sometimes.
feel free to flame me for this response . . . even I think it sucks. I'm so off my game lately.
Nope, no flaming...I love you ;-)0 -
Don't make me stalk a *****. XD
Promises, promises....0 -
My big issue is seeing someone texting someone else or writing on someone's profile, etc....but can't make the time to write you back....It just makes me insane....0
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I HATE to be ignored.0
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I usually 'read now, respond later' unless its something important.
I get SO many inane emails from my sister I probably only respond to about 1 in 10. Seriously, last year she sent me about 600 emails. Many of them are "its hot here, how is it by you" and we only live 100 miles apart. Or WOW that was the biggest storm EVER. That one is pretty frequent. Then there's the Town Crier stuff, like "make sure everyone is doing wellness checks on your elderly neighbors and family members". Or "this Sunday's paper has a coupon for 50 cents off ..blah blah blah"0 -
only if i know for sure they are ignoring me...yet are doing it anyway. that bugs me.0
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I HATE to be ignored.0
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<~~~~for you Op...since I'm on my phone and can't post it in here.0
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You're overthinking. Sometimes people are indisposed...for example, in my case, today I was at work, so I can't really talk on my cell or text too often. Then later, out to dinner, where I think it's rude to interrupt and respond to calls and texts. Then, to the library for a while.
But, no one was texting me anyway, so it's not a problem for me. But I've noticed sometimes my sister calls me on my cell and if I don't pick up right away, she calls me on my landline (yes, we still have one here). If it's dinnertime, I ignore the calls and just call back later. The other night, she tried my cell, the landline, then my husband's cell. We were trying to have a meal together, and it felt like we were being stalked.
I love my sister but enough already.0
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