whats attractive?

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  • LesliePierceRN
    LesliePierceRN Posts: 860 Member
    My husband had only one piece of 'advice' when I began working out.. "Just don't lose that butt." He's a butt man, he doesn't see much else on a woman, and he likes 'em big. Luckily for me, no matter my size, I have a substantial gluteal region.
  • sjsosu
    sjsosu Posts: 135 Member
    Attractive to me is someone that's playful, affectionate, generally upbeat, and expressive. I think when you have a real connection with a woman, she just is beautiful to you regardless of the shape or size. It's incredible when you're so in tune with someone that you can see every little detail of their expressions and know what they're feeling.
  • LosingWeight4Good
    LosingWeight4Good Posts: 156 Member
    Physical attractiveness to me starts with the superficial exterior. Luckily, many people know how to take more than a five second first look at someone in order to see the bonus attractiveness that the right personality and heart bring. I think once you get to know someone, you are able to see all the attractive qualities that you might have missed in the beginning. I am celebrating my 26 wedding anniversary this year - blessed to have met someone who was willing to take a minute to get to know me. He is incredibly supportive of my infinite weight loss attempts. (Pregnancy pounds must be extra somehow. LOL) Even when I hate the mirror and feel gross, and socially unacceptable, he tells me I am amazing.
    OK, I'm changing my answer... Attractive is being supportive, loving and kind to other human beings. ROFL!
  • tashaa1992
    tashaa1992 Posts: 658 Member
    From my experience, confidence is what a guy wants to see. I've never had that much confidence, but at my lowest weight I had more confidence than I do now and I think it showed because I had guys chatting me up in bars, whereas now, even though everyone says I look better now I've gained, no guy approaches me and I think it's because I don't have the confidence because I feel worse in myself. I'm not saying I WANT to be approached by random guys but I'm just trying to make my point, guys like confidence over how much you weigh. At least that's what I think but then what would I know lol!
  • Jani2416
    Jani2416 Posts: 275 Member
    When it comes to women, I'm a firm believer in variety being the spice of life.

    Great answer :smile:
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    Beauty is in the eye of the .. ohh screw this.. 6'3 230 cum to me

    I can drop 8lbs, but I can't be an inch shorter... :)
  • Dreamerryu27
    Dreamerryu27 Posts: 281 Member
    I think it's something different for everyone, but for me, it's someone who likes to listen to my ideas and thoughts and isn't judgmental. Someone who likes my outgoing personality and lets me be me wherever we are and could care less what other people think. There has to be the magnetic pull, sort of deja vu in a way Have we met before? I never judge a book by it's cover but one thing I do look at are eyes. When I can look into another's eyes and feel at home that is attractive to me.
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    There are plenty of beautiful women, but to meet a lady...to meet a lady that has brains, drive, confidence, boldness and can make me laugh...I'd do anything to have her be my partner.
  • 2muchsauce
    2muchsauce Posts: 1,078
    A big smile and some classy cleavage:) A fit body helps but if a woman is happy and comfortable in her own skin then she has an an attractive confidence that's very nice.
  • TitanGM
    TitanGM Posts: 1,161 Member
    This is like asking, 'which is tastier, banana or strawberry'. So I guess it depends on the person's taste.
  • apgant
    apgant Posts: 82 Member
    Attractiveness comes from far more than just looks. A great looking person with an awesome body can have a very poor attitude causing them to be totally unattractive. It's the 'total' package that makes a person attractive. (Of course this is just my opinion).
  • louisey112
    louisey112 Posts: 573 Member
    Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder...I mean beholder. Different people have different tastes. If we all liked the same "type" it would be a boring world indeed. I personally love my curves and not looking to get the look society now thinks I should have. I think confidence in anyone is attractive. If you're sexy and you know it...wiggle wiggle wiggle!
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,966 Member
    I like variety in women...
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