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If you lose it do you ever get it back?...

Posts: 1,176
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
I just broke the trust of a very dear friend of mine. I have broken their heart and rehashed some painful memories because of it :sad: Can I ever get this trust back or is it gone forever??? :frown: I feel so horrible and can't stop this sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. I wish I could start this day over again and keep my big mouth shut! :grumble:

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  • Posts: 2,615 Member
    I slept with my friend's ex that she was still in love with. If I can be forgiven for that, I'm sure you can be forgiven for the mistake you made. :)

    True story.
  • Posts: 275 Member
    Oh honey, I'm sorry! It may take time, but I'm sure things will work out.

    Mistakes can be forgiven, I also broke someone's trust not too long ago, it sucks and I wish I could make things right...time heals all wounds.
  • Posts: 884 Member
    depends on the people and the temperment and what you did. O.O
  • Posts: 195 Member
    I agree ....give it some time and space. Hopefully it works out for you
  • Posts: 228 Member
    My experience says that I if I have wronged someone, the only way I can forgive myself (much less them forgive me) is to do everything in my power to make things right! I wish you the best and hope that things can get better with you and your friend! I HATE that feeling more than just about anything in the entire world!
  • Posts: 310 Member
    I think what works is an apology and doing everything in your power to make it right, otherwise an apology is just words. Then the rest is up to your friend...
  • I can't stand it when someone is upset with me or I feel as if I did something wrong. I feel for ya and hope it works out :flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 1,176
    ^^^^ Thanks Ladies! I'm trying to make it right again but if I can't, I will just have to live with it for the rest of my life with a very broken heart :brokenheart:
  • Posts: 138 Member
    I can't stand it when someone is upset with me or I feel as if I did something wrong. I feel for ya and hope it works out :flowerforyou:

    I am the same way, its even worse if I feel like I can not 'fix' it.

    Sincere apology and space, helps.
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    I am the same way, its even worse if I feel like I can not 'fix' it.

    Sincere apology and space, helps.
    This is how I am feeling, that I can't fix it now that it is truly broken. They are the type of person that when they friend you it is for life but if you break the trust....look out!
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