Do Gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes?

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  • chocolateandpb
    chocolateandpb Posts: 438 Member
    Based on a totally unscientific study (by "study" I mean "all the time I've personally spent at bars, clubs, and parties"), I have to say that it really seems like men do prefer blondes. Whenever I'm out with a blonde friend or a group of girlfriends, the blonde ALWAYS gets the most attention. Always. No matter what her face or body looks like.

    My best friend is a blonde and when I'm out with her, I usually end up going home (alone) feeling slightly bad about myself because guys are always attracted to her, wanting to buy her drinks, asking her out, and I get ignored. As far as our personalities go, I'm super outgoing and smiley, love to dance and talk to people, and she's really stand-offish and has a b**** face (she's not a b****, that's just her face, she always looks pissed), and is really uptight about many things. Our facial structures are pretty similar but she has a HUGE nose which I would think would mean bonus points for me, but I swear it's the power of the blonde hair! Or maybe it's the fact that she gives off a b****y vibe? One of my friends says that men LOVE b****es because they seem them as a challenge. Who knows...

    Edited because I didn't know the "b" word was forbidden on here. :tongue:

    That's odd. I have never been hit on by random guys whenever I would go out and my brunette and redhead friends would. Maybe it's because I'm fat and they're gorgeous in comparison. Girls buy me drinks more than guys would, maybe I give off a bi/lesbian vibe that I'm unaware of. >.<

    Too funny - I can count the times I've been hit on by a woman on one hand. I guess I give off a very straight vibe? :smile: I was going to compare my body and my blonde best friend's body--she's a size 6, I'm a 4, we are the same height, I have more of a thin muscular body, while she looks really thick and muscular (neither of us will ever have the much desired "thigh gap" though). I have a rounder, juicier booty, but she has big boobs, whereas I hardly fill out a B cup. So I guess there's my answer: boobs > booty. :laugh:
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
    I think the dumb blonde stereotype is attributable to the idiots who dye their hair really light blonde because they think it will get them more attention, when in fact it just makes them look like a porn star. Which in turn gets them more attention...

    I'm dyed a ridiculously light blonde and take offense to this. I dye my hair to fit my style, not to attract attention. I assure you I am neither an idiot or a porn star look alike.

    You must have misread my post. Women who dye their hair in an attempt to garner more attention are the ones who I don't think highly of, yet as you pointed out you dyed your hair to fit your style, hence you don't fit into the category I described. Don't be so defensive.
  • DrMAvDPhD
    DrMAvDPhD Posts: 2,097 Member
    I think the dumb blonde stereotype is attributable to the idiots who dye their hair really light blonde because they think it will get them more attention, when in fact it just makes them look like a porn star. Which in turn gets them more attention...

    I'm dyed a ridiculously light blonde and take offense to this. I dye my hair to fit my style, not to attract attention. I assure you I am neither an idiot or a porn star look alike.

    You must have misread my post. Women who dye their hair in an attempt to garner more attention are the ones who I don't think highly of, yet as you pointed out you dyed your hair to fit your style, hence you don't fit into the category I described. Don't be so defensive.

    Yes, that is not how I interpreted it. But do you really think there are women out there that dye their hair just to get attention? It is more likely that they like the way they look with the dyed hair than that they think it will attract attention. I hope. For the reputation of women everywhere. Lol.
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
    edit: I thought better of elaborating...
  • DrMAvDPhD
    DrMAvDPhD Posts: 2,097 Member
    edit: I thought better of elaborating...

    Chicken :laugh:
  • Tony_Brewski
    Tony_Brewski Posts: 1,376 Member
    Whatever color of hair my wife chooses :D
  • davidr730
    davidr730 Posts: 126 Member
    I prefer brunettes but I'm not sure I qualify as a gentleman.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I like brown/brown/dimples.
  • phoenix_59
    phoenix_59 Posts: 1,123
    shaved...what can I say?
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I think the dumb blonde stereotype is attributable to the idiots who dye their hair really light blonde because they think it will get them more attention, when in fact it just makes them look like a porn star. Which in turn gets them more attention...

    I'm dyed a ridiculously light blonde and take offense to this. I dye my hair to fit my style, not to attract attention. I assure you I am neither an idiot or a porn star look alike.

    You must have misread my post. Women who dye their hair in an attempt to garner more attention are the ones who I don't think highly of, yet as you pointed out you dyed your hair to fit your style, hence you don't fit into the category I described. Don't be so defensive.

    Same here! My hair is dyed white - Im a photographer in two extremely style-oriented lines of work - rock/metal and fashion. Its become part of my style, had white hair for years now - but I did it quietly, slowly over a long period of time, and I did it for myself. I really love it and take care of it and it actually cheers me up on the daily.

    But if I dyed my hair white so I could get hot guys... lolololol I would hope I was banished from dates for 7 years as punishment!

    Right on.
  • DaGsGirl
    DaGsGirl Posts: 194
    I seem to get hit on more when im brunette or red.
  • treetpflyer
    treetpflyer Posts: 184 Member
    Brunettes all day long!
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    That's odd. I have never been hit on by random guys whenever I would go out and my brunette and redhead friends would. Maybe it's because I'm fat and they're gorgeous in comparison. Girls buy me drinks more than guys would, maybe I give off a bi/lesbian vibe that I'm unaware of. >.<

    Funny - when I was younger, I seemed to always attract the swingers. :laugh:

    I'm friends with a couple swingers, one of which thought I was cute and I had no idea whatsoever. Oh well, I'm not into girls so I guess that's for the best. :laugh:
    Too funny - I can count the times I've been hit on by a woman on one hand. I guess I give off a very straight vibe? :smile: I was going to compare my body and my blonde best friend's body--she's a size 6, I'm a 4, we are the same height, I have more of a thin muscular body, while she looks really thick and muscular (neither of us will ever have the much desired "thigh gap" though). I have a rounder, juicier booty, but she has big boobs, whereas I hardly fill out a B cup. So I guess there's my answer: boobs > booty. :laugh:

    Yeah, my friends were in all sizes and shapes, they just seemed to get more attention to me. Then I saw pics of me on facebook two years ago and I understood why I was ignored. My bf still notices when girls check me out, never guys. Oh well, at least I nabbed one. One's all I need. :blushing:
  • Icelandic_Saga
    Icelandic_Saga Posts: 2,926 Member
    Fun fact: Gentleman have a wide variety of likes!!!!!!!

    They like women of all sorts of body sizes, hair colors, eye colors, boob size....

    That's the truth!! lol

    I had a man tell me that you party with a blonde and marry a brunette
  • chazsucks
    chazsucks Posts: 170
    Actually I found when I dyed my hair brown a lot more 'gentlemanly' types seemed to be attracted to me :)
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    I had a man tell me that you party with a blonde and marry a brunette

    Why do people keep saying things like this? :(
  • Icelandic_Saga
    Icelandic_Saga Posts: 2,926 Member
    I had a man tell me that you party with a blonde and marry a brunette

    Why do people keep saying things like this? Like blondes aren't good wife material in comparison to brunettes. :(

    I'm just repeating what he said! but he wasn't a gentleman. :S His buddies agreed with him but they weren't (in my opinion) the cream of the crop either lol
  • Goose28in
    Goose28in Posts: 87 Member
    I like redheads (natural). Since alot of women dye their hair doesn't really matter what color.
  • Cinnamon0603
    Cinnamon0603 Posts: 149 Member
    Did do it right the first time, see below. lol
  • ExMaleWhore
    ExMaleWhore Posts: 7
    The first thing I do when I meet a girl is pull her shirt up and look at her stomach. If there are ab's, she's a keeper. I never really focused on hair, unless it's on her belly. But if that's the case, I'm probably moving on.
  • Cinnamon0603
    Cinnamon0603 Posts: 149 Member
    I prefer a nice round butt. Hair, who can see hair over all that *kitten*?

    It's nice to know that there are men like you out there............lol Wishing there were some in my neck of the woods. :)
  • _Wits_
    _Wits_ Posts: 1,286 Member
    Geezus...people have time to notice and care about haircolor?
  • hiker359
    hiker359 Posts: 577 Member
    Redhead all the way!
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    Redhead all the way!

    :drinker: :drinker: :drinker:
  • GodsGirl37
    GodsGirl37 Posts: 348
    I prefer guys with dark hair and brown eyes. if a nice blonde guy came around I wouldn't say no. it does seem most gentlemen do prefer blondes at least in the music videos.
  • ucpg
    ucpg Posts: 158
    wow can't believe how many redhead comments there are, woohoo!!
    :D
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    wow can't believe how many redhead comments there are, woohoo!!
    :D

    Gingers rule :bigsmile:
  • FitRican
    FitRican Posts: 98 Member
    Love them all....African Americans, Latin American, Northern Countries,. just have curves, curves , curves....

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  • markymarrkk
    markymarrkk Posts: 495 Member
    most of us don't really give a *kitten* about hair color.

    We're men, we like most women... the trick is, to find one that likes you back!
  • Romans624
    Romans624 Posts: 822
    Just read the first couple pages...

    Maybe I should dye my hair away from blonde! lol :(
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