Men is this really true?!

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  • xarge
    xarge Posts: 484 Member
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    Maybe for some, but definitely not for me.
    Stuck? That's b.s. If that's a guys view point, why be married? Divorce is the solution for "stuck."

    I think breast plants are awesome.
    I also don't want to bang a different girl everynight.
    If I was in his situation, I'd be like "heck ya implants!"

    I like variety, but by variety I mean outfits, positions, role play... etc...

    Edit: and wtf about warm place to put it? If he feels that way, he can put it on a frying pan.
    Seriously. What a dumb *kitten*. Him and his friend deserve each other.
    If anything is a waste of time, it's them.

    ^This. And I almost choked when I read the frying pan.
  • iamihobo
    iamihobo Posts: 232 Member
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    One, I can't possibly image why on earth you of all people would need a tummy tuck, and I would say if you were going to do Anything to your body at all don't ever do it for someone else.
    I don't think all men are like that, but I think women listening to men that are and changing themselves to fit that only encourages it and breeds more of it.

    I think you're gorgeous, from woman to woman lol
  • dkweathington
    dkweathington Posts: 69 Member
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    Some people are this way... not me. I'm in a relationship with my best friend, I don't want anyone but her.


    ^^^ a true example of a REAL man in love. xx

    agreed
  • dvisser1
    dvisser1 Posts: 788 Member
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    That's bull****, not to put too fine a point on it.

    Agreed. While some men are immature, the majority are not.
  • recoiljpr
    recoiljpr Posts: 292
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    Some people are this way... not me. I'm in a relationship with my best friend, I don't want anyone but her.
    ^^^ a true example of a REAL man in love. xx

    Or a man who's woman is on MFP and he doesn't want to get kicked in the nards...

    ;-)
  • Katalyst77
    Katalyst77 Posts: 79
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    I think breast plants are awesome.
  • Katahna
    Katahna Posts: 326 Member
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    Talking to my husband and his friend tonight. We got on the topic that I would like to get Breast Implants and a tummy tuck.
    My husbands friend says "What's the point?"
    Basically my husband is stuck with me. Although he would like to have a different girl every night. Preferably young with NO kids. Since he can't... He probably has to look at porn to get horny and I am just a warm place to put it.
    "Guys like something NEW." His EXACT words..
    My question do guys really feel like this?
    If so...Why the hell am I trying so hard to look good?

    I can't imagine any man feeling that way with you as a wife... what the!
  • Katalyst77
    Katalyst77 Posts: 79
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    What exactly are "breast plants"? Do they grow in any type of soil? What about zone? I live in northern michigan...can we grow breast plants here? Hmmm... my husband loves breasts... and his birthday is coming up... ;P
  • icreate
    icreate Posts: 60
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    Ops im guilty :ohwell: :ohwell: :ohwell: :ohwell:
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
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    He probably has to look at porn to get horny and I am just a warm place to put it.

    Probably? Girl, that's pretty sad you're feeling that way. I hope you two talk about this and work things out.
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
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    You should only consider breast implants and tummy tucks for yourself - NOT for a guy.
    You should try and look good regularly for yourself - NOT for a guy.
    That being said, if you're in a loving/caring/good relationship, you should try and do something a bit "more" for your guy as well ... why? Because it's a nice thing to do.

    Your relationship sounds pretty bad.

    Also remember, he's not stuck with you. There's always divorce. You might want to talk through your problems before it comes to this.
  • lkm111
    lkm111 Posts: 629 Member
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    If they just want something warm - isn't that the reason "American Pie" was such a huge hit?

    Your husband should want YOU.
  • dhiannon
    dhiannon Posts: 111 Member
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    Where and what was your husband doing when his friend was talking this much crap? I should hope he would have pulled his friend up on it.

    If you want implant for yourself then do it same with a tummy tuck but if you're doing it for your husband (who may not of even had the balls to stick up for you) then you are making a serious mistake.
  • Drenched_N_Motivation
    Drenched_N_Motivation Posts: 1,004 Member
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    Women, can you stop speaking for the men, because you really dont know. Really.
  • dhiannon
    dhiannon Posts: 111 Member
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    Women, can you stop speaking for the men, because you really dont know. Really.

    So you are saying ak men are shallow? Maybe you should stop talking on behalf of all men as you clearly have no idea!
  • Drenched_N_Motivation
    Drenched_N_Motivation Posts: 1,004 Member
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    Women, can you stop speaking for the men, because you really dont know. Really.

    So you are saying ak men are shallow? Maybe you should stop talking on behalf of all men as you clearly have no idea!


    Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.
  • poetgurl2005
    poetgurl2005 Posts: 90
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    Not all men feel like that. My husband always says that I look beautiful, even when I don't agree. He doesn't want anyone else. I can understand the appeal of looking at someone else, say a strip club or someone on television, but at the end of the night I'm the one he wants to come home to. Everyone deserves someone that sees beauty when you just see chaos. And if you want implants, get them. They are for you. I want a reduction, not for my husband, but because I would like to have small(er) perkey breasts. He doesn't even foctor into the equation. I'm just happy he likes the idea.
  • ChcolateLady11
    ChcolateLady11 Posts: 359
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    Some people are this way... not me. I'm in a relationship with my best friend, I don't want anyone but her.

    Sweet!!!!!
  • ExplorinLauren
    ExplorinLauren Posts: 991 Member
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    The guys that are like the the man you're describing in your post...are the sh*tbags that all men are usually based on.
    Not all men are like this... but, unfortunately some men are.
    For a lot of men "strange" is what they need, want and use to look good in front of their friends and give them something to talk about, and something that makes them feel better about themselves.

    Please avoid these people. You can't fix stupid.

    Nothing is wrong with implants, or tummy tucks.. or whatever you want or need ....
    the problem lies in idiots like whoever the hell you were talking to tonight.
    Your friend who needs a different girl everynight, prob just needs that "warm" place, because he hasn't had it in a really long time. And he is probably searching for more than a warm place, but can't seem to find it... most likely bc of said conversation. lol

    Just my opinion.. good luck. lol
  • hooperkay
    hooperkay Posts: 463 Member
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    Well maybe he was just being sarcastic for his friend. Hope so. I don't think most men feel that way and if my husband said that I would be upset. Not mad but kinda hurt. He has to look at porn to get aroused?? really ?? That's a problem. Normal men get aroused when the wind blows. If he wants a different girl every day, then why did he get married?? You have definately got yourself in a situation. If that's how he really feels, then I'd move on. Before 20 yrs past and I was like "WTF" why did I just waste 20 yrs on this loser that's cheating on me. Possibly givning me who knows what from someone. Got some thinking girl. There are plenty of GOOD GUYS out there.

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