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Love
How do you know if you are "in love". Do you believe that you can love more than one person in a lifetime? If you fall out of love with a person, does that mean you never truly loved them to begin with? These are the questions that are mulling around in my brain at the moment.
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How do you know it's working online?
By that I mean, when all you have is real time online chat and emails? The story so far.... I signed up with POF and after wading through the crap got this amazing message, that literally had me sitting there stunned. I didn't reply straight away, give it some time, re-read the message a few times, and still came away from…
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Healthy Food Options / Recipes
This past weekend we experimented with fresh squeezed OJ + vanilla protein powder, pure awesomeness. We also had some tasty raspberry, blueberry, strawberry, greek yogart and vanilla protein powder smoothies. Anyone else have a great food recipe they would like to share? Preferrably a healthy option!
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What would you think...
Okay I was wondering what you guys would think if you were the guy in this situation: I just recently started talking to a guy on I met on match.com, and we're meeting up tomorrow. He seems pretty cool, and I'm looking forward to meeting him. Anyway, turns out we have some mutual friends..one of whom I kissed one night a…
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Dealbreaker- not liking your pets?
So I know some of the single peeps have pets as well, but I had a guy that I went on a few dates with and he met my dog, tell me that my dog is crazy (he is right, but I love my crazy mutt). However, it got me to thinking that if a guy ever hated my dog or asked me to give it up before becoming official, that guy would…
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Soooooo........
Mr. Nice Guy and I had the TALK last night . Thats right talk is in big letters lol. The conversation basically broke down to we are dating (no **** lol) . However even thoguh he said he is not dating anyone else right now we are not exclusive and if I wanted to date others it would be ok... (ITS a trap ) He did say if he…
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You can be right, or you can be married
I found this article on line and thought it was very well written and wanted to share it. When the author asked people to really take a look at themselves and their part in the disintegration of their relationships, and not to just assign blame, the same lessons came up again and again: 1. Show your true self "Accelerate…
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What do I do?
I went on a date last night with this guy, He's hilarious, and we had a ton of fun. But in all honesty, I'm a super fun person. We had a great time, and I like him, but he may be too nerdy for me. And he's falling in to that "too much of a nice guy" category for me. I can be a super *****, and if I'm with someone I can…
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Same topic - a little over 2 months later.......
I searched to see when I had first posted this. It was 7-5-12. It was when I got the drunk "I love you" from my non-boyfriend boyfriend. Hadn't heard it since then and I am totally fine with it. I am NOT trying to be pushy with him......he's young and I'm old. That pretty much f**ks with his head. But I know we are moving…
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Are you having a tough time right now?
I know that I am!! And then this little narrative arrived in my inbox today: This is from the author of Conversations with God ~ Neale Donald Walsch (Great self healing kind of book if anyone's not read it) It's not meant to be religious at all, just think of God as your Higher self! (Or if you are religious, think of God!…
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Keeping the Faith....
I am currently dating an amazing guy. He is so good to me, goes out of his way to be amazing. He is so positive and supportive and I just feel so lucky to have him. That being said I have this weird habit of getting really nervous when the guy I am seeing is out drinking and such without me. I think because 2 boyfriends…
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I now have braces.
After almost 48 years. :ohwell: They feel odd but so far no real discomfort.
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Profound conclusion:
I've come to the conclusion that the only reason people have partners and children is to alleviate the silence and boredom of being on their own. Today, out of a social circle of about 20 friends, either single, married or solo parents, NONE of them are free! It's even dead in here!! I am therefore bored, alone with no-one…
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Boys, boys, boys! (sung like Girls, girls, girls)
I abso-freakin-lutely love men. They're amazing creatures and I love how they can be so tough at times yet so gentle. I love their big hands and wide backs. I love their smell. I love their crooked smiles. I love how they protect. And oh how I love to seduce them. That is all. :bigsmile: :love:
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Guy in the Friendzone, what should he do?
What should a guy do if he is in the friendzone, and the object of his affection starts dating someone else? Ladies, if it were you, and one of your guy friends really wants to tell you now that you're dating someone, how would you want the guy to respond?
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Married Woman Who Leads Men On, Then Gets Upset When They
What do you think about a married woman who always becomes emotional support for the divorcing men at work? She’s notorious for flirting/talking sexy with them, then after a long time of taking her out, hugging, and daily gift visits, she gets upset when they make a move on her. Then she moves on to a new guy. The guys are…
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we had "THE" conversation....
Well I guess at the moment I'm no longer a "single peep". The guy I met on POF back in July - we've spent most weekends together since then. Last weekend he met my kids and we spent the day in DC all together. That was a lot of fun. I should note - because I know this topic has come up here before.... he is a few years…
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What are you thoughts on...
Guys that ask women with boyfriends out knowing that the woman is in a relationship and he still invites her to parties and clubs? Also what is your opinion of women that go? I think the guys that do that have little respect for relationships and are only trying to get laid. I also think the women that go are disrespecting…
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Social Networking as a form of Communication....
In our electronic society, we've all gotten accustomed to email and text communication. Some even prefer it. But how much validity do you put into communication via social networking sites like Facebook or Twitter? Example...let's say you dated someone and it didn't work out. You part ways. Months later, you get a comment…
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Now what do I do?
I've come to the conclusion that I moved on too soon, I'm over my ex I hate his *kitten* now, but in no way shape or form am I ready to be intimate or even semi/close to intimate again. My case in point. This guy I've been seeing, we hit it off really well...he's very caring, compassionate etc. When we first met, I was…
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recent date
So I just went on a date with a guy I met back in Jan but he never texted me til a couple of weeks ago ( I know weird, right?) asking me to go to the movies I said yes then this past weekend I went out to dinner with him. It was just competly akward. Not only was he sitting really weird but he kept going on about how his…
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Security
I had a lady who I am very good friends with tell me that the basis for relationships is that men want sex and women want security. Is this really the truth and what exactly defines security if so?
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How do you handle?
Okay, so I had date #5 with "J" this weekend. He is great, I like him alot and am eager to see him again (tonight). Here is my question: a coworker asked me about him, and what time he left Friday night? Well, he didn't leave, he spent the night BUT I did not have sex with him and he was ok with that. She said to…
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From “Aww, that’s so cute” to “ARG! that’s SO Annoying!!”
Went on a day trip with Mr. BeardBurn and, while at a gas station, I couldn’t make up my mind what to drink. I was tired of water, and if I was actually gonna ingest calories, I wanted to make each one count. They didn’t have anything I wanted and as I walked back and forth looking at what was available, he laughed. I…
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Weekend plans?
seems so serious in here today, but, hey it is FRIDAY!! I have a date tonight--date #5 and I am making him dinner. Tomorrow I have my niece and nephew for the most of the day and then probably see date from tonight, then Sunday is my mom's bday celebration. What are single peeps up to ?
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Women be Women and Men be Men
Am watching Millionaire Matchmaker and was surprised to hear this convo between Patti, Hatch (the guy she sent to chivalry camp), and the chivalry camp instructor. Wow.. that's soooo not in line w/today's culture. What do you think? PS: As I typed, another part of the show, one of the girls says she likes a guy with…
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I've been on dates at my current weight before
I just realized last night that I'm at 'dating weight' I couldn't imagine doing it now, I'm just not ready to get back out there yet, and maybe I wouldn't be even if I were at goal weight. For one thing, I don't plan on living here the rest of my life, so why get into anything that might get serious? But in the past I've…
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Need Advice ASAP
So, I joined this Cupid website last week. I've gotten quite a few messages from guys but this one has made me weak in the knees. The problem is I sometimes can't see the forrest for the trees. For the last 2 nights we have instant messaged for a minimum of 2 hours at a time. He's been divorced since 2006, has 2 daughters…
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Emotional Reaction to a Long Lasting Plateau
After losing 66 lbs in one year, I've reached the nastiest plateau ever - 15 weeks so far! Basically gaining & losing the same 6 lbs repeatedly. I think I've been handling it pretty well. I've stayed the course & will not deviate. I increased the intensity of my workouts. I'm in week 5 of C25K. I started doing deadlifts &…
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What is "Confident"?
It seems that word gets used so much by men and women that it has become an undefined catch all almost without meaning. What are everyones feelings of how they are and exhibit confidence and also what causes them to see it in others? For me personally it is the ability to state my opinions on things and the ability to face…
