Trophy Wife I am Not.

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  • Power_Man77
    Power_Man77 Posts: 207
    As a great philosopher said:

    If you ain't no punk holla, "We want prenup"
    "We want prenup!", yeaah
    It's something that you need to have

    Kanye West
  • Happy2Shop21
    Happy2Shop21 Posts: 55
    I find it really sad that these adult children don’t care enough about their father to be happy for him. Sometime finding true love can be a struggle. When you find that special person who makes you complete, loved ones around you should be happy for you and celebrate your love for each other. They shouldn’t be hung up on their own selfishness or greed. Best of luck to you hun, sometimes you have to move past the feelings of other and live your life to the fullest.
    ^_^
  • bearkisses
    bearkisses Posts: 1,252 Member
    speaking as someone who hates her step-mother...my dad got remarried when I was 25. I am now 27 and hate her more for trying to be involved in my life but actually ****ting all over it.

    Who cares if they accept you. He is engaged to you and obviously is going to marry you. Leave his children alone to their own thoughts/accord.
  • clairabellle
    clairabellle Posts: 332 Member
    Thank you every one for your feedback, very wise statements from a lot of you :flowerforyou:

    I have done everything that has been suggested, but will carry on regardless and accept the status quo.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    They are 30, 36 & 38 respectfully.

    Why are grown adults acting like scared children? Do they stand to inherent a substantial bit of money?

    The only thing that will heal is time. You let him have his relationship with the kids, you continue to love and support him, and interfere little when it comes to them. Those are his kids, his life before you sometimes it helps to take an I Dont Care approach. You have your own life the only thing you have in common is him. You sound like a great woman it will work out in time.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    If it is over money then I do hope they are scared! If they are successful in their own rights why do they think they deserve Daddy's money? Shoot he could die and will it all to some charity organization and not leave them a dime. Thats sad if it is money and they are already counting down the days for Dad to kick the bucket. If it was me, my spouse they would get the bulk of the money. Just because they are kids from a previous doesn't mean they are entitled to the money more. In fact, if I'm right doesnt spouse have more entitlement to money?

    Sorry went off on a rant but the more I thought about these greedy over grown babies the more angry I got.

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