If you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?

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  • habit365
    habit365 Posts: 174
    Don't make decisions from a place of fear.
  • stop skipping gym class in high school
  • WW_Jude_V2
    WW_Jude_V2 Posts: 209 Member
    NEVER pay attention to medical people who say "It's going to be your normal....learn to live with it." Keep fighting until you find your diagnosis.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    To DO more things and talk myself out of less things.

    To TRUST my instincts more.

    To be more understanding of the men in my life...and remember they are growing and learning just as I was.
  • _Figgzie_
    _Figgzie_ Posts: 3,506 Member
    keep the same work out and diet and maintain your 8% BF!!!!!!!!!
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    Follow your gut instincts. They've been right EVERY time. Don't give toxic people any power. You can do what makes YOU happy and you'll still be a good person. <3

    (It's too bad we have to learn these lessons the hard way. It would be so much easier just to have it all pre-programmed in...But I guess challenges teach us gratitude, so it's all good.)
  • Gr8ChangesAhead
    Gr8ChangesAhead Posts: 836 Member
    Get off your *kitten* !
  • summerhaze71
    summerhaze71 Posts: 1,204 Member
    take chances... don't be afraid of living
  • jyogit
    jyogit Posts: 280 Member
    Never look back … you can't change whist already happened. Trust your instincts they usually end up being right in the end & stay single .. its much easier
  • DisinteGr4tion
    DisinteGr4tion Posts: 36 Member
    Hold nothing Back!
  • fredgiblet
    fredgiblet Posts: 241 Member
    Wear sunscreen.

    More seriously:

    Nothing that happens in high school matters, go for it, if you *kitten* up it won't matter in 2 years, if you succeed you'll remember for a lifetime.

    I know you think you want to go into IT as a career, you don't. I don't know what you SHOULD pick, but skip that.
  • heylookitsval
    heylookitsval Posts: 1,141 Member
    Don't get fat.
  • socalkay
    socalkay Posts: 746 Member
    Don't even get started smoking.
  • holagatita
    holagatita Posts: 1,785 Member
    stop dumbing yourself down for dumb boys! wtf is your problem kid!
  • Fitnin6280
    Fitnin6280 Posts: 618 Member
    Spend as much time as you can with family... They won't be here forever. Also, Listen to your mother. She knows what she is talking about!
  • Winterlover123
    Winterlover123 Posts: 352 Member
    edited November 2014
    Stop hating yourself. Learn to love and respect yourself and live for you.
  • DevilsNegu
    DevilsNegu Posts: 60 Member
    Don't be afraid and let people tell u how to be. Be u!!!!!
  • Miss_1999
    Miss_1999 Posts: 747 Member
    WW_Jude wrote: »
    NEVER pay attention to medical people who say "It's going to be your normal....learn to live with it." Keep fighting until you find your diagnosis.

    Amen! You NEVER give up! You keep fighting! There is always someone out there who can and will help you, you just have to keep fighting.

    As for me, I would tell myself that when I went into labor, and they refused to call Dr. Hinton, fight. Fight hard. Rip the I.V out of your arm if you have to, and tear those bands off of your stomach. Raise so much hell that he IS called, and not 12 hours after you've been in labor, before that needle is put in your back. Don't let them do it. It's not going to work. They're going to try 7 different times, and bruise your back severely for nothing. You will be neglected. The things you will go through are unimaginable. Push to get your doctor there. Get that I.V back in your arm and go to sleep. Have a c-section. Be able to remember your child's first year of life. Don't live in terror of ever becoming pregnant again.

  • mamadon
    mamadon Posts: 1,422 Member
    edited November 2014
    Stop. Eating. All. The. Food.
  • HaibaneReki
    HaibaneReki Posts: 373 Member
    That timing is everything.. I timed lot's of things bad - still dealing with it..
  • juleszephyr
    juleszephyr Posts: 442 Member
    OMG I would have to give myself a lecture, but the best piece of advice would be 'don't settle for second best in anything or anyone ever'... That would probably have made my life turn out very differently!

    Also no crash dieting and get fit NOW!!
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